Children are very troubled, so when they heard her words, they immediately said——
"Mom, you were beaten by my wife and grandma."
Jian Yuelan sighed, "Son, I thought you understood the principle of seeing things through but not telling them."
"I understand."
"You understand and you still tell me."
"You are my mother."
The concise and concise sentence made Jian Yuelan completely silent.
Because she is his mother, there is no need to pretend in front of her, and he can say whatever he wants.
Is this good behavior?
good.
Because this means that the child trusts her mother wholeheartedly.
that is--
"You didn't consider mom's face."
The child thought about it and thought it made sense.
"I'll pay attention next time."
Jian Yuelan was satisfied.
"Mom, what do you want to say to me?"
As soon as these words came out, Jian Yuelan's expression suddenly became serious.
"My younger brother has the same destiny as my mother, but they have a special destiny."
The child frowned, "What is fate?"
This was beyond the scope of his understanding. He had learned a lot of knowledge, but he had not learned anything about fate, numerology and the like.
It's not that he doesn't want to learn, it's that the second elder doesn't understand it himself, and there are no relevant books at home to teach him.
Therefore, this area of knowledge is completely blank for children.
Jian Yuelan, who was mentally prepared, explained the fate in detail to her. The child listened carefully, nodding from time to time, or asking questions.
After she finished speaking, he was silent for a long time, and then looked at her expressionlessly in Jian Yuelan's worried eyes.
"Mother!"
He has a serious face and a serious voice.
Jian Yuelan sat upright, "You say."
"After my sister and brother are born, will you not love me because of them?"
"Won't."
Jian Yuelan said seriously, "Mom will always love you!"
"Then will you ignore me because of your younger siblings?"
Jian Yuelan couldn't guarantee this. She thought about it for a long time and said in a low tone, "Baby, this mother can't make a promise to you. She can only promise that she will try her best not to ignore you and treat you equally."
A bowl of water is not level.
From the day she was conceived, it was impossible for her to keep a bowl of water level.
She couldn't say that she could balance a bowl of water against her will.
We must know that human energy is limited, and it is inevitable that one party will focus on the other party and ignore it.
She can only balance this point.
The child was a little unhappy, but he understood it.
He hesitated for a while and said, "Mom, will you let me let my brothers and sisters go because they are younger than me?"
Worried that Jian Yuelan didn't understand what he meant, he tried hard to express his thoughts.
"Just like my violin-like classmate, because she is a sister, her mother no longer loves her. It's like you are a sister, you have to give in to your brother. You are a sister, what's wrong with you giving up the little book to your brother?
Kind of words."
It can be seen that the child is very nervous and afraid that he will also face this situation.
Jian Yuelan looked at him and felt extremely sour in her heart.
She opened her arms and hugged the child, and placed a delicate and gentle kiss on his face.
"Mom can't."
"All your toys, food, clothes, etc. are yours to own."
"If you are willing to share it with your younger brothers and sisters, then you can share it; if you don't want to, your younger brothers and sisters can't take it. If they dare to take it, I will beat them."
"Whatever you have, your younger brothers and sisters will also have. In the same way, whatever your younger siblings have, you will also have."
"In our family, there is no such thing as whoever is younger has an advantage, so he can be an unreasonable little bully. This is absolutely not allowed."
"You are all independent individuals, not the possessions or accessories of your parents. Your parents will give you absolute respect and freedom."
"You just need to be yourself, grow up happily, and then live your own life. Mom and Dad's life will not be in vain."
Seeing the smile gradually appearing on the child's face, she blinked and said, "Son, you are the elder brother. You know, older brothers and sisters sometimes enjoy privileges."
"What privilege?"
“Before you hit your younger siblings, it’s better to hit them early!”
This is what Jian Yuelan really thinks.
The relationship between brothers and sisters is the purest and most sincere when they are young. When they grow up, they will become estranged due to family and work reasons.
Some brothers and sisters will turn against each other when they grow up, and they will never interact with each other until they die.
But my feelings when I was young were also sincere.
Thinking of this, she said, "It doesn't matter what your relationship is with your younger brothers and sisters when you grow up. If they did something wrong when they were young and made you unhappy, you can use the majesty of your elder brother to educate them. Understand what your mother said
What do you mean?"
"clear!"
The child made a loud noise, and his heart was completely relieved.
He touched his mother's belly and felt a little pitiful for his younger brothers and sisters.
Even before they were born, their mother wanted him to educate them as a big brother.
"I love you mom!"
Jian Yuelan smiled and was about to speak when the child opened his small arms to hug her belly and said with a sweet voice, "So Mom, I allow you to ignore me for a short time after my brothers and sisters come out."
"Remember, mom, it's only temporary. You can't ignore it for a long time, otherwise I will be sad."
"Okay, mom promises you that she can ignore you for a short time, but she will never ignore you for a long time."
Jian Yuelan solemnly made a promise, and the child was satisfied.
He stretched out his hand towards Jian Yuelan and said, "Mom, it's time for you to exercise."
"Sitting for long periods of time is not good for pregnant women."
Is there anything wrong with this?
Nothing wrong.
After all, it is a doctor's order, and the child will remember it firmly.
Then, under the watchful eyes of a large family, Jian Yuelan was watched by children walking around the yard doing exercises.
Jian's father was very relieved, "My eldest grandson is a capable man and can manage his mother well."
Typical one thing reduces one thing.
Seeing his eldest brother constantly staring at the wooden man and the cat climbing frame, Jian's father said angrily, "Brother, can you take a rest?"
Turning makes people dizzy.
"cannot!"
As a carpenter, or an old carpenter who has inherited traditional skills and superb craftsmanship, Jian Yunmu has no other hobbies or habits, except that he feels uncomfortable if he doesn't do some carpentry for a day.
When I saw the rough wooden products, I wanted to modify them manually.
Unfortunately, the wooden man and the cat climbing frame standing in the yard were all handmade by Jian Yuelan.
The workmanship is not ordinary rough, but very rough.
In fact, the problem is not serious. After all, the cat climbing frame is wrapped with hemp rope, and the wooden frame needs to be replaced every once in a while. It is rough and does not affect its use. This is enough for the mother and son and Daji and their furry children.
But Jian Yunmu doesn't like it, and he gets itchy when it doesn't look good to him.
"No, I have to repair the wooden frame and the frame."
Without waiting for anyone to reply, he ran into the house and took out his carpenter's tools.
Really, there is no security check now. If it were to be replaced by security check in future generations, all his tools would have to be taken away.
Not only did he bring an ink fountain and a plane, he also brought saw blades, large and small carving knives, carving knives, etc.
As soon as the tools were laid out, the two elders were shocked.
The little lightbulb in the child's mind suddenly turned on.
He suppressed his emotions of surprise and finished exercising with Jian Yuelan step by step. After handing her over to his grandma, he ran to his uncle like a bird out of its cage with a cheerful air.
Ask him the name of each tool and how to use it.
Seeing that he was interested, the uncle told him everything he knew. After he understood everything, the child said -
"Grandpa, can I learn woodworking and carving from you?"