"Your biological son, you ask me how to coax him?"
Yun Luo looked puzzled, "Haven't you ever coaxed him before?"
Jun Wuchen thought about it for a moment and looked a little embarrassed: "Maybe... I've coaxed him too, right?"
Probably?
Yun Luo looked suspicious and asked, "How did you coax me?"
Jun Wuchen's eyes wandered, "Ahem, buy him toys?"
"I don't love toys." Yun Luo narrowed his eyes, "What else?"
"...buy him clothes?"
"Aren't all his clothes custom-made by the embroiderers of the royal palace?"
"Buy him his favorite snacks?"
"I don't like snacks either."
"...Take him out to play?"
The more Jun Wuchen talked, the more he felt guilty and his expression was sarcastic.
"That's not what I mean by coaxing." Yun Luo's mouth twitched.
"What is that?" Jun Wuchen couldn't help but wonder, "Buy him toys, buy him snacks, take him out to play, aren't these just to coax him?"
In men's minds, these are the so-called coaxing children.
Yun Luo found it unbelievable: "There's nothing else besides these? If he encounters something that makes him unhappy, or becomes sick and uncomfortable, how do you deal with it?"
Jun Wuchen said without hesitation: "If he is unhappy, he will stay alone and don't need to worry about it. If he is sick, he will be taken care of by the imperial doctor, and other matters will be handled by the guards."
So what is Jun Wuchen’s biological father responsible for?
Responsible for the following——
If you don't leave your willful behavior, he will pick him up and teach him;
When Jun Buli ran away from home, he chased him and brought him back;
When Jun Buli gets into trouble, he personally steps in to sort it out;
Jun Buli started practicing, and he was regarded as one of the enlightenment teachers.
Then...
Then it was gone.
Although Jun Wuchen didn't say this, Yun Luo could guess it.
Yun Luo was completely convinced!
She held her forehead silently and sighed sincerely. She finally understood why the little guy often had conflicts with Jun Wuchen and wanted to run out to find his "mother" again and again.
I bet his biological father always raised him like this!
No wonder, the little guy has a temperament like an iceberg. He doesn't like to laugh, and he doesn't like to talk.
He is almost the complete opposite to Xiao Mo, who is the same age, loves to laugh and make trouble, and especially likes to be naughty.
Yun Luo frowned, looked at Jun Wuchen, and said seriously: "You can't leave me like this. He is still young and needs his parents to accompany him. Although he lives in the palace and has someone to take care of everything, there are some things
It’s not something that guards or maids can do for you.”
"For example?" Jun Wuchen was a little confused.
"For example, if he ran out after a quarrel with you and was injured, he would inevitably feel aggrieved. Long Yi and the others can take care of his food and daily life, but you have to take care of his mood and feelings in person. Comfort him more and let him deal with it.
Tell him how you feel in your heart, and then talk to him slowly after you understand it."
Yun Luo explained with an analogy.
Jun Wuchen, however, frowned slightly and said with some displeasure: "I asked him to go back to his room and rest, but he refused to listen. He ran out and got injured. Now he has the nerve to get angry with me? Are you angry and aggrieved?"
"He ran out secretly, not because he was being willful, but because Gungun smelled my breath and came to find me. He ran out to chase Gungun. He was injured because he was in danger. You can't blame him."<
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Yun Luo shook his head and looked at Jun Wuchen with disapproval.
"You didn't even find out what happened, so you just blamed him. How can he not feel aggrieved? Moreover, Fu Li is only five years old, and there is a limit to how sensible he is. You lost your temper at him before, and he was already aggrieved. Now,
I've been injured again, isn't it normal to get angry with you?"