When Sister Feng heard this, she didn't quite understand the meaning of Jia Lian's words. She felt in a daze that she disliked herself for "not studying and learning", which touched her heart and she cried:
"When I was a child, my family raised me as a boy, and I often came to live in your house.
At that time, I saw that you never liked reading and writing, and only liked to be clever in everything, so I also thought that it would be good not to study.
Why do you think I am uneducated now? Sister Lin is very knowledgeable, can she marry you?"
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Alas - this is the gap, the gap in family education.
Wang Xifeng said that she was raised as a boy, and her sister Lin was also "raised as a boy." However, she was raised as a boy by making her daughter look like a boy, starting her education at the age of five, and even hired a Jinshi graduate.
Jia Yucun works as a tutor.
Jia Yucun, who once worked as a tutor in Zhen Baoyu's family, was forced to leave because the Zhen family felt sorry for their children's hard work in school. But when Jia Yucun came to the Lin family, Lin Ruhai allowed him to free up his hands and feet to educate his daughter.
The result of education is that although Lin Daiyu was in poor health, by the age of seven, she was able to recite the entire "Four Books".
(In a word, Baoyu is now fifteen years old, and he still can’t memorize even half of the "Four Books". What a gap.)
Look at Wang Xifeng, who also claims to raise her daughter like a boy. She was illiterate and "blind" when she got married.
The Wang family is not a scholarly family, and the training of their children is to be "killing and decisive", to be fearless, to encourage competition, and to encourage grabbing. Therefore, the girls trained by the Wang family have extremely strong "desires" and are all dedicated to achieving their goals.
Whatever it takes.
This reminded Jia Lian of the "wolf culture" that the company in his previous life had been clamoring about every day. It clearly advocated barbaric predatory nature and wanted to turn people into wild wolves that would not recognize their relatives, but they still shamelessly called it "culture", even if they were not even wolves.
Sorry to be so shameless.
In fact, many middle-level people in modern enterprises often use Wang Xifeng's method. They flatter all kinds of tricks and flattery at the top, and use repressive management and tough control at the bottom. In order to get more benefits, only
Aggressive and predatory, not much humanity left.
But the fatal problem is that the management level of this kind of person will only make it look good on the surface. It is beneficial to the middle managers themselves, but it is harmful to the development of the enterprise itself. p>
The most obvious example is that after the daughter of the Wang family got married, her husband's family gradually declined, but the Wang family took advantage of the situation to rise.
The daughters of the Wang family are like "mother locusts" who control their men through marriage, and then continue to control their husband's family through reproduction. While making money and benefits for themselves, they make full use of the advantages of their husband's family to feed their parents' family.
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As for whether their husband's family will be harmed by this, they can't see it. They will never understand that unchecked greed is fatal.
Because since they were young, their family education has never included "thinking about others". The focus of their training is on skills, IQ, emotional intelligence, greed, aggression, predatory, and just caring about themselves.
The Wang family doesn’t care whether others live or die.
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Wang Xifeng didn't know what Jia Lian was thinking, she just thought about herself and said sadly:
"Just because you said you wanted to marry a wife as capable as me when I was ten years old, I decided to marry you.
Later, my cousin died, and my aunt asked me to marry Uncle Zhen as her stepmother, but I refused to agree, even to the point where I wanted to hang myself in a well. I told my parents and aunt that I had to marry for the rest of my life.
Not for you.
I made such a fuss in the first place, and now if I am sent back to my parents’ home, how can I see anyone?
In the past few years, I know that I have been very strict with you, so you can’t just say ‘harmony’ at all times. After all, we are husband and wife for a hundred days, so how can you bear to treat me like this?”
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Jia Lian felt that he should give himself a mouth.
Play the harp to a cow. The cow is innocent, but the one who plays the harp is mentally retarded.
There is really no need to reason with Wang Xifeng.
After saying a lot of things to make her understand "why", it would be easier to just tell her "what to do" directly. Otherwise, it would actually be a kind of torture for both her and myself.
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So Jia Lian immediately changed his strategy and asked Wang Xifeng directly:
"Since you said you knew you were wrong, I'll give you a chance to correct it. Can you do what I said?"
Wang Xifeng’s eyes flickered:
"You...how many wives do you want to marry?"
Jia Lian really felt that although Wang Xifeng was uneducated, she still had some management skills. In addition, she was shrewd in everything she said, so she could be regarded as a housekeeper who had carved out a "wild path". But her vision was so...
It's really like raising a bastard in a jar - the more you raise it, the more it becomes sour.
Jia Lian did not answer Wang Xifeng's words and continued:
"First of all, from now on, you are not allowed to interfere or interfere with matters outside the second door. Just take care of your family's affairs. Any matters involving internal and external issues that are difficult to distinguish must be decided by me.
The second thing is that all matters involving money and people at home must be discussed with me before making a decision, and you are not allowed to act rashly behind my back.
The third thing is, everything you did before must be clearly explained to me and dealt with clearly. Otherwise, find out for me, and don’t blame me for divorcing your wife immediately.
How to deal with it? I'll teach you.
Jingxu of Shuiyue Temple instigated you to do what happened to the rich man Zhang's family. You stepped forward and beat her forty times, kicked her out of the family temple, and sent her to the government for conviction.
Three thousand taels, doubled for a total of six thousand taels, to compensate the former Chang'an garrison's family."
"Ah? Then my face..."
"Is face worth more? Or is life worth more? It's up to you." Jia Lian refused to give in, his voice dripping with ice.
Wang Xifeng was already frightened after hearing this.
She has heard stories about Wu Zetian since she was a child, and her favorite one is Wu Zetian’s story of taming a fierce horse:
"It's not difficult to tame this fierce horse. First whip it with an iron whip. If it can't be tamed, then hit its head with a hammer. If it still can't be tamed, use a dagger to cut its throat."
What a "decision to kill"!
But now, she suddenly felt that she was not the "Wu Zetian" she had always thought, but the fierce horse tamed by Wu Zetian.
When the hammer hits your head, if you don't surrender, the dagger will definitely go straight to your throat without hesitation.
Wang Xifeng is not a fool, she has always understood who should not be offended.
At this time, he no longer dared to resist, he lowered his head politely, raised the tea tray high, and said with a cry:
"From now on, I will follow the second master's wishes and obey everything he says. I will never dare to make arbitrary decisions without authorization."
Baba waited for a long time before he finally felt the tea tray lighten up, and Jia Lian finally took the cup of tea from the tea tray.