In reality, there are always stupid women who believe that "the more a woman does, the more a man will love her", and they conclude that "because you love me, you have to tolerate everything about me".
The more patient and tolerant a man is, the more arrogant and indulgent they become, and they will never know how to "just give up when things get better".
Occasionally "acting" in love is fun; "acting" every day in marriage is really torture.
And when the man couldn't bear it any longer and turned around to leave, the seductive woman would jump behind her and curse:
"It turns out that all the good things you said to me before were fake!
You’re a big liar who plays with girls’ feelings!
Sure enough, none of the men in the world are good!"
They never think about it, what kind of feelings can withstand endless abuse and trampling? Who wouldn't be heartbroken if they are not treated with consideration or respect for many years?
Men are human too!
Even dogs suffer from depression, so men have to be fucked every day and greet them with a smile?
Who can stand this day when it’s worse than a dog?
When a relationship is ruined by "ejaculation" and reaches a dead end, the man who is already covered in scars just wants to escape unscathed. Is it wrong?
Jia Lian thinks that he has done his best for Sister Feng and this marriage. Perhaps separation is not a bad thing.
At least, "harmony" is much more decent than "divorce".
There is nothing wrong with each other retaining some final dignity.
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Jia Lian persuaded Wang Xifeng again and again, because he really hoped to fight side by side with Wang Xifeng.
Jia Lian has a lot of things to do, and a considerate and capable wife is what he wants. Unfortunately, Wang Xifeng's heart cannot always agree with him.
Up to now, the Grand View Garden has not been completed, and the Rongguo Mansion is still in a mess. If Jia Lian wants to become the head of the family, he must first find a way to "take down" the group of moths headed by Lai Da.
Jia Lian secretly pondered this matter for a long time, and the method he came up with was to "thoroughly check the accounts."
But Qin Keqing’s words today awakened Jia Lian.
This is not Lai Da or Lai Erliang, this is a large group of borers that have been raised in Jia's house for many years.
They are pervasive, their roots are intertwined, they cover the sky and the sun, like countless vines, tightly entangled in the old tree of the Jia family, eating flesh and drinking blood all the time.
They had already secretly twisted into a soft and thin rope. It didn't look scary, but in fact it had been tightly wrapped around Jia Mansion's neck, tightening little by little, making Jia Mansion unable to struggle at all.<
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Lai Da is the chief steward of Rongguo Mansion, and Lai Er is the chief steward of Ningguo Mansion. They are both people who really hold the lifeline of the Jia family.
The Rongguo Mansion said that Jia Lian was the steward, but in fact the chief steward Lai Da actually followed Jia Zheng. He only listened to Jia Zheng's orders and only reported work to Jia Zheng.
As the "steward" of the Rongguo Mansion, Jia Lian actually faced Lin Zhixiao, the second housekeeper. When Sister Feng was the housekeeper, the person who assisted Sister Feng was also Lin Zhixiao's daughter-in-law.
Lin Zhixiao is also a hard worker. It is Lai Da who is really in charge of the accounting office, bank, granary, warehouse, comprador and other functional departments.
Because as long as Lai Da follows the head of the family, Jia Zheng, every day, only Lai Da can report work to Jia Zheng anytime and anywhere.
These managers and workers all understand the benefits of following Lai Dabi and Jia Lian.
Wu Xindeng and his wife are in charge of the accounting room and the bank. The male is in charge of the external accounting and the female is in charge of the internal accounting. They are a couple who firmly control the money pockets of the Jia family.
What's even more impressive is that Wu Xindeng's daughter married Lai Shangning, Lai Er's son.
Both families have become in-laws, what kind of accounts can’t be settled?
The steward of the granary is Dai Liang, who is the uncle of Yu Lu, who is in charge of silver and rice. Yu Lu's nephew made money and became Mrs. Wang's roommate. The Zhenghua family's name is Grandma Qian.
The niece of Zheng Hua's family married Wu Xindeng's nephew.
The comprador's name is Qian Hua. His wife died last year and he married another sister-in-law of Zhou Rui's family, Mrs. Wang's companion.
Although Zhou Rui's family didn't do anything, because she was Mrs. Wang's companion, she was quite dignified, good-natured, and dedicated to pleasing everyone, so the owners of all the houses liked her.
And recently, there are also emerging forces such as Grandma Li and the Mingyan family who are scheming and scheming.
Facing such a complicated environment, God knows how much Jia Lian needs a comrade-in-arms and a virtuous wife to fight side by side!
But what about Wang Xifeng?
Alas - I am a "virtuous (salty) wife", but she is a "troublemaker". I can't tell the difference between the situation. As soon as I get jealous at the beginning, I will immediately stop caring about everything and wait until I have made enough trouble.
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Jia Lian was depressed when he suddenly heard someone coming from outside to report:
"The eldest master asked the second master to come over quickly."
"Now?" Jia Lian glanced at the chiming clock.
Damn it!
It’s almost eleven o’clock!
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The world of Red Mansion is different from Jia Lian's previous life. Everyone has become accustomed to staying up late. Even if they drink "late-night water" soaked in a whole root of American ginseng and a handful of wolfberry, they still don't go to bed before four o'clock.
But the world of Red Mansions is definitely a place where "please close your eyes when it gets dark".
At half past eight in summer, but before eight in winter, everyone lies down for beauty sleep.
Early the next morning, everyone is like a chicken. At five o'clock in the summer and seven o'clock in the winter, they all get up with the sun.
Except for Jia Lian, who couldn't adapt to going to bed early and getting up early after traveling through time, there are only two weirdos in the entire Rong Ning Mansion who go to bed late and get up late.
One is Jia Zhen, who is so willful that no one can control her, and the other is Jia She, who is so willful that no one wants to control her.
But the two products are different.
Jia Zhen often invited wealthy young hereditary sons to the house to fight cocks and lackeys, ask willows and judge flowers, and take turns to be the host. She often slaughtered pigs, sheep, geese and ducks every day for twenty days and a month.
They all showed off their good cooks and good cooking, which often caused commotion in the Ningguo Mansion until late at night.
Jia She is not that generous, and he doesn't like to gather people to guess and make a fuss. He only likes to sing and flirt with his group of wives every day, so Jia She's nightly recitals are not as objectionable as Jia Zhen's. p>
But it’s really annoying to drag people out in the middle of the night.
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Jia Lian got up with a look of helplessness. After washing and changing clothes, he followed the visitor carrying a lantern all the way to Jia She's east courtyard.
Before entering the hospital, I could hear the soft sound of flutes in the courtyard, and the sound of women clearing their throats and singing songs, which was really intoxicating.
Jia Lian had no idea what Jia She was going to do, so he had to bite the bullet and enter the hospital.
Before he could salute, Jia She, who was hugging Qiutong and kissing her, laughed loudly and said:
"What a good boy! You are finally making a difference! Your father really didn't support you in vain!"
Jia Lian was completely confused and still had to bow politely, but Jia She shouted to stop:
"It's late at night, don't do that false etiquette!
You bastard! You asked the old lady for Qingwen, but if you want to take a concubine, why don’t you ask your father for it? This is looking down on your father, right?
Come on, come on! Qiutong is for you! Take it away now!"