As the third generation of the Xu family, is Xu Haiyuan someone who can be easily subdued?
Even if his own mother pointed at him with a broom handle, this boy would never bow his head and admit his mistake.
"Who told them to bully my sister? Whoever bullies my sister, I will beat him."
In Xu Haiyuan's world, there is no right or wrong. He only remembers one sentence.
"My dad said before that I want to protect my sister, love my sister, and no one will bully my sister."
Su Anying was choked and stared at Xu Shiyan angrily.
"Everything I say is in vain. Your father is good at talking, right?
Okay, let your dad tell you, if you don’t explain it clearly today, you three will not enter the house or eat."
After Su Anying finished speaking, she threw the broom on the ground and went into the house.
Xu Shiyan never imagined that he was actually tricked by his five-year-old son, and now he couldn't laugh or cry.
"Come on, son, let's chat." Xu Shiyan took his son's hand, and the two of them sat on the wooden pier.
Xu Jinping stretched her head to look into the room, thought for a moment, and followed her father and brother to sit on the wooden pier.
"Is it fun to fight today?"
Xu Shiyan did not scold his son, but instead talked to him in a pleasant manner, and even reached out to help his son wipe the dust off his face.
"It's not fun." Xu Haiyuan pursed his lips and shook his head.
"It's uncomfortable for him to push against me." Xu Haiyuan pointed to his chest.
Xu Haiyuan is only four years and three months old, but he has been taller than other children of the same age since he was a child.
In addition, the living conditions of the Xu family are pretty good, and Xu Haiyuan is quite strong, so he looks more than six years old.
How can such a little thing suffer no loss in a fight with a kid older than him?
This kid is just stubborn and won't tolerate hard things.
Su Anying called him just now, but he refused to give in. Now Xu Shiyan asked kindly, and he couldn't help but tell his father his grievances.
"Come, dad, take a look."
Xu Shiyan opened his son's clothes and took a look. There was nothing unusual.
Even if the child is older, his strength is limited and he won't be seriously injured.
However, Xu Shiyan still pretended to rub his son.
"Look, fighting isn't that fun, right?
In fact, even if you win the fight, aren't you also injured? How uncomfortable it is."
Xu Shiyan raised his hand and rubbed the top of his son's head.
"Dad did say that you should protect your sister and love her.
If your sister is bullied, it's not wrong for you to fight her back.
However, fighting is not the only way, and before fighting, you have to judge whether you will suffer a loss.
If you feel that you are more likely to suffer a loss, can you find other ways?"
Xu Shiyan feels that educating children is really a tangled matter.
For example, if children fight today, is it right or wrong? If you are bullied outside, should you fight back?
To fight tooth for tooth or to fight violence with violence is satisfying, but it may put you in a greater crisis.
If it hadn't been for Huang Shuqing and Sun Yu today, Xu Haiyuan and Xu Jinping would have been beaten badly if they dared to fight with others.
So should I persuade my children to tolerate it? I’m also very confused.
If the child listens to what he said, he will always tolerate it and not resist when things happen in the future. In that case, it will only make the other party more and more arrogant and intensified.
Therefore, the degree in between is too difficult to grasp.
Xu Haiyuan tilted his head, thinking about the proposal given by his father, "Then should I come back to find my mother? Let my mother find their adults?"
After saying that, the little guy curled his lips and frowned.
"It's too troublesome. I don't need my mother to get involved in this matter. I can just punch him and it will be over."
In the little one's mind, all those twists and turns are too troublesome and have no effect, so it's better to be more direct.
Well, after talking for a long time, it’s all in vain.
Xu Shiyan looked at the sky speechlessly, how did he raise such a thing?
To say that it was influenced by the grandfather? That’s not right. When the child’s grandfather grows up, he lives in the mountains. How many days does he come back throughout the year?
Besides, the old man's temper has gotten much better now, he doesn't get angry very often, he smiles all day long, and he doesn't speak loudly to Xu Shiyan anymore, so it is impossible to affect the children.
Is that an innate inheritance? That’s it. If it’s an innate inheritance, then I’ll have to wait for the bear stuff to clean up the mess in the future.
"Such a violent brat, I don't know who you follow?" Xu Shiyan reached out angrily and poked his finger on his son's forehead.
"Okay, I finally understand, I can't let you go crazy like this at home.
School starts in the fall. You go and study. I'll tell Teacher Qi and let you go to the school's education class."
Yuhong class is a term used in this era, which is actually what later generations would call preschool.
Nowadays, there is no such thing as a kindergarten. The place where children are coaxed is called a nursery, and the place where preschool children are taught to learn is called a yuhong class.
After many years of propaganda that studying is useless, even though the college entrance examination has been resumed for several years, in fact there are still many people who don’t value studying very much.
Especially among rural people, many people think that it is enough for their children to go to elementary school and be able to write a little and calculate accounts.
As for sending children to education classes, that's even more nonsense. Spending money to send children out to be coaxed is just money to burn.
Whose child doesn't go out in the wild all day long? Just wait until they are old enough to enter first grade. What kind of education class should they attend?
Most of the children in the education class at Donggang Primary School are children from workers’ families.
Especially if both parents are working and no one cares about their children, they can simply send them to a red education class. At least someone will watch over them.
At Donggang Primary School, children must be seven years old before they can enter first grade.
The Yuhong class is to prepare children for entering first grade. The teacher will teach the children some pinyin and numbers, so children over six years old are required to attend.
Ordinarily Xu Haiyuan is not old enough, but this child is precocious and much smarter than other children of the same age, so he should be able to adapt to the red education class.
Anyway, it would not be difficult for Xu Shiyan to find someone and send him there.
For children, they may not necessarily listen to what their parents say, but they must obey what their teachers say.
The education of children should not be completely dependent on schools and teachers, but it is never wrong for children to receive education from teachers in school.
This child Xu Haiyuan is different from other children. It is obviously not a good idea to let him be so crazy and run wild at home all day long.
It's not a bad thing to study early.
"Studying? That's okay. What will my sister do if I'm not at home?"
Xu Haiyuan has nothing against studying. He only misses his sister. If he goes to study, wouldn't his sister have no one to accompany her at home?
"Dad, I also want to go to school."
Sure enough, Xu Jinping pouted on the other end and looked unhappy. She also wanted to study, and she had to take the college entrance examination.
"Pingping, you are still young. In two years' time, your father will also send you to the Yuhong class, okay?"
Xu Shiyan was tormented by his two children. One of them was older, and each of the two children was more difficult to handle than the other.
My son, he has a cold face and a venomous mouth, and he acts like everyone else is a fool all day long, but despite his awesome appearance, he is actually quite good at taking care of others.
It can be seen from his treatment of Yang Haoyu that as long as he likes it, he will definitely protect it.
My daughter, she looks cute and obedient, but in fact she is weird and shrewd. She is definitely a little bit of a pepper.
Look at her scratching that boy today and even biting her. I wonder what the boy's parents will do if they see her.