I like to take the trouble to share my insights with people around me.
But even my childhood friend Jiang Hao only listened to it for fun.
It even gave me the feeling that because we were friends, he forced himself to be patient and listen to what I said that he was not interested in.
And the reason why I didn't suffer collective ostracism like Li Cheng is because I have been this virtuous since I was born.
The people in the village have long been accustomed to it and think that I have this personality. I am consistent in everyone's eyes.
Li Cheng is different. She originally played well with everyone. She came into contact with metaphysics halfway and wanted to delve into it. She only knew a little about it but was anxious to enlighten the people around her. You should quickly accumulate virtue. Failure to accumulate virtue is creating karma.
Anyone who heard this would instinctively resist and think she was crazy.
Like those aunts who have retired and have nothing to do to study Buddhism. When they listen to the sutra lectures, they burst into tears. When they come home, they ask their children to learn together. Most of their children's reactions are similar to those of Sister Xiaoling. Don't mention "let go" to me.
Yes, I was confused when I heard these two words!
Whenever advice is given at an inappropriate time and the owner's own energy is not strong enough, the owner will easily suffer backlash.
You must know that people's cognitions are different. If you can't persuade the other person, you will be the only one who suffers in the end.
This leads to a sentence: Heavy rain will not moisten the grass without roots, and the Tao is broad and can only help those who are destined.
After Li Cheng listened quietly, his eyes gradually became brighter, "I seem to understand better. Now I am just a student. What I say sounds like a child playing house to my parents, and they will not take my words seriously.
Taking it seriously, they would criticize and educate me and try to persuade me with their big principles, but I didn’t want to hear it. The contradictions here became deeper and deeper, and I also fell into a dead end... By the way, it was obsession!"
She grabbed my hand in surprise, "Sister Wanying, you enlightened me! Suffering is not suffering, happiness is not happiness, it is just a temporary obsession. If you stick to one thought, you will be trapped by one thought. If you let go of one thought, you will
Freedom lies in my heart. From now on, I will no longer be obsessed with whether people around me do good things or not. I will only ask for myself, so that my thoughts can be liberated!"
"Those who cross by themselves will be crossed by heaven. If people don't cross by themselves, heaven will not be able to protect them."
I nodded and said, "Taoism talks about self-cultivation. The most important thing in self-cultivation is to be pure in heart, and the first thing to do in dealing with the world is to be cautious in speaking. When your own energy becomes stronger, you become better and better, and your aura will also infect the people around you.
There is no need for you to say anything at all, and a good effect will be achieved naturally."
"Um!"
Li Cheng nodded heavily, wiped the tears on his face, and smiled like a new student, "Sister Wan Ying, my biggest achievement this year is meeting you. Is this considered God sent you to save me?"
"certainly."
I looked at her enthusiastically and said, "Don't think that you are suffering from this kind of backlash. It seems that the whole world is against you and nothing goes smoothly. In fact, your own divine servant has long since
Your goodwill has been conveyed to God, and God also knows that you are a good boy. Maybe the way you convey your goodwill is not right, but you are truly kind-hearted, so do you know how the higher up will reward you?"
"And there are awards?"
Li Cheng couldn't believe it, "You must have lied to me."
I smiled and said, "I am a naturalized Mr. Tudao. How could I lie to you? Remember, as long as you do not change your original intention and adhere to righteousness and righteous thoughts, you will meet many noble people to help you in your work and life in the future. Of course, not
You won’t encounter any stumbling blocks, but generally speaking, when you need help, there will always be someone who will show up at the right time to give you a hand.”
"I'm not a famous Mr. Yin Yang, but your father found out about me from someone and asked me to come and solve the problem..."
I pointed to myself and said, "We met unexpectedly, and I happened to be able to drag you out of the quagmire of thinking. So, today, I may be the noble person God has arranged for you. This is God's love for you."
Living in a large environment, there are people coming and going around us. Some noble people are great nobles. For example, they save you from fire and water, help you open up a way to make money when you are in poverty, and there are many small people.
My dear, you will lend a helping hand at the right time at many unexpected moments.
There are even many small blessings in life. You happen to get a taxi on a rainy day, or you go to a restaurant without making a reservation in advance but there happens to be an empty seat.
Even more extreme is reverse luck. You unexpectedly see your boyfriend dating someone else. It makes you sad. When you calm down, you are thankful that you are not married. You can kick him out quickly and find a good match again.
All these are blessings given back to individuals by God.
Accumulating virtue does not necessarily depend on your next life. If you do your best in this life, what is due to you will be given to you.
So how do you accumulate this blessing?
Cultivation of yourself and your character, do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you.
Many people habitually convert blessings into making a lot of money and achieving great achievements. They go to offer incense to the Buddha and make a wish to earn tens of millions a year.
If you can't do something yourself, you can spend ten or eight yuan on incense money and ask Buddha to do it for you.
Lying at home and looking back and saying it doesn't work is completely putting the cart before the horse.
If you don’t have this heart, how can you enjoy this blessing?
"Yes, it is a blessing for me to meet you!"
Li Cheng looked at me with admiration in his eyes, "Sister Wan Ying, there is something I never understand. Can I ask you?"
I nodded and told her not to hold it back and open up to chat with me!
The sisters are so frustrated, I don’t know when it will be more!
"That's it..."
Li Cheng frowned, "Good people don't live long, and disaster makes a lot of money. What do you think?"
I laughed and said, "Isn't it true that good people don't live long, and disasters last for thousands of years?"
"The meaning is pretty much the same."
Li Cheng was confused, "Didn't the ancients say that being a good person without money will lead to a happy ending?"
"Do you think your father is a good person or a bad person?"
"Of course he's a good guy!"
Li Cheng said directly, "He has never harmed anyone, and my father is also considered a high-level person in the entertainment industry, but he has never had any scandals with artists. He and my mother were still high school classmates. My mother did not go to college at that time, and the two of them
We didn’t break up either. After we got married, we had my sister and me. Even I envy the relationship between the couple. My dad is definitely a good father and husband!"
"That's the answer."
I smiled lightly and said, "Because these are two different things in themselves. Whether a person can make money has nothing to do with whether he is a good or bad person. Whether a person is good or not depends on his conscience. Whether he can make money depends on his ability. In the same way
, Among the good people there are those who are capable and can make a lot of money, while among the bad people there are some who are cunning, lazy and greedy, and in the end they will be just bachelors with no luck."
Seeing that Li Cheng was confused, I continued, "It's just that some good people are too upright and easily make enemies. They will offend villains and be framed. And some people with bad consciences go into business. They tend to cut corners, make huge profits, and make a lot of money."
Money, everyone also hates such people, so this saying is spread, good people don’t live long, and misfortunes make a lot of money.”