In the autumn of 1998 in the previous life, Xu Shiyan and his wife hitchhiked and took a tricycle belonging to the same family that planted Bangchui in the field, and went to work in the Xilin river ginseng field.
On the way back, on a fork in the road not far from Kaifeng Forest Farm, a tricycle collided with a speeding heavy truck.
Of the seven people on the tricycle, four were killed and three were seriously injured.
Su Anying died on the spot, and Xu Shiyan was seriously injured and fell unconscious.
The tricycle owner and his father died on the spot.
After the truck driver collided with the three-wheeler, it hit a large pile of gravel on the side of the road and rolled over into a ditch.
The truck driver was seriously injured and died after being sent to the hospital without resuscitation.
The key point is that the truck driver is self-employed and pulls many trucks bought during the famine.
As soon as his wife heard that something happened to the man and many people died, she ran away with her children that night.
The Xu family suffered great changes, and Zhou Guilan and her three children were left alone.
With the help of relatives and friends, I collected some money, but it was far from enough to cover the cost of Xu Shiyan's rescue treatment.
Later, when there was no other choice, Xu Jinping made a decisive decision and, with the help of the Han family, sold all the sticks in the Xu family, regardless of whether they were made or newly planted and frozen.
Only then did Xu Shiyan be saved and Su Anying's funeral was held.
When such a big thing happened to her family, how could Xu Jinping continue to study?
Together with Xu Jinmei, who was just in her first year of high school, she dropped out of school to work and earn money to support her family even though they were starving.
She takes care of Xu Shiyan, who suffered a head injury in a car accident and is in a state of confusion. She also has to take care of his naughty younger brother who is not doing his job all day long and goes to school.
Anyway, after more than two years, Xu Shiyan gradually returned to normal and fell into trouble again.
Xu Jinping worked in the ginseng field in the spring and summer, learned to catch goods in the ginseng market in the autumn, and went to work in a local flooring factory in the winter.
As the family situation gradually improved, Xu Jinping sent her sister to be an apprentice so that she could learn a trade and not be able to work all her life.
Xu Jinping was devoted to helping the family and wanted to send her younger brother to study, so she delayed finding a partner.
People around her were urging her to get married as soon as possible. Xu Shiyan also felt that he could no longer delay his daughter, so he kept nagging her in front of her all day long.
When winter first came in 2006, Xu Jinping went to work in a flooring factory and met a young man.
My family, who lives in Xinglong Township, also grows sticks and works in a flooring factory in the winter.
The two got along fairly well, and with the help of others, they soon got engaged and married.
At the turn of the new year, Xu Jinping became pregnant and gave birth to a girl.
Getting married too hastily without knowing much in advance.
It was only after the child was born that I found out that the husband’s family was a bit patriarchal and treated Xu Jinping’s daughter badly and kept urging her to have a second child.
Xu Jinping's parents-in-law were partial to their youngest son and daughter-in-law. They only loved their grandson and ignored their granddaughter.
If it were just like this, who would be able to live a happy life all the time? If the parents-in-law are not good, the worst they can do is not live together and live their own lives.
But no one expected that Xu Jinping's husband would change after getting married.
I like gambling. I played mahjong with others one winter and lost tens of thousands.
I can tolerate other things, but I can’t tolerate gambling. How can a gambler quit?
Today I swore that I would never go to the card table again, and tomorrow I secretly started playing again.
If I didn't give him money, I would try to borrow it from others, and I owed a lot of gambling debts.
If Bangchui is not well managed, Xu Shiyan takes people to work in the mountains and helps his daughter get married and serve Bangchui.
How could we live like this? Xu Jinping couldn't bear her temper, so she got divorced and returned to her parents' home with her children.
I got married in 2006 and divorced in 2010, with a three-year-old daughter.
Xu Shiyan was getting older at that time and his family no longer grew sticks.
There was no way around it, so Xu Jinping got a tour guide certificate. In the summer, she took a group to Changbai Mountain to work as a tour guide. In the fall, she still went to the market to catch goods for business. In the winter, she took her children to Anguo to sell goods.
Selling mallets in Anguo is not like renting a stall and looking at the stalls all day long as others think.
Instead, rent a room similar to a garage to store goods, and put a bed next to it to sleep.
When customers from the south come, they sell goods and open the shop. When no one comes, they sit idle all day.
So Xu Jinping used her mobile phone to read books when she was bored. After a long time, she kept waiting for updates, so she came up with the idea of writing it herself.
Not to mention, this writing got out of hand and I gradually made some money.
Now that she had money, Xu Jinping simply stopped going to Anguo to sell goods and opened a local store.
I cooperated with local tour guides, sold to out-of-town tourists, and also sold goods online. Later, I also learned to sell goods through live broadcast, and I really made a lot of money.
Among the three children, Xu Shiyan is the most ashamed of his eldest daughter.
When things happened at home and it was such a difficult situation, Xu Jinping insisted on not letting the third child, Xu Haichao, drop out of school.
Later, Xu Haichao attended a self-financed high school and repeated it for three more years. In 2005, he was finally admitted to a junior college to study.
In 2005, there was a policy of one college student per village, so Xu Jinping asked her sister to take the exam without saying a word.
Xu Jinmei also worked hard and was admitted to Jilin Agricultural University, majoring in animal husbandry and veterinary medicine.
You can imagine how tiring it is to support two college students at home. Without the support of the eldest daughter, it is impossible to just rely on Xu Shiyan.
Later, Xu Shiyan heard his eldest daughter say that if she had another life, she would never want to be the eldest daughter and eldest sister again. It was too tiring.
So after he was reborn, Xu Shiyan tried hard to keep his eldest son Xu Haiyuan and make money.
I just want my daughter to enjoy more happiness in the future, which can be considered as compensation for the hardships my eldest daughter suffered in her previous life.
But at this moment, Xu Shiyan suddenly felt a little unsure.
He has been reborn and everything has changed. Will this person in his wife's belly still be the daughter from his previous life?
Although the parents are still the same two people, the food they eat is different and the place they live in is different.
To put it bluntly, the kang I slept on was no longer the original one.
Can his eldest daughter still be the same as before?
Originally, Xu Shiyan was just worried about his wife in the delivery room, but after this thought came to his mind, he couldn't get it out of his mind.
What if he is not the daughter of his previous life? How can he compensate his daughter?
"God, please, it must be your daughter, it must be our Pingzi."
Xu Shiyan clasped his hands together and chanted as he walked.
In the morning, people came and went in the hospital. Although there were few people in the delivery room, there were still people looking there.
People nearby saw a man muttering something unknown as he walked, clasping his hands together as if worshiping God.
Everyone thought this man had a mental problem.
How can Xu Shiyan care about what other people think? He is currently thinking that his wife must have the daughter of her previous life in her belly.
"Pingzi, come on, come and be your father's daughter.
In this life, dad works hard to make money, and you can do whatever you want.
If you want to study, your father will support you in going to college. If you love writing, let’s take the Chinese Department of some university.
You said that you don’t want to be the eldest daughter in your next life, and your father can fulfill your wish. Now that you have a brother, you will have someone to love and protect you in the future.
Come on, dad misses you, shall we remain father and daughter in this life?" Xu Shiyan muttered as he walked, tears almost falling.
At this moment, the baby's cry suddenly came from the delivery room.
Xu Shiyan was stunned for a moment. The child was born. Is it the eldest daughter of his family?