"If Du Jing knows that you praise me so much, it would be easy for you to kneel down on a durian when I go home!"
Bai Yourong joked again with a smile.
Little did they know that Du Xiaoyin was in the bedroom at this time, holding the door handle tightly, tears falling down.
A voice kept whirling in her mind: "It's so delicious! Xiaoyin, your cooking is a talent! It's much better than my wife's! If I get divorced in the future, we can go to Lijiang together.
Open a small B&B restaurant! With your skills, you will definitely attract a large number of repeat customers, really!"
It's him!
It’s the Zhang Haidong from before!
It is difficult to change a person's personality and habits!
The hand on the door handle kept shaking!
Naturally, the two people outside didn't know what was going on inside.
Zhang Haidong smiled and said: "No. I am basing my comment based on facts! Du Jing is indeed not as delicious as the food you cook!"
After saying this, the bedroom door clicked.
"What's going on? The child woke up from sleeping?"
Zhang Haidong asked.
"Ah? You can't! It's been a whole day, and I just fell asleep for a while. It's impossible to wake up. Maybe the child turned over and the stroller leaned against the door again. The baby was sleeping.
, you know I like to turn over!"
Bai Yourong explained with a smile.
"It won't fall out, right? You'd better go in and have a look. The child will have to worry more."
Zhang Haidong said worriedly.
"He's only one year old, so he won't fall out of the stroller, so don't worry. I'm afraid that if I go in and turn on the light, I'll wake him up and start crying, and we won't be able to chat.
"
Bai Yourong continued to explain.
That makes sense.
Zhang Haidong nodded.
"Brother Dong, you have been tired for a long day. First, try my cooking, and then we can chat while eating."
Bai Yourong said, picking up the bowl and chopsticks.
Zhang Haidong nodded, and the two of them ate for a while, and after their stomachs were almost full, Zhang Haidong said: "Is it because of Liu Shan's affairs that you came to me today? Is it because you are still thinking about him? You can't get out of that place.
Is the pain coming? In fact, I think that since this is the case, it would be best if you both let go of each other. There is no benefit in always dwelling on the past."
"Haha! I still think about him? Look, Liu Shan hasn't said anything yet, but you are protecting Liu Shan first and asking me not to get entangled..."
Bai Yourong said jokingly.
Zhang Haidong suddenly felt embarrassed.
But he immediately responded: "I'm not protecting him, I'm worried about you, worried that you won't be able to get out of this temporary pain."
"Is it?"
Bai Yourong smiled and blinked, then raised his head and asked, "Since you care about me so much, you have to enlighten me today. Tell me what the correct view of love is! After all, you and Du Jing are so
For many years, love has been considered a success. But now I can be said to be a loser in love."
She laughed and laughed at herself.
"The correct view of love?"
Zhang Haidong was stunned.
"Yes! I just want you to enlighten me! If you don't teach me your experience, what will happen if my next relationship continues to fail?
right?
You have to teach me some experience.
For example, what is your attitude towards love? You and Du Jing have been in a stable relationship for so many years. How do you continue to love each other?
It is all acceptable."
Bai Yourong said seriously.
Zhang Haidong felt a little ashamed.
Speaking of which, Bai Yourong and Liu Shan's divorce also had their own factors involved.
The combination of those complex factors led to their divorce.
Last time, Liu Shan signed a divorce agreement with Bai Yourong without any dignity, and he simply comforted her.
There is not even any extra comfort.
Now that she is sitting here again, it is better to make up for her guilt and help her get out of the pain.
"Actually, I'm not sure what love is.
Let me tell you this, if the time went back ten years ago and I fell in love with Du Jing, I would pursue her regardless of my own safety.
Love is something that needs to be kept going forward.
I would rather marry her and regret it for ten years than regret not being with her for the rest of my life. I am more afraid of someone else having her than losing her! The next life is too far away, and I don’t know if I can meet her again!”
Zhang Haidong said seriously.
Bai Yourong seemed stunned after hearing this.
"In love, are all moths rushing to the flame?"
She said to herself.
It seems that he is talking to others, and he seems to be talking to himself.
"Working hard without caring about one's own safety can be regarded as a moth flying into a flame! Even if the subsequent love has to go through life and death, it is still a moth flying into the flame with wishful thinking at the beginning!"
Zhang Haidong nodded and answered.
Bai Yourong seemed to understand something.
No wonder Zhang Haidong and Du Xiaoyin were together back then.
Both sides are working hard, aren't they?
yes!
Love at the beginning is all wishful thinking like a moth flying into the flame.
Even if she and Liu Shan are divorced now, it's just that time has worn away their relationship.
Isn’t the love we had back then still as sweet as sugar in our memories?
It's just that the sweeter the candy back then, the more bitter the fruit is now.
Thinking of this, Bai Yourong's eyes turned red.
She took a deep breath and then asked: "What's next? How did your relationship with Du Jing last for so many years? Did you ever think about leaving her halfway? You have to answer this question seriously.
, don’t lie!”
Seeing Bai Yourong's serious attitude, Zhang Haidong stopped holding the chopsticks in his hand.
Cheating?
Indeed, there is, but it is the "self" from before.
Now I have just been reborn, and I don’t even know who the cheating partner was.
Tell Bai Yourong no?
Is your love going smoothly?
Or tell Bai Yourong that there is?
His mind fell into a fierce game.
After taking a deep breath and organizing his words, he decided to answer vaguely.
Then he said: "I don't know."
"you do not know?"
"Yeah, I really don't know.
Maybe I was too decadent back then, maybe I did a lot of things that hurt others, so my parents kicked me out.
Du Jing tolerated me unwaveringly and never complained.
In fact, this kind of tolerance is a kind of love.
Let's put it this way, when two people with different personalities come together, and one is willing to coax and the other is willing to bow, love can continue.
Only by making noise and laughing can you be happy.
Scolding, loving, complaining and tolerating at the same time, this is love."
Having said this, Zhang Haidong paused and continued: "Actually, I really like what Zhong Xiaoqin said in "Thirty Only": In fact, when you talk about the grievances in life, aren't they just trivial things?
If love cannot last, these trivial things will become the trigger for two people to separate."
After saying this, Bai Yourong was stunned.
She never thought that Zhang Haidong had such a profound understanding of love!
Isn't it like this?
It seems like this!
From the beginning, Liu Shan was willing to accommodate and coax himself, so the love continued.
When they were separated in different places during college, the two of them were missing and jealous, one making trouble and the other laughing. The continuation of that sense of happiness made her extremely sweet.
After getting married, he cursed and complained, but at the same time tolerated Liu Shan and borrowed all the money.
Doesn’t this mean giving all your love?
…
But later, Liu Shan left.
Yes, in fact, in the end, aren’t the trivial things in life what really crush love?
Love is like this————
First it made people blush, and then it made people blush!
Bai Yourong didn't expect that he would get such a perfect answer when he asked casually!
Tears welled up in her eyes instantly.
Seeing her sadness, Zhang Haidong continued: "I'm sorry! In fact, I understand how painful you are now!
But I can't help you.
You can only get through this painful low period by yourself!
This is what adults are like, they must get used to being alone and get used to getting through the trough period on their own.
When you get through the trough period and reach glory, you will know that nothing in this world can hurt you anymore, including the person you once loved the most!"
…
"I'm just... afraid that I won't be able to make it through..."
Bai Yourong lowered his head and said.
Zhang Haidong was thirsty and poured a glass of orange juice and drank it in one gulp, and then said: "What can prevent a person from getting through the trough is always regret and memories, you know?
Love is indeed something that can bind people.
But if you think about it carefully, you are the best person, but you still feel sad for someone who leaves you. Let him not cherish you so much!
How good is he? Does it make your eyes red again and again?
Don't regret ever being nice to anyone!
Even if you have been let down, even if you have misjudged the person!
Because you are good to others, it does not necessarily mean how good they are, just because you are really good, understand?
You have to forget regrets and come out of regrets and memories yourself!
No one can help you with this matter!"
Zhang Haidong said seriously.
"The anger you feel now and the disappointment are two different things. When you are angry, you will make trouble, and it will turn everything upside down! Disappointment will fade away calmly, do you know?
Disappointment will disappear with time!
You think you are angry now, but in fact you are saying goodbye to the past!
Only you can handle this level, no one can replace you!
Even for Tang Seng, he kept the most difficult and saddest relationship to himself!
The world is safe and secure, and I will live up to the Tathagata and I will not let you down!
There is no perfect love in this world! Do you understand?"
Zhang Haidong continued.
He just wanted to be enlightened, and he just wanted to pull Bai Yourong out of pain!
If this were not the case and Bai Yourong continued to suffer, her whole person would be ruined!
The world is safe and secure, both ways! Live up to the Tathagata and live up to you!
Bai Yourong seemed to have forgotten his mission, and tears flowed down like a tide.