Zhang Haidong wanted to argue, but after thinking about it, he finally gave up.
Wu Yao sneered and then continued: "What, what I said is wrong?
Don't you admit your stupidity?
For a man who gradually matures in middle age, his EQ and IQ will definitely not be as low as yours. Did you know that?
As long as there is a chance, I will not be in the same desperate situation as you are now!
I don’t ask you to form cliques. Even if you can ensure a certain contact distance between yourself and others, will you?
When I first joined the company, I started as a clerk!
Do you think the old fritters won’t bully me?
I promise to keep a distance from them!
You can communicate! You can help!
Once it crosses the line, I will reject it directly!
Tell them clearly that I have a bottom line!
They will respect you!
do you know?
It’s not required to get too close, it’s even more nonsense to be friends, at least we won’t isolate you together!
When I was promoted, most people agreed that I should be the supervisor, so I became the one!
I have money and ability, but I rely on my own strength!
Even if I become a so-called tigress later, it will still be the same!
keep distance!
I can use the people under me to do things, but I must maintain my own bottom line!
If you do well, the reward will not be less!
If you do poorly, don’t blame me for dealing with you!
Even if I scold everyone, even if I am what they call a tigress, when I leave my job, they will obediently come up and toast me with a glass of wine!
That's the distance!
The distance between colleagues, the distance between superiors and subordinates!
Look at you again!
Just like a little kid!
If someone is nice to you, don't be angry and give him some face!
You don’t even say a word to people who treat you badly!
Isn't this the temperament of student days?
Is it any different from those middle school students who don't speak when they are angry?
As long as you can maintain a normal communication distance and at least communicate, when you open your mouth, there will always be colleagues in the company who will lend you a few hundred or thousand for the sake of friendship! My salary at Huahe Group is not low!
Do you think about it?"
Zhang Haidong was stunned.
No.
Wu Yao continued: "No, right?
Well!
You have worked so hard and achieved such good results for Huahe Group. For the sake of performance and affection, I should lend you some money!
Not to mention 350,000, if I am in a good mood, I will pay back the 600,000 for you!
It’s nothing, I just think you are good!
At least it makes me feel comfortable!
Think about it again, is there any?"
Wu Yao asked again.
Zhang Haidong was stunned.
nor.
After saying that, Wu Yao continued to snort coldly: "Even if you go to Xiao Yin..."
Halfway through, he seemed to feel that he had missed something, so he quickly stopped and said, "Even if you go to Xiaoyin, for my sake, Xiaoyin can lend it to you even if it costs three to five hundred!"
"Tell me, is there anyone who can lend you money now? Or do you have anyone in mind?"
Wu Yao said, regaining his momentum and questioning.
"No……"
Zhang Haidong replied.
"So! I said you are selfish! I said you are stupid but don't know how stupid you are!
Which one is wrong!
Are you so stupid? Say it yourself!
Even if you erase 30 years of your life, counting from the time you entered the company, you will not be as bad as you!
If I want to lend you money, you must at least make me feel comfortable!
Lend it to someone who talks back all the time?
If it were you, wouldn't you be angry?
You say it yourself!”
Wu Yao pointed at him and asked.
…
"You don't even have the most basic connections, and you don't even have the most basic connections. Tell me, why do you walk out of a desperate situation when something happens?
Um?
Did you try your best?
As a middle-aged man, do you always arm yourself?
Do you have?
You only know how to selfishly think about your own bad things. If you think you have done a good job for yourself, you don’t owe anyone!
So selfish that you don’t consider other people’s feelings!
Just go ahead and make your own decisions!
What if you sell blood and get AIDS this time?
Have you ever thought about your wife at home?
Have you ever thought about the children in your family?
you tell me!
It is said that a middle-aged man is surrounded by people who need to rely on him!
But look at what a bear you are now!
The smell of cigarette smoke makes your hair look like a doghouse!
Who can rely on you!"
Wu Yao's words were like a knife piercing Zhang Haidong's heart.
He was in so much pain that he couldn't breathe.
He knew that he was wrong...
He still has the heart of his youth, and no matter what he has experienced, he still uses the methods of his youth to deal with problems...
I feel very mature about doing my duty...
But in the eyes of others, it's just a joke...
It's childish and leaves people speechless.
Taking his current performance as an example, he is far from a mature middle-aged man.
That’s why I got to where I am today!
That’s why we reached this desperate situation!
…
"If you don't say anything today, I will penetrate you!"
Wu Yao continued.
"I can see your efforts, but I can't see your spirit!
I can see your depression, but I can't see the light of hope in your eyes!
You are just like the ordinary people in society, working hard every day at your workplace doing 996, or even 997.
But I can't see the slightest hope of moving forward, and I still laugh at myself from time to time that I am a social animal!
Why should I take you, Zhang Haidong, to the new company instead of taking someone else with me?
Because I value you!
I hope you can grow up quickly and make great achievements in this realistic and cruel world, you know?
You should not regard yourself as an ordinary person, you should treat yourself as a core person!"
Wu Yao was so angry that her chest rose and fell violently.
Zhang Haidong was stunned.
It turns out that this is what it means to bring yourself to a new company!
Wu Yao promoted herself so that she could achieve great success in the new company!
Too stupid!
Too self-centered!
At the company's annual reception, he avoided her like that!
I……
Zhang Haidong felt regretful in his mind.
"Not only did you fail to pave the way for your future, you are still here all day long feeling sorry for yourself!
What's the difference between you and those Adou who can't help you?
As a man, if you want to soar into the sky and make great achievements in the future, shouldn't you constantly enrich yourself, expand your network, and then strengthen your mentality to be more reliable in desperate situations?
Do you have it now?"
Zhang Haidong lowered his head.
No.
Seeing his slightly regretful look, Wu Yao softened her tone slightly, and then asked Zhang Haidong: "Have you seen The Shawshank Redemption?"
"Seen……"
This movie is very famous, and everyone says it is a must-see movie for men, so Zhang Haidong watched it early on Qvod.
At that time, I didn’t have any feelings after watching this movie, but looking back now, isn’t that the situation many people are in?
Desperate situation!
Desperate survival!
"You haven't understood it yet?
What is The Shawshank Redemption about?
The entire story of The Shawshank Redemption is about a man’s hope!
Andy was wrongly accused for more than thirty years and was imprisoned in the most cruel Shawshank Prison. The warden said to him: Give your soul to God and give your body to me!
It's equivalent to sentencing him to death!
do you know?
For thirty years, his hope has not been lost!
He used the small hammer that Red brought in and used the poster to hide the secret passage.
In the gap of despair, it took twenty years to finally find a chance to make a comeback!
This opportunity was gained by him constantly improving himself and expanding his network of contacts while in prison!
He finally completed his pursuit of faith!
The desire for freedom is fulfilled!
Such a man!
Such a desperate situation!
How can you not let others appreciate it!
Do you think those people were actors who went to see Andy?
Those people are looking for redemption!
A man's salvation in desperate situation!
A man in desperate situation always has the light of hope in his eyes!
Such men are the most attractive!"
Having said this, Wu Yao picked up the cup and touched it with Zhang Haidong again.
Zhang Haidong felt something the same in his heart, and there seemed to be something extra in his eyes.
"Even if you can't understand The Shawshank Redemption, you should be able to understand these Internet giants in China!