Cheng Tianyuan retorted: "When you think he is the husband of any other family, he is the husband of any other family. You completely ignore him, ignore him, and even drive him away. Then he is gone now, isn't this just right for your wish?"
Cheng Tianfang was speechless again, and after a while, he muttered: "I was so angry at that time. That bastard didn't listen to me, and he didn't say anything, so he almost pissed me off!"
"Are you less angry at him?" Cheng Tianyuan asked back: "You couple are still arguing less? He is angry at you, you are angry at him, what have you two got? Let me ask you, what have you got?"
"That-" Cheng Tianfang whispered in embarrassment: "What else can I do..."
Cheng Tianyuan sneered: "Since it's nothing, then why are you angry about him? Ah? Cheng Tianfang, when will you have a ruler in your heart, think about things carefully and measure things well?"
Cheng Tianfang rolled his eyes and whispered: "Brother, I'm too stressed. You said we have had children for so many years, especially in the second half of the year, I've been drinking tonics almost every day. Life can't go on like this! Want
What should I do if I can’t get pregnant? I have to find the right measures to help me quickly, right? I was angry that his family is a doctor, but he is afraid of medical treatment, which makes me so angry!”
Cheng Tianyuan understood the whole story and said, "Your father-in-law and mother-in-law are also opposed. They are both expert doctors. They can't say it, why are you in a hurry? If you are under great pressure, is it not too much pressure?
If you expose all your anger on him, you will be right? Uncle Zhilan and aunt both said that this technology has indeed appeared for a long time, but you are still young, so you don’t have to worry too much, relax and wait any longer.
.When you wait a year or two, if it really doesn’t work, then go and ask for help from this technology. They also said that the longer the time, the more advanced the technology will be, and it will be better then."
"I-I was already upset about waiting, and I asked me to wait?" Cheng Tianfang said irritably: "Brother, I'm not young anymore! Do you know?! They asked me to give birth anxiously, but they still asked me to wait?!
Don’t you think this is contradictory?”
Cheng Tianyuan was angry and put the chopsticks down.
"You are still a person who has studied. Why don't you listen to others' reason for you? Do you still have a brain? If so, think about it carefully. Everyone hopes that you will get pregnant soon, but nothing
People force you. Uncle Zhilan and aunt are both very gentle and considerate people, but I have never heard them say they want to force you. Ah Heng analyzes it for you, but you don’t. I analyze it for you, and you too
Don't listen. Since you can't listen, get out of here now! Don't bother me!"
"Brother!" Cheng Tianfang's eyes turned red and he hummed: "You are still not my brother?! We are biological brothers and sisters, right? Why don't you help me?"
Cheng Tianyuan said calmly: "What do I want to help you? Listen to you and let you do whatever you want. This is called helping you?! Do you have no brains to think about it?! You are my dear sister, I
But I still scold you and say - is it all someone else's fault? My big brother's fault?! If I weren't for your own good, I wouldn't be too lazy to speak. I'm not a nosy person. If you are someone else, I
Ignore you!"
Cheng Tianfang cried and whispered: "Brother, I... I may be under too much pressure. Sorry, I feel dizzy every day and don't know what I want to do, what to do, and how to do it.
Yes."
Cheng Tianyuan lowered his eyes and said in a deep voice: "You are not a child anymore. When you are a child, your father has trouble working. Mom is busy every day. I have to study and take care of you, and I have to help you.
Do housework at home and at home. Although our family is poor, you have never hungry for a whole day. Whatever the children in the village have, you have. Parents would rather suffer themselves than never let you suffer a little. But what about you
?What do you look like? Fortunately, you stopped, turned to good, and started over again. But after only a few years of comfort, your nature was revealed again."
"I...I don't." Cheng Tianfang quipped.
Cheng Tianyuan sighed: "Whether there is or not, you think it carefully in your heart. I don't want to argue with you. You need to read and study from time to time to suppress your irritability and selfishness."
Cheng Tianfang looked around and asked, "Brother, is he really not here?"
"I've gone abroad." Cheng Tianyuan replied: "He said you're annoyed and angry when you see him. He was not happy when he saw you, and planned to take this opportunity to go out for a walk and relax. I also advised him to change the environment.
, change your mood and hope to recover as soon as possible."
Cheng Tianfang was a little surprised and asked, "Have you gone abroad? Is he going far? Then when will he come back?"
"The return date is not yet determined." Cheng Tianyuan replied: "It must be that he will be relieved and come back after he finishes his work. Don't you want to see him? Now, let's spend the New Year alone, so as to avoid getting bothered and angry when you see each other."
Cheng Tianfang's face was not very good and whispered: "It's not... what you said is so serious. I just got angry with him."
"But he is already very serious." Cheng Tianyuan snorted coldly: "The relationship between people is the most inseparable from the struggle and hurt. When people live together, they must accommodate each other and understand each other.
.If it cannot be done, unless it is the parents who treat their children, others will not be able to bear it. Parents love their children because their children are their inheritance of life and are part of their lives, so they have to love them and are willing to do so for their children.
They are always tolerant and condulged. But the couple is different. They are two people in equal positions. No matter whether they are accommodated, they will eventually lose balance. Even if they have deep love, they cannot withstand repeated imbalances. Men and women can't stand the repeated imbalances.
The love, the years are worn out, and soon the intensity will disappear, just the dullness of daily life. If you don’t maintain this relationship well, you will lose it sooner or later.”
Cheng Tianfang sobbed softly and whispered: "Brother, I was wrong."
"You are more than this time." Cheng Tianyuan asked back: "It's just that you know your mistakes and don't correct them. What's the use of knowing your mistakes? What's the use of your actions and your mouth? Girl, please reflect on yourself.
Always relying on the fact that people love you and your husband, you can do whatever you want. The relationship between husband and wife can be as deep as the sea. Once it breaks down, it may be an "ex-husband" or "ex-wife" that you will never see again in your life."
Cheng Tianfang's lips were stammering, but she couldn't speak.
She didn't know what to say, but it seemed that everything she said was wrong. The eldest brother was right because what she said and what she did was completely incompatible.
Cheng Tianyuan turned around and cleaned the dining table and said in a low voice: "Don't look at my sister-in-law and I have always had a good relationship, so I don't have to worry about anything. Everything depends on management and dedication, and marriage is the same. Your sister-in-law is busy making money, and I must be busy too.
Making money. I have always had a gap between her, but I want to strive not to be too far away from her and not let the gap spread us. She is busy outside, so I am busy at home. I never care about housework with her, and she also
I didn't care about money with me. If I was petty, or I was doing some machoism, do you think your sister-in-law would be able to withstand it? She accommodated me and was poorer than her. I accommodated her and didn't do much housework. Everyone was considerate and accommodated each other.
Live a good life. Girl, marriage belongs to two people, not to you. You can take it yourself."