Chapter 144: The Impossible Possibility (Happy New Year's Eve)
Zhang Haidong no longer has the intention to look at the fourth photo.
Everything that makes this place feel cozy is related to that "him".
Du Xiaoyin's family background and why he rushed back from the United States must have something to do with him.
His shadow is everywhere.
Isn’t this what it was like when we first fell in love?
It is said that first love is the most valuable, but why is it so valuable?
What's valuable is that we were still very innocent at that time, and we looked at you with love in our eyes.
It's just that Du Xiaoyin is not kind to others...
That scumbag who ran away doesn’t know where he is hiding and living happily now!
Maybe he is holding another woman in his arms and vowing to make love forever!
Really stupid!
Zhang Haidong felt sorry for Du Xiaoyin.
He took a long breath and prepared to have a good talk with Du Xiaoyin.
At least she is his friend.
He doesn't want his friend to fall into a deep emotional pit and be unable to get up.
Du Xiaoyin tried her best to find that scumbag with all her faith, but she didn't even know what happened to that scumbag.
So what if I can find it by then?
Will people definitely recognize you?
In the end, you can't move anyone except yourself.
He organized the words in his mind, turned around and prepared to have a good talk with Du Xiaoyin.
But when he faced Du Xiaoyin, he saw Du Xiaoyin looking at him with tears in his eyes.
That look...
It's like lovers looking at each other after being separated for a long time.
In an instant, Zhang Haidong felt like holding her in his arms, pampering and protecting her.
But reason stopped him.
No matter how much I like her in my heart, I will never do anything to hurt Du Jing.
Then he asked softly: "Are you still thinking about him?"
"Um."
Du Xiaoyin swallowed louder, tears covered his eyes and flowed out again.
Zhang Haidong felt a sharp pain in his heart.
This kind girl would rather get hurt than forget that person.
Where can I find such a good girl?
The more this happened, the more Zhang Haidong hated that scumbag in his heart.
The more I feel that that beast deserves to die.
Irresponsible and irresponsible.
He controlled his emotions and then said softly: "I don't know how to persuade you.
All I can say is don't be too sad.
In fact, everyone has youth and passion.
We have also been young. When we were young, as long as we met the person we liked, who would not chase after him? Which one would not make a pledge of eternal love?
But that was just the time of youth!
Can the love building built in youth withstand the wind and rain of these years?
We are not gods. We live by absorbing spiritual energy without eating or drinking.
If you've been separated for too long, your relationship is destined to fade, isn't it?
Otherwise, why do men and women in long-distance relationships often end in tragedy?
Because when he is sad, you are not around. You can only comfort him with cold words or voice. And if he can't feel the warmth personally, he will look for other comforts.
In this way, if someone around you really gives him a little warmth, then you are destined to be abandoned.
When you were given up, you might not even be greeted.
Do you know Redick, the richest man in the world?
He has at least tens of billions of dollars in assets. He owns the most profitable computer and mobile phone systems in the world, and he receives very little royalties from them.
But he is very busy.
Too busy to do anything but work.
He fell in love with a girl.
But he didn't have time to spend time with that girl.
So he sent a driver to deliver flowers to the girl every day.
A year later, the girl married the driver.
He was heartbroken and sent an email asking the girl why?
The girl said, because he is the one who sends me flowers every day, not you.
In the same way, you have been studying abroad in Tianjin for many years. Can you warm him every day?
impossible!
So when there are other warm opportunities in reality, he will choose to leave.
Of course, this also has something to do with the scumbag genes.
He has a wife and children, maybe he has returned to his family?
Or maybe he has already been divorced and found another woman.
Who knows?
So since you didn't give him such thoughtful warmth and the two of you were separated for so long, there is no need to dwell on those past things.
Things are different and people are different.
It doesn't make any sense.
Don't dwell on the past and don't fear the future.
You are too obsessed with the past, you should look forward.
Maybe the scenery in front is more exciting."
Zhang Haidong said all this in one breath and looked at Du Xiaoyin quietly.
People who are forever immersed in the past will become slaves of memories.
Whether it is honor or shame, he will be unable to extricate himself.
This sentence was said by the great Western philosopher Estan.
In fact, it is very suitable for Du Xiaoyin.
Sure enough, Du Xiaoyin fell silent after listening.
You can see the complicated look in her eyes, which represents her inner struggle.
Zhang Haidong took out the tissue from his pocket and wiped away Du Xiaoyin's tears again.
It has always been his habit to carry tissues with him.
Hesitation and decision represent a breakthrough.
He decided to strike while the iron was hot and make Du Xiaoyin completely give up on that scumbag.
He looked at the pitiful Du Xiaoyin and continued: "Those so-called people who love to the extreme are all used by literary and artistic young people to trick girls into crying.
They use their own pens to build an illusory world of love, and then trick those kind people into paying for their dreams.
You have to live a more realistic life, understand?
I didn't let you live like Jiu Mei, playing in the world and falling in love with everyone you see.
But based on your current conditions, what kind of good man can't you find?
Graduated from studying in the United States, from a well-to-do family, with bright eyes and white teeth...
Did you know that the person chasing you can travel from Tianjin to Paris?
How many good men have been waiting to fall in love with you but it's too late. You still can't let go of that scumbag?
He lied to you!
He failed to shoulder his responsibilities!
He cheated on you before getting divorced. Isn’t this kind of person a scumbag?
I made an agreement and then quietly gave up on you, without any sense of responsibility. Isn't this the best of scum?
What else do you think of this scumbag?
Isn’t letting go completely the best option now?
God asked him to leave you, not because he took away your happiness. But even God feels sorry for you, and feels sorry that you have met such a scumbag. He will help you get rid of it, and then arrange for someone to come to you who regards you as your destiny.
around.
do you know?
If you don’t meet the person who has eyes for you, just love yourself!
Dress yourself up well and wait for him!"
Zhang Haidong looked at Du Xiaoyin and said seriously.
After a pause, he then explained: "I just said that Jiumei fell in love with someone she met, which is not because I looked down on her.
Actually, I sympathize with Jiumei because she met a scumbag when she first fell in love.
It changed her life all of a sudden.
But I totally agree with her approach in love.
Once you meet a scumbag, let him go immediately. Even if you are heartbroken, you don't want to get close to him anymore.
Compromise and forgiveness are the greatest insults to love.
Be decisive in your feelings and never be sloppy.
In fact, in my heart, this is how I really treat love.
You have hurt me, you don’t love me anymore, why should I still think about you?
Get out of my world, okay?”
…
Du Xiaoyin did not speak, but listened quietly to Zhang Haidong's words.
She stared at Zhang Haidong blankly, as if she wanted to find something in his eyes.
This time Zhang Haidong did not escape, but met her gaze.
He sincerely hoped that Du Xiaoyin could come out of that man's world.
Because the outside world is really wonderful.
After searching for a long time, it seemed that he had found what he wanted. Du Xiaoyin grinned and then slowly lowered his head.
"When we started unclearly at the beginning, I should have thought and understood. Sooner or later, we will end unclearly. All of this was my choice, and I have no right to regret it."
After speaking, she seemed to have mustered up the courage, raised her head to meet Zhang Haidong's eyes and said: "If he can hear it, I want to say to him:
People only have one life, and there is no next life.
The wonderful things that belong to us only last for a few decades.
If I miss a car, I can wait...
If I miss a meal, I can make another appointment...
If you miss someone, you will regret it for the rest of your life!