If he is dumped miserably, Zhang Feng's losses will be even greater than those of housewives who hope that their husbands will become successful.
After all, when many women choose a spouse, they often choose someone who is financially stronger than themselves. Their contributions are often reflected within the family and are not closely related to the economy.
Looking back at Zhang Feng, once she and Wu Di get married, and Wu Di follows the same path as many men a few years later, wouldn't Zhang Feng lose his wife and lose his army?
People have lost, money has also been lost, and they have lost everything?
As Zhang Feng's only certified best friend, Mi Li had to think more about her.
However, despite Mi Li nagging about it for a long time, Zhang Feng still had an indifferent expression.
"So what?"
"Life is so long and there are so many changes. Who can predict what will happen in the future? Let alone ten years, even what will happen ten days from now is unforeseen now."
"As long as we live well in the present moment, we will be worthy of ourselves."
"As for Wu Di, I can only say that I believe him so far. What happens in the future? Now I can't guarantee it or make a guarantee for him. In fact, this is not something I can guarantee at all."
"Actually, as long as we don't slack off and work hard to improve ourselves, there will be nothing to complain about one day in the future."
"He can choose someone else, and I can also choose someone else. Who knows who will change his mind first?"
Mi Li: If you say that, then I can only listen.
Zhang Feng told Mi Li all her thoughts about this relationship in one breath. In this relatively small airplane cabin, she talked about her feelings more than ever before.
In fact, she has always maintained this attitude when it comes to relationships.
In her relationship with Wu Di, she was actually the one who took the initiative. As many people have said, women rarely get married not for love.
The same goes for Zhang Feng. She really liked Wu Di and was in love with him, so she repeatedly pushed the relationship between them to take a further step.
As for Wu Di, he also gave her a very satisfactory response. This was enough. In relationships, it is rare to achieve that state of absolute equality.
There is always one party who pays more, and one party who enjoys it.
However, this is just the current thinking, and we will talk about things in the future. I have to talk about the benefits of Zhang Feng.
She has always been a person who comes and goes as she pleases. Emotional matters are not that important, just so-so.
When she meets someone she likes, she pursues them vigorously. Once there is a rift, she will not try her best to make up for it.
unnecessary.
When it comes to relationships, it's not like you can just put a layer of white dust on a cracked wall so that the cracks can't be seen, and you can pretend that nothing happened.
Once a person's relationship is damaged, the crack is extremely difficult to repair, and it will often be exposed, making you feel unhappy. In many cases, it will get bigger and bigger, and eventually the relationship will completely collapse.
At any time, Zhang Feng is a woman who is willing to take the initiative to escape. Once she senses that the situation is not good, she will get out first, without Wu Di even needing to be embarrassed.
In this way, we might be able to maintain some dignity between each other.
As for the losses, they are actually not too much. For many women, especially in married life, they will lose a lot of competitive opportunities. In the workplace, competition is bloody. Faced with a long pregnancy, breastfeeding
Menstruation, as well as endless childcare-related matters, will greatly occupy women's space.
The simplest example is that you are asked to do something. You say you are going to pick up your children from school. You say, will the company still reuse you?
of course not.
We cannot expect companies, a money-making machine, to sympathize with the hidden contributions of female compatriots in married life, because they simply don't care.
If women can't do it, I'll recruit more men.
After all, men don’t know how to give birth, let alone breastfeed. How can they save time?
Hasn’t work efficiency doubled?
What?
You said that married life is for two people. The woman has to take care of the children, and the man can’t get out of the relationship?
Such an idea is too naive. After all, children come out of a woman’s belly, and men, although they are used to letting their children bear their own surnames and regard this matter as bigger than the sky, should not be offended.
rights.
Once you talk about raising children and disciplining them, ah, the tone changes. You gave birth to the child, so of course you have to take care of it.
You are a mother, and you are born with the name of maternal love by society. As a mother, you should take full responsibility. Do you still count on men?
Men, you have to go out and make money!
As the saying goes, the male leads the outside and the female leads the inside.
This home was originally meant to be taken care of by women, but strictly speaking, the home does not belong to women.
When taking care of the family, reducing the chances of women working outside the home, and trying to be a housewife, generally speaking, men will talk to you.
Look, we have feelings. I love you so I will marry you. The competition in society is so fierce. The intrigues are so nerve-wracking. I love you and I can’t bear to let you go through this.
It's enough for me to raise you. It's enough for you to just take care of the family and raise our children!
To be honest, the competition in society is indeed fierce, and many girls will feel tired. In addition, traditional thinking is at work, giving up the right to compete to others.
However, when something unexpected happens and I want to regret it again, I realize that there is no way back.
What is the final determinant of status in a family?
Is it feelings?
Or gender?
After all, it’s about economic status.
Whoever is financially stronger has the final say. You think, if you can't control the family's financial power, what else can you control?
Of course your destiny will not be in your hands.
Of course, what we are discussing here is real financial rights, not false financial rights.
What is false?
The kind where my husband's salary and bonuses are all handed over, and all the cards at home are in my hands, is called false financial power.
So what if you have those things?
That is just the right to use this part of the property, not ownership. When one day, the relationship breaks down, this property right will no longer belong to you.
The male party can take back all these properties without mercy, and you will suddenly find that there are very few properties that belong to you alone.
Even if a man gets divorced, he will only lose part of his property temporarily. Once he leaves the marriage, his ability to continue to create wealth will not be diminished in any way.
He is still him, but you are no longer you.
It can even be said that many men are not necessarily so outstanding in the workplace. The pitiful achievements they achieve are all achieved by relying on their wives’ silent efforts behind the scenes and shouldering many responsibilities of taking care of the family.
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However, once a man has achieved success, he can calmly turn his back on others, and economic interests are the most realistic. No matter the law or the court, no one can accurately measure the clear contribution of women in the family.
If we really set a price tag, wouldn't it feel like a price is clearly marked on women's contribution to the family?
So, let us use the principle of social fairness to compensate for women's contributions, although if we do so, the amount of compensation we can obtain will be very small.
It cannot be compared with women's real contributions in family life, so the sense of loss is understandable.
Therefore, I would like to advise some male compatriots on the Internet not to always talk about 996, I am too tired, I am not a human being, and all kinds of imbalances.
You know, what the bosses want when hiring them is that they can work day and night without the burden of family.
If they still want to take care of their families, if they still want more rest, what else do they need from you?
Wouldn't it be better to switch to a woman?
You must know that the life-threatening job you talk about was obtained at the expense of women's interests. You got such an opportunity by stepping on women's heads.
If women no longer have the cost of raising children, and men are responsible for things like giving birth to children, then their so-called advantages in the workplace will not be much left.
When the time comes, it’s not certain who will win and who will lose when the competition begins!
Putting aside these tangled issues, just focusing on Zhang Feng and Wu Di, we can see the importance of working hard to improve ourselves.
As a budding female director who specializes in commercial films, Zhang Feng's ambition is not just to become the daughter of a famous director.
When she chose the path of directing, she had already set a goal for herself, as the daughter of a famous director, to surpass the daughter of a famous director.
In the future, she will also get rid of her father's influence, use her own name, stand upright on the stage, gain recognition from the industry, and win the love of the audience.
This is the goal that she has been pursuing for a long time, so whether Wu Di joins in, this goal will not change.
Wu Di is making progress, is Zhang Feng regressing?
Her pace of making movies will not stop. Whether she continues to direct commercial films or successfully transforms into an award-winning director, in short, Zhang Feng is confident that her achievements will not be lower than Wu Di.
In this way, what if the relationship cannot be maintained?
So what if it breaks up in one fell swoop?
Zhang Feng will not suffer. She also has a career and is equally successful. What is she afraid of?
Besides, when Zhang Feng got along with Wu Di, didn't he take advantage of him?
If according to Mi Li's theory, as the daughter of a famous director, Wu Di followed him, then he was taking advantage of her network resources. One day, when his wings are strong, he may bite her back.
As everyone knows, men are taking advantage of women, and women are taking advantage of men.
If we put aside the emotional factors and are purely greedy for profit, behind Wu Di there is a large investment from Ranmasanti, so huge and so stable.
Not everyone can find and maintain such a wealthy financial backer, and through her emotional relationship with Wu Di, Lan Masanti will give Zhang Feng a certain amount of support for his new movie.
In this way, isn't Zhang Feng also using Wu Di's resources?
One is personal connections, relationships in the circle, and the other is money, pure economic interests. It can be said that neither party suffers.
Zhang Feng has already considered this kind of thing clearly, but under the beautiful feelings, it is better to let these economic considerations continue to hide under the surface.
She believed that Wu Di had the same idea.
After finishing the filming of the maze, the group of people returned to the capital one after another. At this time, Lao Zhang's movie was officially announced to start shooting on another day.
Official news has been sent out!
After returning to the capital, Wu Di was speechless and choked up when he saw this piece of news.
Lao Zhang, Lao Zhang, I didn’t expect that as you get older and more fashionable, you have learned to hype. Just turn it on. What kind of date is there?
What day was chosen?
It’s better to choose a day than to hit it!
It was obvious that he was not ready yet. In order to raise the topic in the future and to let the industry not forget about his new movie, Lao Zhang, he started shouting about it even before he even had a word about it.
This is not hype, what is hype?
Lao Zhang, Lao Zhang, it’s very confusing for you to operate like this!
Although it is indeed an era of hype, any project cannot reap the ideal benefits without operation.
However, we must also realize that a famous director with Lao Zhang's qualifications does not actually need such tedious operations at all.
Moreover, what is certain now is that Lao Zhang himself leaked all this information to the media and never discussed it with Lanmasanti.
With these so-called hypes, Lao Zhang can be regarded as saving worry and effort and making the best use of everything.
Do you think Mr. Zhang spent money to release this information?
Did he spend a lot of money?
no no!
Totally impossible!
People like Lao Zhang’s generation don’t have this string in their minds at all. What is marketing?
What is the hype?
Even if he understands that in order to sell a movie well, in today's world, a lot of publicity is needed, but if he is asked to spend a lot of money, a lot of time and energy on marketing, he will never agree.
He also believed that there was no need for that at all.
However, this is not the first time that Lao Zhang has set foot in the field of commercial films. In the past, his previous works also had many commercial elements. The box office of those films was very good, and the publicity was also very good.
Could it be said that Lao Zhang had no involvement in those matters and was just a hands-off boss?
Of course it's impossible.
It is true that Lao Zhang did not interfere, but the marketing of those movies did not fall behind at all. Even compared to the movies released at the same time, the promotion momentum was even more intense!
Everything is thanks to Xiao Zhang. These things are all taken care of by Xiao Zhang. Of course, Lao Zhang doesn't have to use his brain.
After all, he is engaged in art.
Even if he knew that he wanted to market or hype, he would not say it with his own mouth, let alone do it himself.
Therefore, Xiao Zhang consciously played this role.
It is precisely because Xiao Zhang has devoted himself to Lao Zhang over the years that he has not only received awards and reputation, but also made a lot of money.