After thinking about it, he said tentatively: "Bai Yourong wants to maintain your own family, and there is nothing wrong with that. After all, both of you need to constantly get along. You can try to change it and change yourself.
, and then we can harmonize the family. Isn’t this the truth?”
After listening to this, Liu Shan narrowed his eyes slightly: "Brother Dong, no wonder you have regained your former vitality. It turns out that you have begun to make changes. Tell me, did Du Jing give you some ecstasy soup?"
"When you have a family, you need to make some sacrifices. Look at my old man, after so many years, he still allows me, pampers me, and works hard without complaint." The landlady served a plate of bones and meat, and then went to grill it.
Stringed together.
"But not everyone will live like the boss!" Liu Shan sighed after taking a sip of wine.
"..."
"Brother Dong, tell me, no matter when the relationship started between husband and wife, no matter how pure it was at the beginning, or how strong the alliance was, once it goes on for a long time, will it make you very tired and irritable?
..." Liu Shan had two drinks, and his eyes were a little red.
Zhang Haidong was silent again for a while.
This topic is very heavy.
Everyone has shortcomings, and no one is a saint. But in love, if you cannot tolerate or understand the shortcomings of the other party, and both parties are the same, there will be constant contradictions and conflicts, and it is impossible to be together.
Liu Shan and Bai Yourong are serious first loves!
Their love has been more than ten years!
How many more than ten years of companionship can there be in life! From the initial romantic beauty, to the eternal vows of eternal love, to the tears of entering the marriage hall, to the joy of welcoming the birth of a little life... This is so romantic and beautiful.
process.
They fulfilled the love promise they had made to each other, and also completed the continuation of their new lives.
At this time, shouldn't there be a stronger motivation to fight for this family, to fight for this family!
Why are you tired?
"Maybe you can try to get along again, try to be more tolerant, and understand from the other person's point of view." Zhang Haidong thought about it and could only answer like this.
"Be tolerant...ha..." Liu Shan smiled bitterly and bit his lip.
Then he took another sip, and then continued: "Brother Dong, we have been married for ten years, and I feel that she is becoming more and more strange. Every day is the same life, go to work, go home, cook, wash dishes
, watch TV, and then go to bed. She will not understand my work content, and I will not understand her spiritual world. It is like two parts on a machine, installed together, and it just works.
Forget it. But it may be that it has been worn for too long, and the so-called tolerance and understanding no longer exist."
Liu Shan pressed his temples and thought for a moment, then gestured: "It's like two most familiar strangers. They already know each other very well, but they are also very strange. Once there is a problem, there will only be quarrels and arguments.
Only then will it become the final outcome.”
The most familiar stranger!
Zhang Haidong seemed to be shaken, but he quickly calmed down, and then continued: "Communicate with her more often, or find some time to go out and relax, have fun and relax. This may be the best way to enhance your relationship.
No matter what happens to you two, now that you have a child, you still have to consider how your child will feel in the future, don't you think so?"
"Yes, I have a child." Liu Shan seemed to be sighing to himself, or perhaps mocking himself.
The two of them had already shared a bottle. Zhang Haidong gained some energy and said with a blushing face: "Liu Shan, in fact Bai Yourong only hangs around your own little home, which means that she loves you. Of course... of course...
…There may be times when you really get bored…”
Maybe because he drank too much, Zhang Haidong had a big tongue.
"Yeah, sometimes it's really annoying. It seems that it's not just me, but everyone is like this." Liu Shan sighed with emotion. Inadvertently, a mysterious smile appeared on the corner of his mouth, and then he said
Hide in an instant and disappear.
Zhang Haidong made a mistake...
He made an unforgivable mistake, but he didn't realize it yet.
If certain seeds are planted in a person's heart, they will take root and sprout under the stimulation of external forces and empathy, and even grow into a towering tree.
"Okay, okay. It's hard for us brothers to sit out for once, shouldn't we have a good time and talk about some light topics." Liu Shan waved his hand and greeted: "Madam, please have another bottle of Rose Fen. And, ten
A kidney, the more voluptuous the better, it is a great supplement."
"Okay, no problem!"
…
It seemed that they had abandoned the heavy topics before. As the two of them ate and drank, they began to feel relaxed.
"Brother Dong, do you still remember the top student in our class? She was the girl with the two big pancake glasses, Chu Qing. She always liked you back then, wrote you love letters, and brought you food every day.
He said that he would take you to study hard and get admitted to Northern University together! You were so charming at that time! But after the general cleaning, you broke into the women's bathroom and peeked at people changing sanitary napkins. You were caught and told the teacher, and then the whole school was criticized.
!Hahahaha." Liu Shan said, laughing so hard.
"Yes, I remember that girl! But, I really didn't go in specifically to take a peek. That cheater Liu Zhi said that the women's bathroom was empty, so the teacher asked me to clean it, so I went there. He is the class representative, and I
You can’t help but listen to him.”
"Hahaha, yes, the whole school laughed at you for two years." Liu Shan said happily.
"Don't laugh at me. You were not chasing after Bai Yourong at first, but Xiao Lai from Class 106. You wrote a love letter to Xiao Lai, and then the teacher found it and read it out in front of the whole school. Later Xiao La
I never talked to you again, and you went around telling people that you were stalking others." Zhang Haidong also smiled at Liu Shan.
"Yes! She had just agreed to have a relationship with me, and I thought about sending her home every day to deepen our relationship. Who knew that as soon as something happened, she would immediately distance herself from me? She is really cold-blooded! That would be
You have been laughing at her for a long time, saying that she is my ex-girlfriend and that I was hurt by my ex-girlfriend." Liu Shan recalled, smiling, as if he was back to the age of 18, and shed tears of happiness.
"That's not true. You have been sad about this matter for a long time, and you are completely depressed. No matter how hard your brothers try to persuade you, it's Bai Yourong who later encouraged you to pursue him." Zhang Haidong also shed tears. At that time, he was in a dormitory.
Brothers, how happy and passionate they are!
"By the way, Shan'er, my second brother even made up a jingle for you! Do you remember you?" Zhang Haidong patted Liu Shan on the shoulder.
"Why don't you remember? Come on, let's sing together!"
"I wish my ex-girlfriend that you will become uglier and uglier. My aunt will give you pain every month after she comes here..."