After eating a meal, everyone was very happy, except for the third uncle's two sons.
The two of them forced themselves to laugh and finished eating. They were all happy when they saw everyone. They were just one person. Fortunately, they had a son and daughter by their side, otherwise they might be laughed at.
On a good day of reunion at Lantern Festival, my wife had a quarrel with them at home, she didn’t cook food, washed clothes, and cleaned up at home. As soon as she entered the door, she shouted loudly about quarrels.
How can I go back to such a home?
The two brothers looked at each other, then sighed.
Uncle San glanced at them and didn't want to walk over at all.
Xue Zhilan was used to observing his expressions and soon found that the father and son had a small conflict. He took the opportunity of toasting and walked around.
"Third brother, are they all okay? I just finished the New Year, so I probably won't be too busy."
"Not busy." Uncle San explained: "The hospital's project is still underway, but this period is a gap, and I will only need to be busy next month. Ah Huan is also free, and has only been busy with surgical operations recently. He
I had a major operation in two days, which was quite exciting.”
"I'm not here to ask him." Xue Zhilan had no objection to his two sons for the time being. Jiugu secretly signaled the direction of his two nephews, and asked in a low voice: "What's wrong? Both brothers were frowning."
Uncle San rolled his eyes and explained in a few words like before.
"Ling Ling had already advised me just now. Even if I don't understand, I have to figure it out. There is no way. They are all people who can't control their daughter-in-law. If their daughter-in-law wants to make a fuss, can I, a father, help me deal with it?
I cleaned up the snow in front of the door, and my children and grandchildren have their own blessings. My hands are not that long, and it is not easy to stretch them."
Xue Zhilan sighed softly and said, "No matter how old your son is, it is your son. You should teach him or her. After all, in terms of dealing with people, if your son is less than me, he will always be less than twenty years old."
Experience. You gave birth to them at your 40s and are even more experienced. You should say something and give me some advice, but you must not miss it.”
"Do I teach less? Are I talking less?" Uncle San said angrily: "They can't learn, nor can they learn well. Could it be that I want to talk about it like an old woman? I'm so old, can someone please help me?
They are good enough!”
Xue Zhilan laughed softly and said softly: "Don't be angry, occasionally bystanders are clear. I'll go and help you persuade me, but it may be more effective."
"Go." Uncle San clinked his glasses, then put the glass down and said, "I just drank two glasses, so I can't drink too much, so I'll be honored."
Xue Zhilan smiled, leaned over to his two nephews, and sat between them.
"Hello, Uncle Zhilan!"
"Hello, cousin!"
Xue Zhilan asked with a smile: "Where are the children? They were still here just now! Why did they all go out after turning around?"
The eldest nephew smiled honestly: "I said I wanted to go to the mall to buy things, so I went in with me."
Xue Zhilan nodded: "The relationship between cousins is good, and it's great to be with each other."
The second nephew chuckled: "They are about the same age and have always been able to get along."
Xue Zhilan took the opportunity to ask: "What about you? I remember that you two brothers have had a good relationship since childhood, eating, sleeping, and going to and from school together."
The two nephews looked at each other and laughed softly.
"Uncle, we have always been pretty good."
Xue Zhilan smiled thoughtfully and whispered: "Brothers have a good relationship, that's because you are born from the same lineage, and you are the brothers of your relatives. You have a good relationship, a good family relationship, and a harmonious family can be prosperous.
, right?"
"Yes." The nephews nodded.
Xue Zhilan took the opportunity and said, "So, you not only need good brothers, but also learn to handle the relationship between your daughter-in-law. They were all introduced to this family, so they get along well, and you are also good. If you don't get along well, you
It will also be affected. Just because your dad is in a bad mood tonight, it is because your wife has a little awkward."
The two sons shook their heads and sighed, their faces full of helplessness.
"Uncle, you're right...but we are really powerless. We have thought of many ways, but they always have to worry and make trouble. Tell me, we are two brothers, and we are not the same person, how can we do it?
Compare it every day? But they just love it. If they don’t like to compare with others, they will compare it with each other’s house. My brother is a little better than me, and my wife is not happy. I am in a certain place than my brother
If my sister-in-law is a little better, she will be unhappy. In this way, can their relationship be good? My brother and I are two different people. Although our parents are the same, we have different personalities and different jobs.
Of course, it is impossible for everything to be exactly the same? But they just can't figure it out."
"Uncle, the thing is what my brother said. My brother and I have started a family and started a business, and each has their own stable job and family. How can everything be exactly the same? It's even more difficult for my dad. It's hard for the palms and backs of my hands. Could it be that it's okay?
Which one will he be biased? What should he be biased? You can't let him stand in the middle with a balance all day, measure this and that, keep measuring it? My dad is unhappy, and we are all responsible.
.”
Xue Zhilan smiled softly and said, "The people in our Xue family are all people who are reasonable and friendly, and they are honest people."
"It's useless to be honest." The eldest nephew smiled bitterly and shook his head: "I'm too honest, so my wife rides on my head all day long. She doesn't listen to anything I say. It's fine if she doesn't listen, but she still makes trouble with me from time to time.
I could still bear the trouble at home alone. When she turned around, she went to her father's small courtyard. I couldn't stand it."
The little nephew sighed: "It can be said that it is too much for both of us to be honest. He said a lot of indecent words in front of his father, and kept scolding my father for being biased. My father only has two of us sons, and he can be biased.
Who? Everyone is his biological child, how can he be biased? Uncle, you also have two sons, would you be biased towards the eldest or the second?"
Xue Zhilan laughed and said, "You know this truth, but your wife doesn't understand it! Your main task now is to persuade your wife to be good. Even if the sister-in-law is not very good, don't make trouble in front of the elderly.
Get up. How innocent the old man is! He gave birth to you and raised you. You are all their parents now, and their children are all teenagers. You should know that it is not easy to be a parent, so let the old man worry less."
"Yes." Both of them nodded and agreed.
Xue Zhilan patted their shoulders and whispered: "If your wife just thinks the other party is good, you go back and say that they will change their units and residences, and ask them if they want them or not. Then tell them if they are again
If you dare to go to your father’s side to make trouble, the old man will ignore you in the future. In the future, don’t go to his two small families if they have anything to do."
The two looked at each other, and their faces were a little bad.
"Uncle, was my dad saying this? That's what he said just now? He must be very angry, right?"
"Can you not be angry?" Xue Zhilan shook his head and said, "But you are angry!"