"Sister Wan Ying, what if a good person doesn't live long and a disaster lasts for thousands of years?"
"Better understanding."
I looked at her, "Have you seen Huanzhugege?"
Li Cheng nodded.
I asked, "Who's the nicest person in there?"
"Is it... your concubine? No, Qing'er."
Li Cheng rolled her eyes cutely and thought, "Little Yanzi is too lively and always gets into trouble. Ziwei didn't like Little Yanzi anymore..."
I suppressed my laughter and said, "Okay, please name the character you hate most in three seconds."
"Queen!"
Li Cheng simply said, "Mother Rong!"
"Isn't that enough?"
I smiled and said, "Bad characters are more impressive than good characters, and even have far-reaching influence. So if a person is so bad that he smokes, like Zhao Gao, Qin Hui, and Wei Zhongxian in ancient times, just mention it
It makes people gnash their teeth. If a treacherous minister harms a loyal minister, it means that a good man will not live long, and he will naturally be stink for thousands of years as a disaster."
For example, I was in the newspaper three times, and the enthusiastic citizens who did good deeds and good deeds were also reported together with me.
But I am the only one who has a Tieba forum, and I am the only one remembered by the majority of netizens!
This means that good things never go out and bad things spread thousands of miles.
In the same way, pain is more impressive than pleasant experiences.
Whoever accompanied you to a hot spring bath or treated you to a meal may be forgotten by you when you look back.
If anyone touches your ears, they will push you to the ground and give you a beating...
You have to remember Bierluo for the rest of your life!
"I understand."
Li Cheng let out a long breath and grabbed my wrist again, "Hey, also, I listened to the class last night and said that you can't interfere with other people's cause and effect. For example, if a person is walking on the road and encounters a car accident.
, maybe he was hit and suffered fractures, but just lying on the hospital bed could avoid a more fatal disaster. And if I saved him when he was in a car accident, it seemed that he avoided the car accident, but it also interfered with himself.
The cause and effect may easily cause him to encounter other disasters. If this is the case, if I see someone who is about to get hurt, I can't help?"
"There are no absolutes in anything. It doesn't mean that just because you think you can lend a helping hand to others when they are in crisis, you can really lend a helping hand."
Li Cheng was a little confused again, "What do you mean?"
"Let me give you an example. Maybe you are thinking at home, I want to be a little sunshine, I want to be helpful to others, but if you really see a man beating a woman fiercely on the street, do you dare to rush to her right away?
Go forward and stop it?"
Li Cheng was slightly startled, "...I will help call the police."
"But there is still a time difference here."
I said patiently, "Many things happen unexpectedly. Even if you help call the police, it will take time for the police to come. The woman will probably be beaten to death in the next minute. So you
Do you need to muster up the courage to shout stop, or unite passers-by before they dare to rush forward to stop it?"
Li Cheng opened his mouth, seemingly speechless.
"We all think we are good people and want to be good people."
I said, "But in critical moments, we may not be able to respond as quickly or even as bravely as we think."
If someone fell down in front of you, would your instinctive reaction be to rush forward to check, or would you be so frightened that you would take a few steps back?
There are many instincts in his bones that even he could not predict in advance. Someone was passing by somewhere and a child happened to fall from a high place. He subconsciously caught the child. Even if his arm was broken due to this, he still held him steady.
child!
Did he figure this out at home?
Be mentally prepared, if a child falls from the sky when you go out today, I have to catch it!
No, this is completely a random accident in life with a small probability.
The moment he saw the child falling, would he still have time to think about whether to reach out and catch it? Would it affect the child's cause and effect?
I can only say that his ability to reach out subconsciously is enough to show that his psychological quality and adaptability are extraordinary!
If another person encounters this situation again and looks up and sees the child falling, he will most likely be frightened and run away!
Don't blame him, this is a very normal reaction, so it involves a wide range of aspects.
It doesn’t mean that I know in advance that if I see someone getting hurt on the road, I can help them easily.
In other words, I have decided not to help anyone and will never interfere with your cause and effect.
Neither of these ideas is necessary.
At the critical moment, you really don’t know whether you will immediately become paralyzed or whether you will explode on the spot.
Like Li Cheng said, someone is about to be hit by a vehicle in front of you. When you see the car approaching, do you react quickly and pull him to your side?
Damn, everything is unpredictable.
"I think it's better to leave this kind of thing to instinct. If my body movements are one step ahead of my thinking, I can help the best. If I can't help, it doesn't mean that I am cowardly or not brave enough, but we all
There is a self-protection mechanism that works unconsciously. When danger occurs, some people's self-protection mechanism will be activated first. After all, on the premise of saving others, we must also protect ourselves."
I looked at Li Cheng, "If you can save someone without thinking at a critical moment, then you have done a good deed, and you don't need to think too much about cause and effect. Since God arranged for you to appear at that place at that time, maybe
I just want you to save him."
"Once I almost drowned in the swimming pool, it was my noble man who saved me. Even if he changed my cause and effect, it was still a good cause and effect. Without him, I would not be where I am now. If he had considered saving me before he fished me out,
Shouldn’t I? I would have drifted long ago.”
I smiled and said frankly, "Of course, this is just my own opinion. My master also told me that everything in the world is impermanent, and life is determined but impermanent. All we have to do is to stick to our roots amidst the changes in life.
The heart, the direction of the heart, does not ask about the west or the east."
Li Cheng listened attentively, "Then I should do a good deed every day."
"It's a good idea to have this idea, but you really don't need to deliberately think about doing good deeds or perform good deeds in daily life."
I laughed and said, "Just like you asked your dad to release wild animals, you have good intentions, but you need to understand the river waters where the wild animals are released, otherwise once species are invaded, it will affect the ecological balance of the native waters and bring negative consequences to the native environment.
Disaster, do you think this is a good thing or a disaster?"
Doesn't that create evil causes?
Li Cheng lowered his eyes, "It's my fault, I thought too simply."
"Don't do anything too hard."
I said softly, "You should have learned that going too far is not enough, and things will turn to their extremes. If you hold on to something full, it will not be as good as it is."
Doing a good deed a day does not mean that I have to do something every day when I go out.
Even if the old lady didn't want to cross the street, I would help her across. That's called kicking her.
There are no performance indicators in this regard, as long as you have good intentions in your heart, it will be enough.
To put it bluntly, when a bunch of people bully another person, you don't have to stand up for the victim. Don't just gather in a group to bully others. That's considered a kind act.