He Meifang moved her lips, but hesitated to speak. She was afraid that she would say too much and make Zhao Yuer unhappy. The family tried to persuade her for several days, and then the relationship eased. What should be done if the relationship became tense again?
"Yes, mentality is very important. It is even more effective than medicine and any treatment."
Qin Shiming looked serious. He had seen many cancer patients. Some people with a good attitude could live another twenty or thirty years after getting cancer. For those with a bad attitude, once cancer was detected, it would only take two to three months.
This is the mentality.
The same goes for pregnancy and childbirth.
For example, in the past twenty years, what should a newborn child do if its mother has no milk? Make rice soup, or at most add a little sugar to the rice soup, and that's how it feeds the baby.
Now when a child is born, if there is no breast milk, goat milk, imported milk powder, etc. are all arranged. At least once a month, a physical examination is carried out to see if the child is growing well, and trace elements are checked.
Twenty years ago, a physical examination?
What the hell are trace elements?
Ah bah!
It’s good to be alive, but what kind of physical examination do I need? What trace elements do I need to supplement?
But weren’t people healthy at that time?
Look at how many people are getting angry now because of their children. They are worried about this and that. There are countless maternal depressions. In the final analysis, it is the mentality.
Now I am worried about not being able to take care of myself. At that time, as long as I can save my life, it will be Amitabha.
This is the importance of mentality.
"If you can get pregnant, just get pregnant. If you really can't, for half a year, we, the old couple, won't be able to get pregnant. Yu'er, just hurry up and get married and have children. If you have more children, it would be good for us, the old couple, to help take care of the children."
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Zhao Donghai was quite reasonable. Although it was a bit regretful not to have a child of his own, who didn't have regrets throughout his life?
"I'm taking medicine now, and I have to quit smoking and drinking. It's too stressful."
"Doctor Qin, you must help me, my parents..." Zhao Yuer panicked when he heard this. He couldn't build a trumpet, so he came to torment himself?
If there is someone who truly loves each other, it doesn't matter if they get married and have children. Where can I find him for a while?
"Doctor Qin has made it very clear. Don't cause problems for others. Come and have a meal."
Zhao Donghai waved his hand and interrupted Zhao Yuer.
The meals began to arrive on the table one after another. There were all kinds of delicacies, birds and animals, and we had a great time eating. At around nine o'clock in the evening, the dinner party was dismissed. Zhao Donghai and He Meifang left first, while Qin Shiming and Zhao Yu'er walked last.
"Mr. Qin, I really can't help my dad. It's not too much for him to have a child of his own."
Before getting in the car, Zhao Yuer mentioned this matter again.
"My dad hides it very well, but I understand his thoughts..." Zhao Yuer gritted her teeth.
Before, she thought that her stepmother He Meifang wanted to give birth to a child and compete with her for the family property, but now Zhao Yuer is eager for someone to compete with her. Her previous choice to "defeat herself" indeed made Zhao Donghai lose face, but it does not mean that Zhao Yuer is ignorant.
On the contrary, Zhao Yuer is very grateful to her father for adopting her and for raising her up.
Now, it's her turn to repay her parents.
"I said, do your best. I can guarantee that for minor illnesses, there is a certain chance of having a child. How do you want me to guarantee this? I can't personally guide the old couple to have sex, right?"
Qin Shiming smiled bitterly and shrugged.
Doctors are just a profession, and medical skills are not magic. How could you possibly get pregnant right away?
"It won't be a big deal if you remind your dad later not to drink, not to smoke, to rest on time, and to take medicine on time. Don't think too much about it, and keep a calm mind."
After saying a few words of relief, Qin Shiming drove away.
Qin Shiming doesn't plan to go back to Donghu Mountain tonight. Ye Ci is not at home, let alone going to the Ye family manor. He has to go to his father-in-law Su Ding'an's house to sit there. He has to mention the matter about Su Dingguo to his father-in-law.
Furthermore, staying with the elderly is a political task assigned by Kong Tingqiu and must be completed.
"Ding dong..."
After ringing the doorbell, Su Dingan opened the door wearing pajamas.
"Xiao Qin, why are you here?"
Su Dingan was overjoyed and hurriedly invited Qin Shiming into the house.
"Sit down, sit down, I just made a pot of tea."
"I've been busy out of town for the past few days, so I took the time to come over tonight to spend some time with you. By the way, Uncle Peng and Uncle Gao haven't asked you to have a drink with you recently?" Qin Shiming asked with a smile.
"With their bodies, can they still drink?"
While pouring the tea, Su Dingan said with a smile: "This tea was sent by your Uncle Gao. He said it was to thank you for treating him. He feels much better now."
"Lao Peng also sent a letter, saying that our family would go to Kyoto to play when we have time, and he would pay for all the expenses."
"By the way, what did you just say? Did you go out of town?"
"Well, I went to Changhe City."
Qin Shiming picked up the tea cup and took a sip, "Su Hao's father had an accident at the construction site. He was rescued, but his legs were not saved. I was afraid that you would be worried, so I never told you. I thought I would tell you tonight."
"How could something happen at the construction site?"
The smile on Su Ding'an's face froze instantly. He was dissatisfied with his eldest brother Su Dingguo, but he could not change the fact that the two were brothers.
"Jerry-gouging, trying to save costs, but during the first phase of the acceptance inspection, the house turned upside down and hit him. The steel bar pierced his chest, and he came back, and his legs..."
"Deserve it!"
Su Ding'an's eyes were red. He was obviously very sad. He still hated Su Dingguo for being ignorant and unsatisfactory. It was understandable that he wanted to make more money. What was the difference between cutting corners in construction and seeking money and killing people?
I guess the balance has not been paid yet. I suffered first. What is retribution?
"You are brothers, take the time to take a look. If he doesn't do human affairs, we can't do nothing."
"I will go there when I have time."
Su Ding'an let out a long sigh, "Shi Ming, it's really hard for you to deal with our family's affairs."
"Uncle, you are just talking about this. I..."
"Didi...didi..."
Just as he picked up the tea cup and before he could drink it into his mouth, Qin Shiming's cell phone suddenly rang. Seeing that it was Zhao Yu'er, he couldn't help but frown. The two of them had just been separated for less than an hour. Why were they calling him?
"Hey, something's up..."
"Doctor Qin, save me, save me, I've been tricked by Liu Ke, hurry up, I'm at the Lijiang Club...save me..."
As soon as the call was connected, Zhao Yuer's anxious voice came over. Before he finished speaking, the phone fell to the ground with a "pop" and there was no sound anymore. When he called again, it was prompted that the phone was turned off.
"Liu Ke?"
Qin Shiming muttered, thinking how could Liu Ke plot against Zhao Yuer?
Does Liu Ke have the courage?
Does Liu Ke have that ability?
"Is there something urgent? I'm busy with you, so don't worry about me." Although he didn't hear the specific matter, Su Ding'an still asked Qin Shiming to focus on his career.
"There are indeed some things that need to be dealt with. I will go out first. Uncle, you should also rest early."
After much thought, Qin Shiming decided to go there.
"Well, please drive safely at night and call me if you need anything."