The sports meeting will last for a day and a half, and we will finish in the morning on June 1st and have a holiday in the afternoon.
Xu Shiyan and his wife only went there and sat for a while on the day of the opening ceremony.
We are so busy at this time, who has the spare time to sit and watch the children run sports meets all day long?
Su Anying went home in the evening, called her youngest son over, and had a good chat with him.
I warned my son not to fight with others in school.
Xu Haiqing knew that the teacher had complained, and he was very scared.
So I behaved very well. I did whatever my mother said and nodded in agreement no matter what she said.
"Anyway, I told your teacher, if you continue to disobey in school, have you seen this pointer? Let the teacher use this pointer to beat you."
Su Anying threw a stick that was as thick as her thumb and more than two feet long in front of her youngest son.
This stick belongs to Xu Jinping. It is usually used to give lectures to his younger brothers and sisters. If anyone is disobedient, he will be beaten with this stick.
Therefore, when Xu Haiqing saw the stick, his calves were a little cramped and he was frightened.
"Mom, I know I was wrong. I will pay attention to the class carefully and not fight with my classmates."
The little guy was so frightened that he almost shed tears. He hugged Su Anying's legs and begged for mercy.
"If you know you're wrong, you have to correct it, do you hear me?
Take this pointer to school tomorrow and give it to your teachers, remember it."
For the sake of her children, Su Anying had no choice but to keep a straight face and scare her children.
People of their generation don't know how to educate their children. They believe that filial sons will emerge from the stick, and children will be ineffective if they are not beaten.
This is considered a good thing for Su Anying. Normally, she doesn't do anything.
Some parents don't care about that. They just pick up any household items and whip them directly on their children.
Feather dusters, broom sticks, belts, fire sticks, whatever you have in front of you, use them.
"I heard it and I remembered it. Mom, I will definitely change it."
Xu Haiqing is good at this, unlike Xu Haiyuan who never admits his mistakes.
Xu Haiyuan is a stubborn person who accepts death. As long as he is right, no one can say anything about it, and even hitting him will have no effect.
The children are like this, what can Su Anying do?
You can't give your son a good beating just because of this incident, right?
For such a small child, even after being beaten, he may not have a long memory. He will forget about it the next day. What's the use?
All I can do is, as parents, be more attentive and give instructions more diligently.
"Okay, let's have a better memory in the future.
If the teacher comes to me next time and tells me that you are disobedient in school, I will whip your ass to pieces."
Su Anying had a stern look on her face, not giving her son a good look, and asked her son to go aside and reflect.
Xu Haiqing obediently went to stand in the corner. This was something he was familiar with. He had been punished countless times since he was a child.
Seeing their youngest son like that, the couple could only sigh.
This naughty kid is just a piece of meat and is difficult to deal with.
Although he promised well now, he turned around and forgot about it. If he should play, he should still play, and if he should do something, he should do it.
"Forget it, this naughty kid will have to suffer sooner or later to gain a good memory.
You don’t need to be angry with him, it will get better when he is older."
When his wife was training the children, Xu Shiyan remained silent.
When educating children, we are afraid of hitting one here and pulling the other, which is totally useless. We can only get used to the children looking for support whenever something goes wrong.
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Therefore, Xu Shiyan and his wife had made an agreement a long time ago. No matter which one of the couple was in charge of the children, the other one was never allowed to talk to each other.
Regardless of whether you like it or not, the couple will discuss the matter later and do not argue in front of the children.
At this moment, the youngest son went to stand in the corner, and Xu Shiyan whispered to his wife.
"I know, didn't you see that I didn't beat him tonight? I just wanted to scare him.
This child is more difficult to control than the boss, too naughty, ugh." Su Anying sighed.
These two sons at home,
Completely different personalities.
The eldest son accepts death and does not admit his mistakes even if he is beaten to death.
The younger son is not like that. As long as an adult looks wrong, he will immediately admit his mistake, but when he turns around, he will forget it and make the mistake again next time.
Su Anying thought that maybe they were always trying to deal with Xu Haiqing and the child slipped.
In order to suffer less, this naughty kid learned to admit his mistakes first no matter what happened, so that he could be beaten less.
So Su Anying planned to talk to Xu Jinping later, and she could no longer deal with the fourth child like before.
If you really make a big mistake that cannot be forgiven, then give it a good beating. If you make a mistake lightly, you still have to deal with it slowly and talk it through.
Xu Shiyan also sighed, educating children is really a headache.
Fortunately, among the four children, one is difficult to manage.
If this can't be managed, the two of them won't have to do anything anymore and just go away with their headaches.
Xu Haiqing stood in the corner for an hour.
Xu Shiyan deliberately pretended, and when Su Anying wasn't paying attention, he dragged his youngest son into the east room to have a heart-to-heart talk with him.
"Do you know why mom is angry today?"
"I know, the teacher filed a lawsuit against me today, saying that I didn't listen well in class and even got into fights with the kids."
Xu Haiqing nodded, he understood everything.
"Then tell Dad, why can't you sit still in class and listen well?
Look, mom just punished you to stand, can't you stand like this honestly?
Then why can't you be more honest during class?"
Xu Shiyan pretended to be curious and asked his youngest son.
"Dad, that's different. I'm the one who's punished for standing. If I don't stand properly, I'll get beaten.
There are many children in the school, and there are many interesting things to do. I want to talk to the children, and I want to see the white clouds and birds outside the window."
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