Rutang thought for a long time before coming to the conclusion that Chen Guilan has an NPD personality.
Only in this way can all her abnormal behaviors in her past and present lives be reasonably explained.
"Everyone has his or her own personality. We are all normal, but some people's personalities are very dangerous. For example, Chen Guilan's NPD personality is medically speaking, narcissistic personality. These are the three types of personality.
One of the most dangerous personalities."
"Narcissistic? My brother is also very narcissistic. I saw him looking at himself in the mirror for a long time this morning, with the kind of expression that, oh, I am the most handsome in the world."
Xiaoyue made a horoscope sign with two fingers, pointing at her chin, imitating her brother's narcissistic look.
"Narcissism and narcissistic personality are two different concepts. Narcissistic personality is a pathological personality. How can I explain it to you?" Rutang thought for a moment and found a suitable metaphor.
"A vampire, yes, is a vampire. A narcissistic personality is like a vampire. In her eyes, everyone is her blood bag. She has to live by sucking others. She is the only one in her world, for herself.
For her own benefit, she can hurt others without any guilt."
Rutang put together Chen Guilan's various deeds and came to this conclusion.
The reason why she didn't find anything wrong with Chen Guilan in her previous life was because Chen Guilan needed Rutang's money and the rights that Rutang had, so she tried every means to please Rutang. The rest of the old Chen family also acted like a licker for Rutang. Chen Guilan
Her performance is not outstanding, but her vampire characteristics are still revealed inadvertently. She often hurts Rutang with words intentionally or unintentionally, destroying Rutang's self-esteem.
In Chen Guilan's eyes, Rutang in her previous life was just a huge "blood bag". She sucked Rutang's energy while waiting for an opportunity to harm Rutang.
In this life, Rutang has no identity and status in future generations, so there is no need for Chen Guilan to please, so Chen Guilan revealed her true face.
"Normal people have feelings and intentions, even if they are lecherous like your brother - I mean, a man with a true temperament, ahem." Rutang felt Yu Yaoyang's gaze directed at him, and his desire to survive immediately came online.
Change your words.
Yu Yaoyang licked her back teeth and waited to see if he didn't kiss her swollen little mouth when she returned home! I dare say he was looking lusty!
"Your brother is such a sincere man. He is very good to his family and friends. He is a normal person." Rutang added in his heart, he is a normal person with a bit of pervert.
"Chen Guilan is different. She has no heart. All NPDs are hollow people. All her actions are to serve herself. The dead gangster is her blood bag to her. Brother Yaoyang is to her
In other words, it’s also a blood bag.”
"Hey! Who do you hate!" Yu Yaoyang rubbed his arms. Who wants to be a blood bag for that kind of ugly and bad woman?
Even if he dies, he will have to die on his wife, and he will die with all his energy. He is happy! Who wants to be contaminated by that disgusting Chen Guilan?
"I'm just using a metaphor. Of course you can't fall in love with her, and you won't give her a chance. She has the same attitude towards any man."
The reason why Chen Guilan is eyeing Yu Yaoyang, Rutang feels that it may not have much to do with love. The only person a narcissistic personality loves most is herself. Even if she has feelings for Yaoyang, it won't be too much. Chen Guilan just likes her.
Yu Yaoyang's money and his social status.
If she really gets Yu Yaoyang, Chen Guilan will have the opportunity to meet someone richer in the future, and she will get rid of Yu Yaoyang and pursue a bigger blood bag. Of course, she herself does not have that charm.
God was very fair and gave her a very ordinary face and a not-so-smart heart, so she could not catch a very good man.
"In addition to these, there is Guining, and you are also her blood bag." Rutang looked at Guining sympathetically.
"Me?!" Guining was a little confused. She was not a man. She wasn't in a relationship with Chen Guilan, so why was she still a loser?
"If you think about it, has she always suppressed you since you were a child? She does things that clearly hurt you, but also brainwashes you, saying it's for your own good? She doesn't get any financial benefit from you, but she absorbs spiritual energy from you.
The power, by suppressing you, elevates herself."
Guining nodded and suddenly felt a chill.
Before I had time to take off my clothes that were soaked by the rain, they clung to my body, mixed with the fear of past memories, and became extremely cold.
As soon as her shoulders felt warm, Xiaoyue put the towel on her body.
"You have left that home, so don't miss her. All her actions have nothing to do with you." Xiaoyue comforted.
"Guining just looks weak, but fortunately, her spiritual core is still quite strong. It is because of this that she was not completely defeated. Anyone who was weak would have been tortured crazy by her."
The reasons for the formation of narcissistic personality are more complicated. There are congenital and acquired factors. Rutang believes that Chen Guilan should be congenital because her father has a narcissistic personality. If a family has a narcissistic personality, other people will also be affected.
Either he has a mental breakdown, or he joins the others and becomes the same sick person.
"The reason why narcissistic personality is classified as a dangerous personality is because this disease will change the brain and make all her logical actions revolve around herself. In order to make her logic self-consistent, she lies full of lies. She lies too much, and she herself
Everyone believes it, and she won’t have any shame or empathy with anyone. We can’t change this kind of person, and we can’t cure it.”
Even if the psychology of later generations is so advanced, it cannot cure this kind of dangerous personality that will bring disaster to those around you, let alone hope to influence these people with love.
"Sister-in-law, you mean, even if she lost all Sedum's money, she won't blame herself, right?" Xiaoyue asked.
Rutang nodded.
"Irresponsibility is also a prominent feature of a narcissistic personality. She will do everything possible to blame her faults on others. She will blame the bad weather, blame passers-by for being cold-blooded, blame everything, but not reflect on herself."
"What kind of monster is this..." Xiaoyue clicked her tongue, the world is so big, there are all kinds of strange things.
"Not to mention a truckload of goods, but the gangster who worked for her last time died. Did she go to someone's grave and burn a piece of paper for them? Although that gangster deserved it, he was still working for her," Rutang said.
Tell the more heart-wrenching truth.
A narcissistic personality has no heart and will never empathize with anyone. Not only would Chen Guilan not feel that it was a pity that the gangster died, she might even blame the gangster for his inability to do things and his death.
"Having no sense of shame means that she has no sense of morality. People who are not bound by morality and only think about their own interests think about how terrible it is for you." Rutang sighed.
That's why she asked Yu Yaoyang to go to Jingtian's house quickly. Chen Guilan lost all the money he invested. Not only would she not feel guilty, but in order to avoid compensation, she would probably kill Jingtian.
Rutang feels that it is better to resolve enemies than to end them. If he can save Jingtian, maybe the feud between the two families will be resolved.