"The two of us probably have nothing to do with each other. It's just that Xiao Li has taken a liking to our flower.
I'm wondering what you mean, what do you think of Xiao Li?
I told him today that if he is serious about it, he can find a matchmaker to propose marriage, and don't act like a shady man."
This era is said to promote free love, but in fact most men and women are introduced by matchmakers.
What's better than before is that both men and women can meet a few times, and they can get along if they can talk, and if they can't talk, there's nothing wrong with it.
"Xiao Li's family is a worker, and his father is also the farm manager. Our family's Hua'er has an agricultural registered permanent residence, and my father is also a member of the agricultural team.
The shoulders of the two families are not evenly matched, is this possible? The Li family may not agree, right?"
What Su Anying is worried about is that the two families are not equivalent.
Su Weizhong asked his two daughters to live in Donggang mainly for the marriage of sister Su Anfang.
Li Chengrong's conditions were good no matter what, let alone Su Anying, even if Su Weizhong came, he couldn't find any faults.
Su Anying's main worry is about the Li family. They are a working class family. Can they marry an old farmer?
"Anyway, I told Xiao Li that if he is serious, he should tell his family and come to propose marriage in an upright manner.
When the time comes, we’ll ask Hua’er for her opinion. If you agree, the two of you will get along. If you don’t agree, there’s nothing wrong with it, right?”
In fact, Xu Shiyan was also worried about this, so he asked Li Chengrong to explain it to his family.
The two young people got along secretly, and they didn't let their family know until their relationship became deeper.
What if the Li family doesn't agree? Wouldn't that harm Su Anhua?
Su Anhua doesn't know anything now. Even if the Li family disagrees, Su Anhua will not be harmed. She can just find the right one slowly in the future.
As for Li Chengrong, if he doesn't have the courage to fight for the girl he likes, he might as well forget it, it's not a good idea.
"Well, yes, this matter all depends on Xiao Li and his family. Let's not mention it to Hua'er yet. Wait and see."
Su Anying also felt that her husband was right to handle it this way.
Marriage is not a matter between two people, it is about two families getting along, so it is better to be cautious.
"I'm just telling you in advance so that if the Li family really asks someone to come to take care of it, you should be prepared."
Xu Shiyan had no intention of making any announcement. When his two sisters-in-law were there, he didn't even mention it.
I didn't say anything until the children were asleep, so that Xu Haiyuan, the god of retribution, wouldn't hear anything and might spill the beans at some point.
"Actually, I'm quite optimistic about Xiao Li. It just so happens that we are both attending the event. If we become relatives, we will take care of each other.
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Hua'er doesn't have to marry anywhere else, she's close to you, and we can take care of whatever happens in the future."
From the bottom of his heart, Xu Shiyan really felt that this marriage was a good one.
Li Chengrong is a factory worker. Don’t worry about whether he will become a jobber in the future. He will receive all the benefits he deserves and he can retire normally in the future.
It seems that in 10 years, there was a policy that allowed dependent workers to retire after paying a sum of money.
Compared with officially retired workers, they only lack one seniority salary.
Forestry bureaus, field workers, and family workers in these places can all apply.
You pay according to your age, and you can get part of it back later, which is quite appropriate.
The workers' families are also retired, and the couple can live a decent life in a small place like Donggang with three to four thousand yuan a month.
If Su Anhua and Li Chengrong get married, in two years we will find a way to move Su Anhua's registered permanent residence to Yishenchang.
There may be opportunities for family members to recruit workers if they join the field. Even if they can't find workers, they can still arrange for their family members to retire in the future. Either way is good.
"Now it depends on the attitude of the Li family. If Li Bingzhuo and his wife agree, they will probably propose marriage soon.
If they don't agree, then there's nothing we can do. I'd better look through the brigade to see if there's anyone suitable to introduce to the fifth and sixth."
As Xu Shiyan spoke, he picked up a large basin and poured out the water in the basin.
"Yes, let's not talk about this matter. Let's look at the Li family."
Su Anying brought the wrung-out clothes into the house and planned to dry them in the morning.
Children's clothes cannot be worn outside overnight. The old man said it is not good if the stars and moon shine on them.
At the Xu family's side, the couple finished washing and packing up and went back to the house to sleep.
On the other side of the venue, the Li family's house was still brightly lit at the moment. Li Bingzhuo and his wife felt a headache when they looked at their stubborn-looking son in front of them.
"You said there won't be any good girls here?
None of your classmates are attractive to you? Why do you have to find a girl from the countryside?"
Li Bingzhuo's daughter-in-law, Sun Limei, looked at her son with great confusion.
His son's stupid head would otherwise not have enlightened him, but suddenly he did and fell in love with a rural girl.
"What's wrong with rural girls? What's wrong with rural girls? I just think Su Anhua is doing well.
Hard-working and capable, he treats people well and is not arrogant at all.
It's not like the girls we attended, all of them looked up to the sky, wishing they could look at people with their nostrils." Li Chengrong snorted.
The First Farm is a state-owned farm, the workers are well treated and earn a lot of money, and the girls who work there don’t have to worry about getting married.
Moreover, the first camp is next to a large team of Donggang Commune, with an agricultural cooperative on one side and a state-run camp on the other. The comparison between the two is obvious. The people in the first camp do have a sense of superiority.
Li Chengrong was such a stupid boy. He didn't like the girls attending the show, but he liked a gentle and virtuous girl like Su Anhua.
"The rural girl's household registration is different.
If you have children in the future, their hukou will be with their mother. Do you want your child to have a rural hukou?"
There is a rule in this year that the child's household registration follows the mother's.
Why are girls with urban household registration so popular? This is also a reason. Who doesn’t want their children to have urban household registration as soon as they are born?
"What's so big about a household registration? Just move here and my dad can't get a household registration?"
Li Chengrong didn't think so. In his opinion, it was just a household registration, how easy it was.
The family members were not recruiting workers, so they just moved here after thinking of a way, so what else is there to worry about?
"Son, tell me the truth. How long have you been with that girl?"
Li Bingzhuo didn't speak until now and asked directly.
Li Chengrong scratched his head, "Where are you? I haven't had time to tell anyone.
I finally summoned up the courage to talk to Team Leader Xu today, but Team Leader Xu came back with just one sentence.
He said, if I am serious about it, let my family come forward to propose marriage, and don’t do it secretly.”
Li Chengrong didn't succeed at the beginning and was attacked by others, which made Li Chengrong very upset.
When Li Bingzhuo heard this, he nodded and let out a sigh of relief.
"Team Leader Xu is still stable and much better than you.
If you don’t discuss life-long matters with your parents first, I think you will read this book into the dog’s belly.”
Previously, Li Bingzhuo was worried whether the girl from the Su family knew about the situation of the Li family and deliberately showed favor to Li Chengrong.
If that were the case, even if this girl was a fairy, she would never want her.
"Then I'm afraid you won't agree?" Li Chengrong muttered, lowering his head.
"How do you know we don't agree if you don't discuss it?" Li Bingzhuo's voice was raised a lot.
"Since ancient times, parents have made the final decision on marriage matters.
Now is a new society, which advocates free love, but you can't live freely anymore.
When it comes to big things, parents have to take care of them."