"Actually, I also like cherry flavor. It happens to be the same as yours."
Du Xiaoyin blinked and said with his big eyes flickering.
"Is it."
Zhang Haidong smiled and then nodded.
In fact, he didn't know why he chose cherry-flavored milk tea, he just suddenly wanted to taste this flavor.
It's like I can't bear it anymore and want to read and review my past diary.
Just out of curiosity.
The two of them just watched the customers coming and going and fell silent.
"Hey, don't just drink milk tea and not talk. Tell me, what did my sister say about you, and it actually made you angry."
Du Xiaoyin was the first to break the silence.
"Ahem...it's actually not a big deal. I just made a creative plan for Christmas, but your sister was not satisfied with it. She asked me to redo it. But I am very confident in my creative plan. No.
I was willing to redo it. So we started to quarrel. In fact, it was not a big deal. There would definitely be conflicts at work. In the end, we decided to implement my plan."
Zhang Haidong replied.
Since she wasn't very familiar with her, Zhang Haidong actually didn't want to get too close to her.
But I don't know why, but I instinctively didn't have any sense of caution towards Du Xiaoyin.
There was even a little bit of goodwill.
He is very curious.
Why do you feel this way about a stranger?
After racking his brains for a while, he came to the final conclusion: maybe it was because Du Xiaoyin was a girl and happened to be the likable type, so that was why it happened.
"Hehe, it will be good if you follow your plan. My sister is used to being a leader, and everything must be done according to her own execution standards. In fact, times have changed a long time ago, and we need to accept some new ideas in order to make progress. etc.
I'll talk to her later, but I can't let her be so old-fashioned!"
Du Xiaoyin said with a smile.
Immediately afterwards, she praised again: "I heard from my sister that you were amazing before! As soon as I joined the company, I made a plan that became popular all over the country, the first cup of coffee in autumn. Then I quickly helped the company get it
I joined the Jinxiu Group and captured half of the Jinmen clothing market. You are a rare talent. I believe that this time your planning plan will be a hit and create greater glory! I will become yours in the future.
Colleague, I need to ask for your advice."
Du Xiaoyin made some boastful words that made Zhang Haidong's face turn red.
He quickly waved his hand and said: "Wherever, all my ideas come up at random, and luck is a big factor. It's also thanks to your sister who joined the company and trained me all the time, otherwise I wouldn't have achieved such good results."
"You are so humble."
Du Xiaoyin smiled and then said: "From now on, I will be in the same department as you and I will ask you for advice every day."
After saying that, she changed the topic and asked tentatively: "I heard from my sister that you are married?"
"Yes. My daughter has just entered kindergarten and is quite well-behaved."
Zhang Haidong answered honestly.
"Oh... that's pretty good. By the way, how is your relationship with your wife? I'm not married yet. I've heard others say that love is the tomb of marriage. There are many people who have just been in love for a few years after getting married.
Then I started to feel particularly bored, looking for opportunities to cheat, quarrel, and get divorced. In the end, they all ended up in divorce. I am a little afraid of marriage. Can you tell me about your experience? Have you ever had a quarrel or a divorce?
?"
After Du Xiaoyin finished speaking, he looked at Zhang Haidong with eager eyes.
Zhang Haidong is reluctant to mention his family affairs in front of outsiders.
But Du Xiaoyin's words forced him to accept it.
He could only smile, and then said calmly: "The relationship between us is quite good, and we usually don't quarrel. Maybe... maybe we will make a fuss occasionally. Once the fuss is over, it will be fine."
"Really? You'll be fine after all the fussing?"
Du Xiaoyin finally came to the topic he wanted to ask.
"Then can you tell me how bad the quarrel between you two is? Have you ever thought about giving up this marriage and looking for new happiness?"
Du Xiaoyin's question is a bit straightforward.
Zhang Haidong was a little confused for a while.
This is……
Are you expecting me to get divorced?
He didn't quite understand why Du Xiaoyin asked about this topic.
A little embarrassed.
But after thinking about it carefully, she is an international student who has just returned from a foreign country, so she may have picked up some foreign habits.
The look in her eyes was quite sincere, she must be really asking for advice on marriage issues.
Zhang Haidong comforted himself in his heart, and then said: "It seems that there was a quarrel four years ago, but our marriage still persisted."
"like?"
Du Xiaoyin was a little excited.
My eyes suddenly became hot again!
He remembered four years ago!
Remember the cherry flavor too!
But why can’t I seem to remember myself?
Is it selective forgetting?
Zhang Haidong, you heartless person!
"This sounds a bit complicated, and I can't explain it to you. Anyway, we might have had a bit of a fuss, and then everything would be fine."
Zhang Haidong scratched his head and said with a bitter smile.
When he said this, he was a little embarrassed and did not raise his head to look Du Xiaoyin directly in the eyes.
So I didn't see her red eyes.
Four years ago, I was the one who felt sorry for Du Jing.
People who make mistakes and fail will always find reasons for themselves to escape, and then use this to reduce their inner uneasiness.
He did not tell the truth to Du Xiaoyin.
…
Du Xiaoyin looked at Zhang Haidong and exhaled a long breath.
He calmed down his emotions again.
I have been waiting for four years. It doesn’t hurt to wait a little longer and learn more about Zhang Haidong.
She wanted to find out thoroughly why Zhang Haidong in front of her had lost his memory.
He even used words like .
Did something happen to him after he left four years ago?
What made him selectively forget about himself?
He remembers the smell of cherries, he remembers the fuss four years ago...
It's just that he seems to have very vague memories of those things!
What happened to him?
Du Xiaoyin bit the straw, almost chewing it to bits.
As for the milk tea in the cup, even though it was my favorite cherry flavor, it had already lost its taste.
Du Xiaoyin knew that if he continued to ask questions, Zhang Haidong would be wary of him given his previous character.
I'm afraid it will be difficult to get close to him in the future.
So, she decided to stop asking about Zhang Haidong's family.
Trying to suppress his boiling emotions, Du Xiaoyin continued: "If I want to fall in love now, can you tell me what kind of love concept and values should be established. Marriage is really not as scary as they say.
? How to keep your future marriage fresh?"
This question hits the nail on the head.
Now Zhang Haidong is sure that Du Xiaoyin is sincerely asking for advice on his marriage issues.
To be honest, Zhang Haidong has not seriously thought about this issue.
He has only been in this body for just over three months.
He thought to himself that if time had not changed, he would still be 18 years old, but with the current memories.
So what will happen when you face the choice of love and life again?
Will he continue to work as before, eating, drinking, gambling, and relying on Du Jing to support himself?
Like a kitten, looking for an opportunity to go out and steal something?
Or will she take the right path, work hard, and let her daughter and Du Jing live a happy life?
Um!
It must be the latter!
The mother and daughter must not be allowed to suffer any more, and all the suffering should be swallowed by themselves.
This is how an adult, a mature person should deal with love and family responsibilities.
Zhang Haidong thought in his heart.
Du Xiaoyin is also in the same situation now.
I am someone who has been through this before, so I can give her the right guidance.
Thinking of this, he said: "My view on love is that loving one person for the rest of your life is good enough. Love includes family affection, family responsibility and social responsibility. If you want to maintain your love, you must first shoulder your own responsibilities.
Family and social responsibility. When you take on these, you will find that love and family affection are actually integrated. If both parties love each other and give to each other, then the marriage will no longer have a fatigue period, but will be long-lasting.
It keeps it fresh.”
He talks like a life coach.
"It's like a high-rise building under construction. If you want to hold on for a long enough time without collapsing, you need your foundation and support to be deep enough. This foundation is a sense of responsibility."
Having said this, Zhang Haidong stopped for a moment and took a sip of milk tea.
"If I sum it up for you in a simple way, then the process of love is love, quarrels, breakups, and reconciliation. And the true meaning of love is: who is willing to keep this thing with you until you grow old. As long as you bear enough
If you have a sense of responsibility, your love will last forever."
Zhang Haidong said seriously.
"okay, thank you."
Du Xiaoyin lowered his head and said.
Her voice sounded a little softer.
Could it be that the person who said he wanted to accompany him at the beginning was Zhang Haidong?
Wasn't it you that the person you wanted to spend the rest of your life with was you?
Why has it changed?
Zhang Haidong, did you return to your family because of your sense of responsibility?
Or could it be said that the love you had back then was simply an outlet for your cycle?
She stood up and walked downstairs.
She was afraid that if she stayed here any longer, her little heart would be broken.
She needed to be quiet for a while and relax her emotions.
She needs to evaluate herself and find a suitable way to get back together with Zhang Haidong.
We are friends now, aren't we?
"Hey, where are you going? Does your foot stop hurting? Do you want me to give you a ride?"
Seeing Du Xiaoqing stand up and leave, Zhang Haidong asked quickly.
"I'm fine, the pain is gone. Thank you for the milk tea. Please sit down first. I want to see my sister."
Du Xiaoyin said without turning his head.
…
After a long time, Zhang Haidong finished drinking the milk tea with unsatisfied emotions.