"What are you going to do if you don't want to be a rich wife?" Hao Mei wondered, is this praise not high enough?
Marry a man, marry a man, dress and eat.
Isn't it enough to marry a promising man, live in a big house, and have good food and drink?
"Why can't I be a rich man, a rich man himself? I am not only Yu Yaoyang's wife, I can also be a female entrepreneur, a female rich man, a female investor, a female business boss. In the same way, I also hope that I
Our children, regardless of gender, can be themselves in the future and be proud of their own identity, rather than being someone else’s vassal.”
Mrs. Kuo, Kuo is based on the spouse's strong financial resources, which itself has a certain derogatory connotation, which Rutang doesn't like.
Yu Yaoyang is excellent, there is no doubt about it, but she will also become an equally excellent being. Her marriage is evenly matched. She wants to be a better person, stand on a higher mountain, and watch the sunrise and sunset with him.
The tide ebbs and flows, instead of becoming a dodder flower and relying on him for existence.
Hao Mei was stunned, and suddenly thought that her daughter had had such a conversation with her before.
At that time, she still thought that her daughter was whimsical. When a woman gets married, she should take care of her husband and raise her children. It is enough to have a man working outside to make money. But these days, her daughter is in the clothing business and leads her to make box lunches, which is very prosperous. Hao Mei
I also felt that my daughter was right.
Hao Mei reached out and held Rutang's hand, patting it gently a few times.
"Just do whatever you want. I think my daughter is capable and can do anything. You will definitely live a good life in the future."
Rutang's eyes were a little wet. If it wasn't a big day and she couldn't cry, she would definitely hold her mother and cry.
Although she does not believe in metaphysics, she firmly believes in one theory of metaphysics.
Parents are the gods of their children - of course, excluding unreliable parents like Chen Fu, who has been expelled as a father.
As for a parent like Hao Mei who truly loves her children, even if she is an uneducated farmer, she will be their child's God. If God allows you to live well, you will live well.
There is a saying in the village that parents will say to their children before they go out, "You will definitely be safe today." This means "God" wishes you safety, and then there is a 90% chance that the child will be safe in one day.
Therefore, when you accept blessings from your parents, you are accepting blessings from "Heaven". You must accept them happily and do not talk back. Once you talk back, the blessing will be gone and the blessing will fail.
Thinking of this, Rutang nodded heavily and responded to her mother's blessing in a firm tone.
"I will definitely listen to my mother and live a good life."
Hao Mei opened her eyes wide to prevent tears from falling, and cried for half her life. Only this time the tears came from happiness. Seeing that her daughter had a good home, she felt that her life was enough.
Rutang had eaten enough, and seeing that it was almost time, she packed her clothes and met Yu Yaoyang in the yard.
After the drinks were toasted, Yu Yaoyang was dragged to the main table to chat. At this table were the village chief, the production team leader, and the village elders.
Rutang came over and sat next to Yu Yaoyang. Hearing everyone talking about the restructuring of the production team, Rutang pricked up his ears.
In the previous life, the production team was restructured around this time, and the land was privately owned by the farmers.
Dali Village is located on the seaside. Compared with other rural areas, in addition to land and production tools, it also has a very important large-scale project, the shrimp farm.
There is a shrimp farm in the village, which is collectively owned.
After this restructuring, the shrimp farm will be contracted to individuals. Rutang remembers that Yu Yaoyang wanted to contract the shrimp farm in his previous life, but failed.
Because Rutang's mental state was not stable at that time, and her health was not good, and she fell ill every three days.
In order to take care of her, Yu Yaoyang gave up the opportunity to contract a shrimp farm and devoted himself to taking care of Rutang.
Rutang doesn't quite remember who contracted the shrimp trap, but she vaguely remembers that the shrimp trap was very profitable.
So when everyone mentioned the contracting of shrimp traps, she asked:
"Second uncle, how much does it cost to contract this shrimp trap?"
The village chief is the second uncle. Hearing Rutang ask this, he looked at Yu Yaoyang with a smile:
"Yangzi, are you interested in taking on the contract?"
Yu Yaoyang put his arms around Rutang's shoulders.
"I listen to my wife and I will do whatever she says."
The custom in the village is that men have the final say, so when the village chief heard Rutang ask about such a big matter, his first reaction was to ask Yu Yaoyang, but Yu Yaoyang's reaction was to give Rutang face and use practical methods.
Actions tell everyone that Rutang has the final say in his family.
Yu Yaoyang was the only one who dared to admit his wife's family status in front of so many people.
The elders at this table had different expressions. They had never seen such a man before, and he was too "faceless". However, when he thought that Yu Yaoyang was born as a street kid, he was not a decent person, and they felt that he was treating women
It’s not surprising that his opinions are treasured.
Rutang understood the contemptuous looks in everyone's eyes and felt calm in her heart.
She and her man will use their strength to break the prejudice. Sooner or later, these people will know that capable men are never afraid of their wives, but respect their wives.
Only the most unpromising men will rely on suppressing the women in the family to show their status. There is no need to waste your words with such people, they will not understand even if you say it.
"You can take a look at the price. If it's within our couple's affordability, we can consider it." Rutang said to the village chief, with a neither humble nor arrogant attitude. It looked like he had seen the market before.
Yu Yaoyang set up a stage for her, so she wouldn't have stage fright.
Seeing Rutang being so grand, the village chief did not dare to look down on her, and replied seriously: "Currently there is a meeting in the village, and we are thinking that the rent will be 2,000 per year, and the villagers will have priority in contracting the contract. But Rutang, you have to think carefully, the rent is only
It’s an initial investment, but you also have to buy shrimp seedlings and hire people to breed them later, which is a lot of money.”
The profits of the breeding industry are very large, but relatively speaking, the risks are also huge.
The cost of renting a shrimp pen is relatively small, but the real big part comes in the subsequent operation. Once the shrimp seedlings are bought and die of disease, all the investment will be wasted.
That's why the village chief kindly reminded Rutang that he needs to be careful when contracting.
The income from renting the shrimp farm will be deducted from the part left by the village committee, and the rest will be divided equally among the villagers. It only costs ten or twenty yuan per family, which is not a lot.
Rutang went through the calculations in her mind. Based on her family's current business situation, she could afford to eat the shrimp trap.
"Second uncle, if this farm can be contracted to us, my husband and I promise that the shrimp farm will only hire people from our village, which can be regarded as an additional income-generating project for the villagers." Rutang said to the village chief.
The village chief drank some wine and was in a high mood. He could definitely contract the Rutang family with one sip, but Rutang didn't believe a word of what the drunk man said.
Now she can only show enough sincerity first, so that the drunkards at this table can give priority to their own family after they sober up.
Let Yu Yaoyang talk about it after he sobers up. Contracting such a big thing won't be practical unless it's put down in black and white, and verbal promises won't be worth a penny.
After the wedding banquet was over and the guests were sent away and they returned to the room, Yu Yaoyang was thinking about throwing his wife down, but when he turned around, he was speechless.