Her adopted son just celebrated his third birthday.
She was pregnant, and her family was very happy; but as she got older, this made her family extremely worried.
Xie Qingyun herself couldn't make up her mind. To be honest, she must have been eager for this child. A child who was connected by her blood, breathing and heartbeating with her, she had been looking forward to it for so many years, but she had long since given up her obsession.
Time is long overdue.
She wanted to give birth to this child, and she believed that she would not treat Zhensheng badly. What he enjoys now will only be a lot more in the future. However, if there is an accident during the delivery process, the little Zhensheng will not be treated badly.
People took care of it.
The whole family is in a dilemma.
After hearing the news, Li Chengde's mother rushed over with her children. She cried and begged: "Yun, you and Chengde have been married for so many years, and I have never made any demands on you... But this
Once, I beg you, please give birth to this child! I don’t know how long I can live, and death will happen in the blink of an eye. Before I die, I want to see my biological grandson, okay?”
The old man wiped his tears and said: "I promise you, as long as you give birth to this child, I will treat Zhensheng better in the future. Zhensheng has recovered and will go to kindergarten soon. Just in time, I will continue
Taking care of a baby... Yun, I don't have as many books as you, and I don't have as much culture as you. I don't have anything, but I just know what's good for the child... Look..."
The old man took out an envelope from his pocket: "I can't bear to spend the living expenses you give me every month, so I have saved them all. You can take this money to your confinement nanny, eat more delicious food, and take good care of yourself."
...I just want to take a look at my grandson..."
The old man was crying, and Xie Qingyun was crying too.
She and Li Chengde grew up together, and her mother-in-law loved her as a daughter. After they got married, for a few years, they had no children, and her mother-in-law did not say harsh words like other old people, but asked them to relax and let them go if they couldn't.
Adopt one. The old man took home the seriously ill Zhensheng. The old man did not complain, but took good care of him, and raised Zhensheng until he was white and fat. After several reexaminations, the doctor said that he was recovering very well and was no different from a normal child.
.
Indeed, the mother-in-law never made any demands on them. Keeping this child became her greatest wish for her daughter-in-law.
The old man cried so hard that it frightened Zhensheng. Zhensheng was no stranger to the hospital, and he had a psychological shadow on the hospital. So when he saw his mother lying on the hospital bed, he held her mother's hand in distress.
Holding his hand, he said in a milky voice: "Mom, what's wrong with you? Baby, let me purr you!"
Zhensheng's thoughtfulness and understanding made Xie Qingyun cry again.
Xie Qingshou and Wang Jiying helped the old man out of the ward, leaving room for discussion with the young couple.
Xie Qingyun asked her husband: "What do you think?"
Li Chengde's eyes also turned red: "Sister Yun, everyone has a selfish side..."
Xie Qingyun wiped away his tears: "You want a child of your own, which is definitely not selfish."
"To be honest, I am very conflicted. I do want a child of my own, but what I care more about is your health." Li Chengde said, "I have already asked the obstetricians and gynecologists in the hospital, and they don't even have medical records.
Without looking carefully, they asked me if I wanted this child. I asked them if there were any risks, but they were vague - there are risks in giving birth to the baby, and there are risks in aborting it. You have to make your own choice."
Xie Qingyun smiled bitterly: "Everyone is afraid of taking responsibility. However, it really depends on us whether we want this child or not."
"My idea is, let's go to the largest hospital in Hong Kong, the obstetrician and gynecologist with the best reputation. Then I will send your examination list to my friends who are studying medicine and let them find ways to ask. If the doctor recommends staying,
, let’s just stay, okay?”.
It is not easy to find a responsible doctor. The Xie family used almost all their connections to meet an authoritative obstetrician and gynecologist.
When Xie Qingyun and her husband sat in front of the doctor, they suddenly didn't know what to say.
The doctor looked at the list of examinations they had done at Laicheng Hospital and said
Said: "Do you want to transfer the prenatal check-up files?"
Xie Qingyun said: "I want to know whether this child is worth staying."
"Judging from your ultrasound, the child is fine, why not?"
"I'm older..."
The doctor frowned, then noticed her age.
Xie Qingyun said eagerly: "Over the years, I have insisted on running in the morning, at least three kilometers each time; I also insist on hip-hop dancing, taking two classes a week. Therefore, my weight does not exceed 50 kilograms, and my blood pressure and blood sugar
It's normal, and I look younger."
When he said the last sentence, the doctor couldn't help but laugh.
Xie Qingyun covered her mouth. She was too impatient and didn't pay attention to what she said.
The doctor said kindly: "You really don't look like you are in your forties. I thought you were in your mid-thirties."
"Thank you..." Xie Qingyun said, "Look, this child..."
"Don't you already have the answer in your heart?"
Xie Qingyun was stunned: "I came to you to find the answer."
The doctor said: "You are so anxious to tell me that you keep exercising and are in good health. Don't you just want to prove that although you are not young, you are capable of giving birth to this child?"
is that so?
Xie Qingyun and her husband looked at each other.
The doctor looked at the various examination data carefully and said: "The child's development is normal, and your various indicators are also normal. In my opinion, you can give birth."
Upon hearing this, Xie Qingyun and her husband were relieved and almost cried with joy.
They just wanted to get a definite answer, and the doctor gave it to them happily.
The doctor continued: "At your age, there are indeed many problems that need attention. You must not miss out on every prenatal check-up. If symptoms such as gestational diabetes, gestational hypertension, hypothyroidism during pregnancy, etc. occur, you need timely treatment. Wait until you are screened for Down syndrome.
Check, you try to do it as non-invasively as possible. There will be more items checked and it will be more accurate."
"Thank you, thank you..." Xie Qingyun said excitedly: "I thought that at my age, the doctor would not advise me to get pregnant."
"Analysis of the specific situation, pregnancy itself is a risky thing, no matter you are young or old, the risk will always exist. However, the older you are, the probability of problems is greater. We do not encourage pregnancy at advanced ages.
give birth to a child, but since the fate of you and the child has arrived
, and decided to stay, then keep a good attitude and take prenatal check-ups carefully." The doctor paused and said, "If what you just said is true, then you have maintained good living habits all year round, and your relationship with your husband is also good.
Very good, then I think it is a blessing for this child to be with you two."
Xie Qingyun and her husband bowed deeply to the doctor. They had confidence in their minds and would not think about things.
The arrival of a new life made the Xie family gradually come out of the haze of losing their loved ones. The whole family tried various tricks to supplement Xie Qingyun's nutrition. They all said that Xie Qingyun was sure to be pregnant as soon as her mother left. Life comes and goes.
It's fate, God has been kind to the Xie family.
Moreover, before Xie Qingyun's instructions, his family bought many small gifts for Zhensheng to congratulate him on becoming a big brother. Zhensheng was ignorant and felt very embarrassed to be blessed by everyone.
Xie Qingyun's mother-in-law did not break her promise. She treated Zhensheng better. When Zhensheng fell asleep, she held her grandson's chubby hand and murmured: "What a good boy you are! But your fate is not good... that's not right."
, your life is pretty good. When you come to our house, our family’s life gets better and better, and you also have younger brothers and sisters... You are such a good baby!"
After that, she hummed a song again, patted Zhensheng gently, and pulled up the blanket for him from time to time, for fear that he would get a cold stomach.
Ever since he moved to a new community, no one knew that Zhensheng was adopted because his grandma was so good to him.
Xie Qingyun returned the red envelope given by her mother-in-law to her, but her mother-in-law refused to accept it. She said that she had little money and had finally saved these to give to her daughter-in-law to supplement her nutrition. She could not help with anything else.
Xie Qingyun said: "Mom, help me
They take care of the children so that we don’t have to worry about anything. Doesn’t that count as help? You have worked hard, and we should pay you..."
"Hey! As a family, we don't say such outlandish words!"
"Anyway, just accept the money and spend some more money on yourself. When the baby is born, you will be busy."
Xie Qingyun's mother-in-law couldn't refuse, but she bought a lot of nutritional supplements for her daughter-in-law, and every dinner was different. Li Chengde wanted to eat, but his mother stopped him: "Wait until your daughter-in-law finishes eating!"
Li Chengde could only laugh at himself: "Since my wife became pregnant, my mother no longer wants me!"
Xie Qingyun feels very happy. Although her mother is gone, she can still call her mother-in-law "Mom", and her mother-in-law loves her very much.
Xie Qingyun returned to her home in Hong Kong City. The Xie family was worried and made a special trip to see her. Within a few days, Xie Qingyun's belly bulged slightly. It seemed that the baby was growing very fast in her belly.
Xie Hongxuan felt relieved when he saw that his daughter had a rosy complexion and no discomfort.
Li Chengde specially made an appointment with an expensive private hospital for a prenatal check-up. He accompanied his wife into the ultrasound room and took all the videos of the prenatal check-up. The thumping heartbeat of the child made the whole family very happy.
Life is also beating actively.
Wang Jiying was very curious about the child's gender, and she wanted to prepare a birth gift for the child in advance. She had a doctor she knew in the city, but Xie Qingyun didn't want to check the gender. She had no requirement for the gender, as long as the child was healthy.
Xie Hongxuan said: "I won't be so sad if I think about the child in your belly every day. Otherwise, I will think about your mother all day long and be unable to do anything. Now we have a new addition to our family.
Now, I still have to make some money, how about I give this little grandson a red envelope?"
Xie Qingyun was also very emotional. She secretly believed that this child was given to her by her mother, who wanted to make her grief less intense and make her less lonely. Although she had not felt the fetal movement yet, Xie Qingyun had already felt the baby's movements.
The powerful energy that life brings to her.
School was about to start, and Xie Qingyun was actively preparing lessons every day and went to school several times. Her mother-in-law became anxious and advised: "It's not easy for you to raise this child. Can't you take leave this semester?"
"...Mom, how could I take such a long leave? I only have one class this semester, so I'm not under much pressure. I won't do any other work for the time being."
Xie Qingshou was also worried: "Yun, have you forgotten how you had a miscarriage last time? This semester, you will focus on pregnancy protection, okay?"
"Second brother, don't worry. I have learned from past mistakes. I will be more careful this time."
"You are staying at my house this holiday, and students are looking for you every day, which makes me very nervous. There are also some students who are not sensible. If you get angry and hurt the child..."
"Second brother, students are still more sensible. I have been a teacher for so many years, and I know it well." Xie Qingyun gently stroked his belly and said: "This child is hard-won, but how to live, how to live,
I just have to be careful."
Xie Hongxuan said: "Qingyun's idea is right, we should live a normal life. It is necessary to be careful, but there is no need to be overly cautious."
Xie Qingyun lacks nothing, but she is a little regretful. It would be better if this little life came earlier, then her mother would be happier. The children in the family grew up wearing clothes made by their mother, but her children
Can't wear it anymore.
"Why can't I wear them?" Wang Jiying opened the suitcase and said, "Xie Ying told me before she left that I would give you all these clothes. These are the clothes our mother made for her and she wore them when she was a child. Xie Ying knows everyone
I refused to give it to you, but I gave it to you generously. Although our mother is gone, the child in your belly can still feel the warmth of grandma as long as she wears this dress!"