Cheng Tianfang glared at him coldly and hummed: "You are so nice, what did you scold me just now? Why don't you dare to say it in front of my brother and sister-in-law?"
Xue Heng stammered and whispered: "What I said when I was excited... How can I count? I have forgotten what I said."
Cheng Tianyuan is not the one who catches others' pain, and he said indifferently: "Afang, stop making trouble. How can you count what you say during a quarrel? Forgive others if you want to forgive others, you are not a perfect person, aren't you?
?”
Cheng Tianfang has always been afraid of his elder brother, so he dared not say anything, and he has a calm face and does not speak.
Xue Heng smiled and apologized: "I'm sorry to let you run over in the middle of the night."
"What are you talking about with your own family?" Xue Ling said: "Go and pour a few glasses of water. Both of them are thirsty. Drink some water and go to bed early."
Xue Heng said: "You guys wait, I'll go to the kitchen to pour it."
Xue Ling sat beside Cheng Tianfang and whispered: "Afang, look at your kitchen. You have moved in for so long, probably haven't cooked a meal by yourself yet?"
Cheng Tianfang was slightly stunned and turned to shake his head.
Since she married Xue Heng, she has moved here to live. When she was in the imperial capital, she would eat and drink with her parents in the morning and evening, and eat in the canteen of her unit at noon.
When going out for training, you naturally don’t have to cook.
Cheng Tianyuan frowned and asked, "How much do you think you can get as a wife? Aheng doesn't know how to cook, but you don't know. He is busy in and out, and he is several times more busy than you when he is busy.
.As soon as you go out for training, he lives in the factory and works. Think about it carefully, you have already married and have your own family, so you have to have a sense of family responsibility. Although your work is important, your family is also
It's just as important. Look at your house and the floor, there's a layer of dust. Has he blamed you? No. When he came back, he also helped clean it. But he was too busy, so he ignored it.
At home. Have you calculated how much you have paid for this home yourself?"
Cheng Tianfang was silent and dared not speak.
Cheng Tianyuan continued: "He is a man. He makes money to support his family. He buys houses and cars, including your car. He also buys whatever you need. He also tries to pay for what the family needs.
You said that your unit is important, your career and money are also important. Have you ever asked yourself where the money you earned has gone? They have entered your own pocket and never paid for this home at all.
Bar?"
Cheng Tianfang buried his head and nodded.
Cheng Tianyuan sneered: "Then why should you let him fully cooperate with your work and career? You pay less, you get less. Have you ever asked yourself, what is your money for? You are promoted and raised for the sake of
What?"
"I..." Cheng Tianfang couldn't answer for a moment.
Cheng Tianyuan said in a deep voice: "If you still can't figure out what you need and what is the most important thing, then you will only do wrong things and errands forever."
Xue Ling hurriedly grabbed her husband and whispered: "Okay OK, okay, don't say too much."
Cheng Tianyuan sighed softly and said, "Career is important, but career is a job. You make money for your life and your family. If you put aside your family, then what are you making money for? You should work hard for your career, but your family
For you, it is a lifetime of happiness, and you should put it first. Now you don’t have children and the elderly are not old yet. You can still make money, which is the most relaxing moment for your family. If you are still so dissatisfied with reality, then in the future
What should I do? Ah? Children are young and old. Don’t you need to take care of them? You are no longer young, so why are your brains so unreliable?"
Xue Ling grabbed Cheng Tianfang's hand and whispered: "Although your brother's words are a bit rough, they still make some sense. You have performed very well on TV stations over the past year, so you can be promoted to the team leader so quickly.
It is your boss who affirms you. Next, you can still fight slowly, get promoted again and again, and there is no need to compete so urgently. This is something you can plan slowly. But the child... cannot plan. You are still young,
I know these. But I can’t get pregnant just by wanting to have children. I was very busy with Xiaoxin and Xiaochong before, and I spent all day in the mall, and my physical and mental pressure was very high. I never got pregnant during that period.
Even though we have never contraceptives, there are some things that you can’t plan step by step, so try not to try.”
"Yes." Cheng Tianyuan said: "Take medicine and contraception harms the body. If it is injured, it will be more difficult to have a child in the future. What should I do? Medical progress can give you medical treatment, but who knows what the future will be like
.Now your mother-in-law and father-in-law are still strong and can help you take care of your children. If you wait until you get promoted to a satisfactory stage, you will wait and have another child. Then the child is still young, but the elderly are old and need you
Take care of you. Then there are old people and young people, and you still have a job. I ask you how to balance it? Have you ever thought about it?"
Cheng Tianfang's eyes were red and she shook her head.
Xue Ling whispered: "Don't cry, it's not a big deal. Don't put pressure on yourself, go to work well, eat and sleep. Children should go with the flow, don't be anxious, don't avoid it, don't feel pressured."
"Yes." Cheng Tianfang choked up: "Thank you sister-in-law, thank you brother."
At this time, Xue Heng still did not come back.
Cheng Tianyuan went around the kitchen and saw him standing next to the electric kettle waiting to boil water.
Xue Heng apologized and explained: "There is no water in the thermos pot and it is being cooked."
Cheng Tianyuan stood at the kitchen door and said, "Look at what your life is like for you couple? Just imagine how your life will be like without the help of the elderly and not as close as we live?"
Xue Heng smiled awkwardly.
Cheng Tianfang couldn't answer.
Xue Ling shrugged and smiled, "Luckily, we are close now."
"But it can't always be like this." Cheng Tianyuan said: "My dad and my mom will always grow old, and so will Uncle Zhilan and Aunt. You should first prepare your own small family before you can take care of the big family. Now you are done accidentally
Be prepared, you will definitely be in a hurry and can't handle it when you encounter any situation in the future."
Xue Heng nodded quickly and said yes.
Cheng Tianfang stood up and walked to the kitchen to help wash the cups.
Xue Heng hurried to help.
The two men's swords and crossbows were gone long ago. Although they were not as sweet as before, they were obviously better.
"Okay, okay." Cheng Tianyuan led Xue Ling away and said, "I don't know how long I can wait for a few sips of water to drink. The water in my house is just right. We go back and drink and go to bed. Let's go to bed earlier."
Xue Heng watched them out before closing the door.
Cheng Tianfang wiped his hands and whispered: "...The water has not yet been opened."
"Wait a minute." Xue Heng said warmly: "You go back to the house first, wait until the water is cooler, and I'll bring it in for you."
Cheng Tianfang's eyes were red, and she walked out to hug his waist.
"...I'm sorry. I'm working, my home is messy... I don't even have a sip of water to drink. I'm just quarrel with you and vent my anger and stress."
Xue Heng smiled softly and stroked her hair.
"I also have something wrong, I was so excited for a moment. I also have half of the responsibility at home, and I have not fulfilled my responsibility."
Cheng Tianfang whispered: "Then we will correct it in the future."
"Yeah." Xue Heng kissed her forehead and whispered: "Don't put too much pressure on yourself, work cannot be achieved overnight. Look at my parents, it has been working for decades before they have such a high title and status.
When I was a few years old, they were just ordinary doctors. They had to go step by step and not hurry."
Cheng Tianfang buried his head on his shoulder and focused his head.