Chapter 1021: Happy to think about giving, angry to think about taking away
The deep sky is full of stars, a crescent moon stands still in the distance, the faint silver light is as hazy as a veil, and fine bright spots decorate the night sky. The gentle evening breeze dispels the noise and impetuosity, and the occasional floral fragrance is soothing.
Fascinated, the street lights on both sides of the street are like fireflies, lighting up the dreamy paper lanterns in flickering light.
A figure staggered past the main entrance of the hotel. His light blue robe was still straight, the leather boots on his feet were shiny, his messy hair smelled of alcohol, and the wand in his hand kept shining. He struggled to push open the courtyard door.
, with a surge of energy and blood, he finally returned home. Lying on the bed with his head up, the books in the storage bag stood on the table, facing the moonlight, and there was infinite longing between the lines.
The zither is played with gold millet pillars, in front of the jade house with bare hands; in order to win the attention of Zhou Lang, it is often played by mistake. After losing our naivety, we each have our own way of survival. The clumsy people choose to be diligent and follow the rules like the old monk ringing the bell.
But smart people often find other ways to win the other person's favor through verbal or physical expressions. Even if they already know the answer, they just choose to play dumb and highlight the other person's brilliance in this way.
They are the masters of psychology, and they are experts at observing people's emotions. They praise like witty words and praise without leaving any trace. It seems that all problems can be solved in the words of a lotus.
.Those who are not good at flattering, flattering, flattering, flattering, and adapting to the wind. Those who are not good at this can only use these sharp and harsh words to cover up their IQ dilemma.
Everything in the world is driven by interests and is accompanied by the market, and the same is true for flattery. This is just like we have been asked to praise a certain law. I don’t know whether this behavior is for "showing others" or to fight.
I truly love the land I live in.
But for those of us who are passive recipients, every time we receive this kind of information, it is as uncomfortable as eating flies. Because no city is without problems, just like gold is not pure, and no one is perfect. This kind of behavior
To put it bluntly, it is nothing more than seeking fame and reputation. It is unnecessary and childish, and it is also a manifestation of arrogance.
Flattery is a skill, but also a knowledge. It is not difficult to find that even among the goblins who admire the power of technology, people who know how to flatter are often very popular. In order to survive, everyone gradually becomes duplicitous, even though flattery is a bit awkward.
, but we still enjoy it.
For example, if the leader of your mercenary group likes something that is difficult to buy, his subordinates should try their best to do it for him, even pay for it out of their own pockets, and the whole process should be done quietly, as if they can just pick it up in the clear sky.
Done. The price in exchange for this is that the group leader will usually take more care of his subordinates, and may even be lucky when he fills a vacancy and is promoted.
The trick is to know how to size up the situation and observe what is happening, because everyone who has some power in their hands wants someone to flatter them and wants their subordinates to be respectful. Therefore, whether we are willing or forced to do it for our own money, learn to
You can never go wrong with flattering people.
But flattery is by no means a beautiful language, nor is it a flattering face. It is natural and a compromise chosen to achieve a goal.
People's thoughts go straight forward like a three-track train, or they go straight forward after going off track, but in the end they go the same way. Just like the autobiography of a certain Star City scholar, there are a lot of chapters explaining interpersonal relationships, which sounds better.
They call it flattery, but in fact they are just techniques to teach people how to flatter others.
Those servants who surround the strong man all day long use various flattery methods, but their purpose is to make him smile, just like the madman in secret love. Asking questions is a compulsory subject, confiding in the heart is an elective subject, and what kind of tea the strong man likes is the basis.
Knowledge, and the water temperature you are used to are extra points. If you are stalking, you have to get entangled in the minutiae, and you have to hit the soft spots. In many cases, flattery is the same as falling in love, with ups and downs. And flattery must be done in person, because only in this way can the other party benefit a lot. Even if you are disgusted by yourself, even if the people around you are despised, as long as the other party is happy, everything is not a problem.
As for those who sneer, they can never find the other person's weakness. They are always used to imposing some unwarranted stereotypes on others. Little do they know that strong people are also mortals, and they also need to be held in the palm of their hands from time to time, followed by kisses and hugs.
, Lift high.
Most strong people sit in their rooms practicing all day long, which is actually very lonely, so we need to talk to them when we have nothing to do, because this is an important channel for us to control each other's information and emotions. And most strong people like to spend time outside of practice.
Being complimented or hearing some interesting stories.
But if it is a trivial matter, they usually get nothing more than a lengthy reprimand. But if there is really something big that requires them to make a decision, the strong ones will often appear restless and even hate the person who asks.
So when we don’t have anything important to do, we can go chat with each other. Even if there is really nothing to talk about, we can still talk about our own experiences. Maybe as we talk like this, the relationship between us will become more and more intimate.
.If we can open our hearts to each other, we will become each other's confidants and even be regarded as people we can rely on.
In order to achieve such an effect, stupid people choose to report. Because the Mingzhi method of reporting in this way creates attachments like "loyalty" and "trust", thereby creating a relationship between subordinates and close friends.
atmosphere. But the risks associated with it are also self-evident, either to achieve success or to be ruined.
Finally, although the circles we hang out in are all kinds of things, they are essentially the same. Try to be equally divided between friends. You can only hang out and not stand out, otherwise others will regard you as a vulnerable group, and once the vulnerable group
When you are anxious, it is especially easy to form a group and eventually form a unified external situation.
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When the spirit begins to condense and develop morbid tissue proliferation due to the infiltration of some mysterious substance, causing itching sensation, this morbid tissue proliferation is half happiness and half self-defense. It forms the initial stage leading to materiality and forms the non-physical growth.
The transition from matter to matter.
According to the bards, a story perfectly explains this situation. The old king wanted to divide the land among his three daughters. The eldest daughter and the second daughter, who were sweet-talking and brave, won his favor and divided the fiefdom. However, the younger daughter
Because I don’t want to flatter myself, I get nothing in the end.
Life is like an idiot's dream, full of noise and commotion, but without any meaning. How to live a better life is the most real purpose. If you use vinegar as ink, writing all your life will be sour. Those who stand on a certain commanding heights
People can live their ideal life, but for most people, the result of something is far more important than the process.
This is just like the image of the city guard who is hypocritical and flattering and adapts to the situation. When they think that a certain dog belongs to an ordinary family, they threaten to kill it and punish its owner; when they hear that the dog owner is a certain person,
When I was a high-level warrior, I would sweat on my forehead and tremble all over.
They are constantly changing their biological forms like chameleons. This is not so much a mockery of the unreasonableness of the law as it is the most groveling embodiment of a flatterer.
Therefore, no one can claim to understand the world. From the past to today, each of us has always been a seeker, but we no longer seek in the stars or ancient books, but begin to listen to the whispers in our own blood.
Living is for a better life, it has nothing to do with means, and has nothing to do with mentality.