After the girl finished speaking, she lowered her head, but now, she was already hesitating whether she should get married.
"Then let me ask you a question, after you get married, what if your boyfriend still doesn't want you to eat in his car?"
Cen Li paused for a moment before continuing, "You will be a family by then, and his car is also your car. Don't you even have the right to eat in your own car?"
After the girl heard this, she was stunned.
Cen Li continued, "In other words, if he didn't want you to eat in the car before marriage, will he be willing after marriage?"
The girls became even more silent.
"Last question, if he is willing to let his wife eat in the car after marriage, but is not willing to let you eat in the car, what do you think the problem is?" Cen Li asked.
"I…"
The girl understood the meaning of Cen Li's words, her lips were trembling, but she still said, "But... we are already discussing getting engaged, so we should..."
Cen Li looked directly at the girl, "So, how is your boyfriend's attitude towards you? Has it changed?"
The girl was stunned for a moment, and then fell silent.
Of course things have changed.
In the past, no matter what she did, her boyfriend always followed her preferences, but since then, he has become more and more impatient with her.
Just like today, leaving her alone has never happened before.
Seeing her attitude, Cen Li roughly understood and sighed, "Whose family situation is better, you or him?"
The girl said: "The one at my house is relatively better."
Cen Li said: "Where's the income?"
The girl said: "He is taller, but mine is not bad either."
Cen Li nodded and continued to ask, "I think that car is quite new. Did he buy it new?"
The girl nodded, "Yes, he said it would be convenient to have a car and pick me up..."
Cen Li raised her lips mockingly, "So, after he buys the car, is it convenient for you?"
The girl was silent again.
If it were convenient, she wouldn't use Cen Li's car today.
"Did you pay for that car?" Cen Li continued to ask.
The girl nodded and said, "He said he didn't have enough money, so I paid some. I thought I was getting engaged anyway, so I bought it for myself..."
When it comes to this, the girls themselves can't speak anymore.
Yes, she obviously paid for it and it's her car, so why can't she eat in her car?
Is it because she was not the one driving the car?
Cen Li smiled slightly, "It seems that you have already figured it out."
The girl covered her face with her hands and choked, "I just don't understand why he is like this?"
"I don't know what's going on between you two, but as a girl, I think you need to learn to love yourself first."
Cen Li said seriously, "For example, when it comes to buying a car, if it were me, I would choose to buy one myself instead of asking someone to pick it up."
Instead of placing your hopes on others, it is better to stand up for yourself.
It’s not that you don’t need your boyfriend’s help for anything, but you must have the ability to do everything calmly without your boyfriend.
Otherwise, once you leave that person, it will be very painful.
"Sister, love is a very romantic and beautiful thing. It's okay to love someone, but you can't love someone so much that you lose yourself."
Cen Li handed the girl a tissue and said, "Think about it, have your situations changed between the beginning of your relationship and now?"