Chapter 249 Argument, Lao Wang urges the baby online
In the evening, I drank a pound with Lao Yuan. After drinking too much, Lao Yuan started to chatter.
He talked about work again, thought about Mengguo far away in the countryside, and helped plan the future of his three children.
He wanted all three children to go to college, and even asked Mengyi to take care of the three children. He wanted to teach the three children to learn and write. He couldn't let the three children waste their childhood like this.
These are the words that Mengyi least wants to hear.
Mengyi has Mengyi’s own educational philosophy, but Mengyi doesn’t want children’s learning to be used for learning.
Mengyi pays more attention to children's interests. Although the children do not deliberately study now, under Zhang Yu's intentional or unintentional guidance, the children's learning has surpassed many of their peers.
Mengyi pays more attention to children's moral concepts.
Mengyi's philosophy is to learn to be a human being first, and then think about learning issues.
Because, in the compound, the three children of Qin Huairu's family, including Liu Haizhong's children and Yan Bugui's children, are all living examples.
This is a realistic problem before us. Mengyi does not want to see a situation like theirs in the future, where parents are unkind and children are unfilial.
Regarding Mengyi's decision, Zhang Yu supports her 100%.
Lao Yuan originally wanted to take advantage of his drunkenness to have a good-bye with Mengyi, which made Lao Wang beside him very dissatisfied.
He hit Lao Yuan’s thigh hard, and the instant stinging sensation made Lao Yuan immediately wake up from his drunken state.
Coupled with Lao Wang's death gaze, I was half awake immediately.
"Okay, okay, you can take care of the children's affairs. I was drunk and talked too much."
"You continue chatting, I'll go to bed and lie down for a while."
Zhang Yu saw Lao Yuan swaying and wanted to get up and help him.
Let Lao Wang stop him with a look.
"Sit down and let him go back to the house by himself."
"Really, he didn't even drink. He deserved to fall."
Although she said so, she still asked Mengxue to send Lao Yuan back to the house.
"Mengyi, your dad just drank too much and talked drunkenly."
"But you also have to understand your father's mood. Elders all hope for their younger generations. The waves behind the Yangtze River push the waves ahead, and each wave is stronger than the last."
"Think about it, Zhang Yu is now standing at this height at a young age. Your father desperately wants his three children to surpass Zhang Yu's achievements one day instead of living in Zhang Yu's shadow."
Lao Wang also struggled with his words in order to give Lao Yuan his true words.
I blame Lao Yuan in my heart, knowing that Mengyi has her own educational philosophy, but still wants to get involved. Isn’t this adding chaos!
"Mom, what my dad said is actually correct. There is no parent who doesn't hope that their children will become dragons and phoenixes."
"We know dad's love for his children very well."
"You don't have to blame Dad. As for the children's learning, Mengyi and I have always attached great importance to it, and the children's learning mood is also very high."
"As for their future achievements, Mengyi and I can't decide that."
"The result of Mengyi and I's efforts is to lay a solid foundation for the children so that they will have no worries in the future."
"It allows them to pursue their dreams with confidence."
"I believe that children who grow up in a family with a good learning atmosphere like ours will have a more brilliant future than mine."
When Zhang Yu said these words, one was his recognition of Comrade Lao Yuan, and the other was his affirmation of Mengyi’s educational philosophy.
The most important thing between husband and wife is to work together.
The two have very clear ideas and do not want to use their own outlook on life to influence the future direction of their children.
As long as we keep the kindness in the children's hearts and ensure that there is no problem with their mentality, the rest is completely left to the children to make their own choices.
"Okay, you can decide these issues yourself."
"However, I think you are still young now, less than thirty, so you can definitely give Nuannuan them a few younger brothers and sisters."
"The three children are growing up now. Nuannuan and Xinxin are like sisters, and they help you take good care of the puppy."
"You can definitely have a few more to enrich your family life."
Lao Wang's sudden change of tone made Zhang Yu and Mengyi a little bit unprepared for their mistakes.
We were talking about education just now, but now we are directly talking about having children.
Mengyi and Zhang Yu exchanged a glance, and Zhang Yu saw a flash of shame in Mengyi's eyes.
Lao Wang is waiting for the two children to reply. Why are they both mute?
"Hey, hey! I'm talking to you two about business."
"Especially for you, Mengyi, this is something you should worry about."
Listening to Lao Wang's words becoming more and more explicit, Mengyi quickly interrupted Lao Wang.
"Oh! Mom, isn't this a matter of life? Doesn't he have to have some time?"
"Having said that, we also want to ask the children for their opinions and ask them if they want a little brother or sister."
As soon as Mengyi finished speaking, Little Dog Dan, who was sitting next to him, immediately raised his hands high.
"Mom, I do, I like my little brother and sister."
"Goudan, this is not something you can just talk about. You have to be prepared to be a big brother."
"When you have little brothers and sisters, you need to spend time taking care of them."
"With little brothers and sisters, you won't have time to play with He Xin and the others."
Little Dog Dan agreed without even thinking about it.
"Mom, I can do it. I am willing to take care of my younger brothers and sisters. I don't have to play with He Xin."
In fact, children often play house among themselves, because among the friends, Goudan is the youngest, and Goudan is always the one with the lowest status.
This made Goudan very unconvinced, but since they were older brothers and sisters, he was single and thin and could not resist.
When his mother mentioned the matter of younger brothers and sisters, Xiaowudan agreed very actively. Thinking that with his younger brothers and sisters, he would no longer be the youngest, Xiaowudan was happy just thinking about it.
Nuan Nuan and Xin Xin have also adapted to the life of raising their younger brother. Nuan Nuan and Xin Xin are very open-minded about the mother's problem of having another baby.
Seeing that the children all agreed, Lao Wang was very happy, and he also had a change in Mengyi's educational philosophy.
Lao Wang hugged the three children and touched their heads with his hands.
"Nuan Nuan Xinxin really looks like a big sister, and she also has a little puppy, don't forget what I said today."
"When you have little brothers and sisters, you have to take on the responsibility of being an older brother."
Little Dog Dan nodded vigorously, not forgetting to stuff a piece of meat into his mouth.
Mengyi saw that the puppy was still eating eggs, and took a look at his little belly, which was so full.
"Okay, I'm still eating. Look at your belly. It's so full that you can't sleep at night."
"No, mom, dad's cooking is so delicious. I can't get enough of the puppy eggs."
While Little Dog Dan refuted his mother, he also did not forget to praise his father.
Zhang Yu was amused by this boy's words.
"Goudan, listen to mom and stop eating. Daddy will cook it for you later."
Little Dog Dan touched his belly and found that he really couldn't eat anymore. He couldn't help but sigh and wondered why his belly was so small.