Nongyu was still in a daze in the pavilion. Baifeng said a lot, which was actually just his own insights from working under Lu Yan over the years, but he did not talk about the core idea.
Taking a closer look at the subordinates in Lu Yan's team, in fact, all of them are leaders among people. As sons and daughters of the world, each one has his or her own pride and pursuit, which invisibly satisfies the core essence - the sense of subjectivity.
People like Bai Feng and Mo Ya, even as subordinates, still have a strong sense of self. Lu Yan can respect such self and give enough room for development. This is why Mo Ya and Bai Feng are under Lu Yan's
Like a fish in water, his realm has reached a higher level. If it were Ji Wuye, this kind of subordinate would have been hacked to death long ago.
But it is very regrettable that Nongyu, who relies on Lu Yan in life, does not have such a strong sense of subjectivity. She is already satisfied by marrying Lu Yan and being a good wife who is attached to her husband.
When Lu Yan was busy with world affairs, and Ju Shuang happened to be away, Nong Yu gradually got used to relying on Lu Yan's side, and fell into a spiritual predicament, unable to extricate himself. The psychological pressure accumulated since the wedding was all there.
The outburst at this time directly caused her condition to be so bad that Bai Feng couldn't help it.
Lu Yan was also responsible for this, because he did not discuss the matter directly with Nong Yu. I used to think that when Nong Yu was at Zilanxuan in South Korea, she was still a very smart girl with her own ideas, but after falling in love, she
I had forgotten that the huge difference in social status between the couple put heavy invisible shackles on Nongyu.
After hearing Bai Feng's words today, Lu Yan finally realized that he should tell Nong Yu directly that he does not need a subordinate woman who regards her husband as her heaven, but needs a wife who has her own self, a relatively equal woman.
husband-wife relationship.
To be honest, Lu Yan felt that he was abnormal when he thought about this. Coming to the early days of feudal society, it was a wonderful feeling to instill equality between husband and wife with his wife.
"Nongyu." He gently walked up behind her and called.
Nongyu was shocked and turned around with a forced smile, "Husband?! When did you come back?"
"For a while, I have been thinking that it is my own fault that the Imperial Preceptor's Office is in the state it is today."
Lu Yan stopped his wife who was about to speak, pulled her to sit in the pavilion, and began to talk slowly.
"Let me tell you first, my hometown, where everyone is equal. If a man marries more than one woman, it is against the law. The relationship between husband and wife should be equal. If they cannot live together,
Then you have the right to file for divorce. That's why I declare that you are the only one in the world. This is to practice the rules of my hometown."
Nongyu couldn't help but ask: "Well, sir, your hometown is far away from the Central Plains."
Lu Yan smiled self-deprecatingly, "If it's not something that can be described, it's not in this world."
"I grew up with the idea that everyone is equal and everyone has equal personality, so when I came here, I had basic respect for everyone. That's why Sister Ju Shuang looked at me with admiration.
Later, I studied in Xiaoshengxianzhuang. While taking care of Ayan, she also accepted some of the ideas I taught her, so she established her self-awareness very early. She always listened to me, not because of an inferiority relationship, but because of her respect for
My approval.”
Nongyu thought thoughtfully and guessed: "Because I always agree with my husband and don't have my own ideas and feel inferior to others, is this why my sister doesn't like me?"
Lu Yan felt that there was some truth in it. Ju Shuang himself was quite strong. It was very possible that he could not understand Nong Yu like this, so he said with three points of certainty: "Well, that's probably true. You were adopted by Zi Nu girl since you were a child. Although
Purple Girl, you are doing good deeds, but in the final analysis, you are just trained to serve others, so how can you have a strong self?
This is all my fault for not explaining these issues clearly to you. The most valuable thing for a person is the recognition of his own personality. When you got married, you faced people who abused you because of the huge difference in our identities.
I thought you already had an independent personality and self-esteem, but I didn’t expect..."
Nongyu smiled bitterly, "I don't have any courage at all. It's just because I trust my husband. Bai Feng said that I am a little girl, and he is absolutely right."
"Now, Nong Yu, try to be more confident. Don't regard me as your support. You should have your own pursuits and ideas. We are two people coming together, not a strong one dragging the weak one forward.
"
"The relationship between husband and wife is about two people coming together, not the strong dragging the weak forward..." She finally realized where her shortcomings were and suddenly realized, "I'm sorry, husband, I've embarrassed you."
Lu Yan held her hand, shook his head and said, "No, it was the two of us who had bad things about each other when we got along, which led to the current result. I also want to apologize to you."
Nong Yu showed a confident smile and her mood improved, "Well, I accept it."
The two finally talked to each other, and they felt closer to each other in their hearts, and their relationship took a further step.
Suddenly, Nong Yu jumped up and looked at Lu Yan with stern eyes, "Husband, your ambition is to unify these nine states, and the people who are confused in the national war will all have one name from now on. The Chinese nation, people will be peaceful and happy, and will never be together again."
I suffered from the war. I think I have found my own path."
Lu Yan was overjoyed and asked eagerly: "What is it?"
Nong Yu didn't say anything directly, but walked quickly back to the room and took out the handful of Yu Ru Xuan Bing given by Kuang Xiu.
She carefully set up the piano, sat down, held her breath and meditated, "Master said that the most sublime music is composing the world. Husband, you are creating the world, so let me use music to tell this world to the present and future generations."
I am a little girl, and I don’t have the eternity of Master’s arrogant smile, but I can feel the sadness and happiness of a small family. The world is made up of countless small families, and all the rivers return to the sea. One day I will be able to do it.
Compose a song for all people in the world.
Today I am agitated because of all the injustices in the Imperial Prefecture, so I will start from here on the path I will pursue."
As Nong Yu spoke, she played the piano with both hands. There was no music score in advance, only the events in her mind about the couple from their acquaintance to their wedding to the present day in the Imperial Palace. She opened her starry eyes and showed off her hands to start playing.
The melancholy sound of the piano is like the whispers between the two newlyweds. The noisy and earnest music also brings the impact of the external environment on the family. It is quiet and deep, which means that the family members are depressed and stagnant...
The sound of the piano flows freely under Nongyu's hands, and the Bingso Xuan Gong operates unconsciously. Yu Ru Xuanbing merges with her master, and a cool air current rolls up with Nongyu as the center.
"What's wrong?"
"What happened?"
"It seems that the lady is playing the piano..."
The Imperial Master's Mansion was gradually alerted, and the servants hid in the distance and watched, until the Ice Soul Sword hanging in the room also flew through the air, and along with the musical notes flying in the air, the sky was filled with snow in the courtyard in an instant.
The combination of Nong Yuqin and Sword broke through the long-standing weakness and finally entered the realm of great success.