(There are a lot of things going on these days, so I can only update two chapters first, sorry!)
Zuo Na still went to buy coffee because she also needed to calm down and became angry when she saw Gao Bin.
Drinking the iced coffee bought by Zuo Na, Gao Bin felt his heart chill:
"Are you still angry? You are too angry."
Zuo Na couldn't bear to hear such sarcastic remarks:
"Shouldn't you be angry? I'm just wondering, how can you be so shameless?"
"It's very simple. If you are thick-skinned, you can do it."
She was really speechless. Zona didn't want to talk to him at all, so she turned around and left.
"Where are you going?" Gao Bin chased after him.
"I want you to take care of it."
"Okay, I don't care about you, I'm going to chat with Xiao Ai."
Gao Bin stopped chasing him. He said this and went against Zuo Na.
As a result, Zuo Na didn't leave, but came back to chase him, asking angrily:
"Why are you so shameless?"
The corners of Gao Bin's lips curled up, and he thought to himself: Baby, I can't cure you anymore?
"You didn't just find out."
I hailed a taxi and got in directly.
Zuo Na was confused and had to follow her into the car:
"Where are you going?"
"I told you, look for Xiao Ai."
Then he said to the driver:
"Master, I'm sorry, Shuangjian Group."
"Okay."
Zuo Na really didn't understand. How dare Gao Bin go to Xiao Ai in front of her? Is he really not afraid of snitching on Yi Fan?
But now that there are outsiders in the car, Zuo Na knows the importance. There are some things that can be said and some things that cannot be said.
When they arrived at Shuangjian Group, the two got out of the car, and Zuo Na stopped in front of Gao Bin:
"What on earth do you think?"
"Don't think much about it? I'll call Xiao Ai down and let's talk about it together. Just clear up any misunderstandings."
"Misunderstanding? I don't think there is a misunderstanding!" Zuo Na said.
"Since there is no misunderstanding, let's talk."
Gao Bin didn't go any further and called Xiao Ai to ask her to come down.
Xiao Ai was also puzzled. Why did he come to find her now, even though he had a bad breakup in the morning?
Wearing high heels, still very elegant.
"Eh? Zona?"
She was obviously stunned when she saw Zona.
But Zuo Na looked at her angrily and snorted coldly. In her eyes, Xiao Ai was now the mistress that everyone shouted to beat.
"What's wrong with you?" Xiao Ai felt strange.
"It's nothing, she saw us this morning." Gao Bin said lightly.
"Oh, so what?"
Xiao Ai and Gao Bin actually had the same tone and didn't take it seriously at all.
Zuo Na felt like she was a barrel of gunpowder that could explode with just a spark!
"Do you know he has a girlfriend?" Zuo Na asked regardless.
"I didn't know before, but now I know, so what?" Xiao Ai glared at Gao Bin and asked calmly.
"So? Shouldn't you feel guilty?"
"Why should I feel guilty?" Xiao Ai didn't understand very much: "Even if you feel guilty, it should be you, Lawyer Gao, who feels guilty. After all, he was the one who provoked me first."
Gao Bin touched his nose and did not deny it.
"This is simply unreasonable!" Zuo Na didn't want to talk nonsense to this couple, they were not on the same channel at all.
Watching her leave angrily, Xiao Ai pinched the soft flesh of Gao Bin's waist:
"Okay, you have a girlfriend and you still want to mess with me?"
"Hey, grandma, don't you know? I'm not a good person." Gao Bin felt proud instead of ashamed.
"You just say you're not a good person and that's it? You've ruined my innocence!"
"It's not that, it's not that, the little girl is ignorant, so we won't care about her."
"I don't have to worry about her, and I don't have to ask for status from you, but don't think about putting up your pants and not recognizing people. Also, don't let these annoying things bother me, otherwise..."
Gao Bin solemnly swears:
"Don't worry, if I don't manage it well, I won't see you again."
"That's pretty much it."
It wasn't until Gao Bin took a taxi to leave that Xiao Ai thought about it:
"This bastard, you fooled me again!"
Have fun, have fun, don't make fun of your feelings.
Gao Bin is actually a very responsible person for relationships. No matter how much fun he has, no one will scold him.
The reason why Zuo Na was so resistant to him was entirely because he showed no remorse and instead took it for granted.
How is this different from Zuo Dajian, whom she hates most?
Of course, there is also the helplessness of always being patient with her mother, which is why she is so excited.
In her opinion, patience cannot buy love, and she will eventually see the reality!
Lao Chunxue is a victim of a failed marriage.
Although it was the product of the limitations of the times and the ideological abuse of his mother, Lao Chunxue in his early days was very much like the "big woman religion" that modern women despise.
During her marriage, she tolerated Zuo Dajian, who was seeking pleasure outside, for a long time, hoping to make her husband Zuo Dajian change his mind.
In fact, she has known for a long time that he is no longer the gentle companion he was back then, but she still refuses to admit it. She thinks that she is loved, and because of the existence of her daughter, her husband will never abandon her mother and daughter. p>
This seems to be the misunderstanding about marriage and love that the previous generation and the previous generation had.
Classic line: A boy remains a boy until he dies.
She silently endured her husband's cheating and betrayal, but still held out false hope - believing that as long as Zuo Dajian satisfied his desires, he would return to her.
The theory is based on the fact that the relationship between husband and wife for thirty years will never end, not to mention that there is a daughter to act as a mediator in the middle.
In fact, we can always feel Lao Chunxue's inner struggle and helplessness. Whether she is sitting by the window waiting for her husband to come home or hurting her body again and again, we all know that her life has long been a mess.
On the other hand, Zuo Na, as a daughter, a young man and a bystander, looked at it very soberly and even a little bit explicit.
So she would say to Lao Chunxue:
"Mom, dad just doesn't love you anymore. He has someone else outside and has children. Let's get divorced. He uses your common property to support other women."
Putting aside the decadent thoughts and caring for her daughter, why is Lao Chunxue unwilling to divorce?
She knew that she was not as young and beautiful as the girls, but she firmly believed that she was the one who loved her husband the most. She also tried to convince herself that "love and tolerance will always be rewarded" and that her efforts would enable her to achieve the final victory. This chapter is not over yet, please click on the next page to continue reading!
Secondly, the sweetness Zuo Dajian gave her from time to time also made her even more unwilling to admit defeat. She was unwilling to lose the sunk costs she had paid for him over the years and look back in time.
What's more, she pinned all her body and mind on the man. She had extremely low self-esteem, lost herself, and let all her emotions get out of control with him. She was even worried after she was finally caught and brought to the police station.
Will he be angry with himself?"
This is the same as many relationships and marriages.
In the end, the reason why she walked out of this marriage was because she mistakenly thought that she had started a new relationship.
Lao Chunxue happily discovered that she didn’t love her scumbag husband that much!
When a woman spends her thoughts elsewhere, or believes in her own ultimate charm, her last failed relationship will seem frivolous.
The world is so big, this man will never be your return home!
Another example is the divorce case between Zhang Rumei and Sun Jianye.
The breakdown of their marriage seems to be the story of an accomplished man abandoning his lousy wife.
They worked together and founded a company.
However, with the passage of time and the growth of social experience, the paths of the two gradually diverged.
This difference in values gradually deepened the rift between the two, and Zhang Rumei became increasingly violent and suspicious during the long-term cold violence, making people "unbearable" and unwilling to communicate with a divorce lawyer, let alone agree to a divorce.
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Although other lawyers thought that such cases could just be dragged into litigation, Gao Bin keenly sensed the bitterness behind it and insisted on being moved towards Zhang Rumei - in fact, they did not change their minds, but really left.
I can’t go on anymore:
Due to the long-term lack of communication and the fact that the two were originally compromised, Zhang Rumei longed for an ordinary family and repeatedly persuaded Sun Jianye to put down his work and return to his family.
Although Sun Jianye's career had many ups and downs, he regarded the company as his own child and insisted on continuing to operate it. He failed to balance the relationship between work and family, but he also did not tell Zhang Rumei his true thoughts.
This misunderstanding lasted for many, many years.
Zhang Rumei and Lao Chunxue are also different. On the surface, she looks like a shrew, but in fact she is rational.
At first, she didn’t want a divorce because she wanted to protect her rights, including her right to know and her property rights.
Unlike Lao Chunxue, she did not compromise, which even made her a little irritable and "hated herself".
Finally, after knowing her husband's true thoughts, she finally realized that the couple who had been married for many years were not the same person in nature. After their relationship became irretrievable, they decisively and freely accepted the divorce.
Sun Jianye has a lot of problems in his relationship, such as lack of communication, avoiding taking responsibility, and feeling that the two of them are really different, to the point of no return.
In fact, you shouldn’t evaluate who is right or wrong in a relationship, but after pointing out these issues, there will always be some inspiration for future generations.
Although Zhang Rumei is very capable, she is essentially a woman who likes an ordinary life. However, because her husband wanted to start a business, she tried her best to help him and changed herself.
There is nothing wrong with being able to make changes for your other half, but if your other half is unable to make corresponding changes for you, your changes will ultimately lead you to the pain of being unable to convince your true heart.
The most basic problem in their relationship is that the two people are not the same kind of people at all, and they lack communication until they can no longer communicate.
Divorce is the greatest fulfillment for two people.
With these two clear examples, Zona was disappointed with human nature.
Especially Gao Bin and Xiao Ai, their complicated relationship became the last straw that broke Zuo Na's mind.
She doesn't want to believe in love, so she is angry.
She hoped from the bottom of her heart that Gao Bin would repent, even if everything he lied to her was false. In this way, she would at least still have extravagant hopes for love.
It's a pity that Gao Bin defeated her innocence with his 'shamelessness'.
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Back at the law firm, Gao Bin saw that Zuo Na had already started working at her desk, and did not bother her. He just put the milk tea he bought on the way on her table and said deliberately:
"Is this what it smells like?"
Zuo Na looked at him in confusion, not knowing why.
Gao Bin didn't give her a chance to speak and went straight back to the office.
On the other side, Shu Yinan, who has always had designs on Zuo Na, couldn't help but approach and ask:
"Zo Na, you and Lawyer Gao..."
Zuo Na glared at him:
"What do you want to say?"
"No, no, just, um, Lawyer Gao is very nice to you, huh?"
"Are you in charge?"
In anger, Zuo Na had no good temper towards anyone. She picked up the milk tea, inserted the straw into it as if to vent her anger, and took a big sip, almost choking her to death.
What is Gao Bin doing?
No one knows, but in the next period of time, he will always buy some small things for Zona intentionally or unintentionally, either milk tea or coffee, and deliberately act very close to Zona in front of everyone.
What about Zuo Na? Although she dislikes Gao Bin, she can't push him away. Without explaining the reason, doing so seems like she doesn't know how to behave.
God knows how much pain she feels!
However, during this period, Yi Fan did not come to the institute often, and basically stayed outside, knowing nothing about the situation in the institute, which made Zona miserable.
What was even more depressing was Shu Yinan. He thought that Zuo Na was special to him because she was beautiful and had a strong working ability, so he, a nerd who had learned to be stupid, fell in love with Zuo Na at first sight.
But he didn’t understand Zuo Na at all, and his feelings for Zuo Na were just wishful thinking.
Her father Zuo Dajian was unfaithful in her marriage, which made Zuo Na fear love.
Whenever she thought of her mother's tears, wishfully waiting for her father to come home, Zuo Na became even more disgusted with the relationship between husband and wife.
Zuo Na was confused as to why they couldn't be responsible for each other even after they got married, so they insisted on hurting both sides and hurting the family that should be intact.
Zuo Na says she doesn't like breathy things, but she actually longs to be loved. She wants to meet a sunny and cheerful person who can bring her a loyal love.
Zuo Na is not short of money and does not have high material requirements for her partner. She hates high-end restaurants and even more social interactions in the upper class. She just wants to live a plain and interesting life.
But Shu Yinan studied abroad since he was a child, and his words and deeds reveal confidence and extraordinaryness. The more expensive the gifts he gives to others, the better;
As for Gao Bin, he never buys anything expensive for Zuo Na, but he always gives her a cup of coffee and a cup of milk tea when she needs it most.
The most important thing is that when Zuo Na is confused, Gao Bin can always provide the answer immediately.
Although she was still disgusted with Gao Bin's behavior and attitude towards relationships, she accepted it.
Whether she had the attitude of not drinking for nothing or the idea of venting her anger on Yi Fan, she accepted everything Gao Bin gave her.
And Shu Yinan's various attempts to please her made her more and more tired.
It's normal. No one likes Shu Yinan. It would be fine if there is no comparison. However, there is a down-to-earth Pan Yan as a comparison, and Shu Yinan is even more unacceptable.
Pan Yan graduated from the law department of a third-rate university. His family is also in a remote area. He has no money, no background, and no education. The only thing he can rely on is his clever mouth.
After graduation, Pan Yan submitted 200 resumes but all came to nothing, so he had to rely on his girlfriend's family connections to join Rongke Law Firm.
Shu Yinan, who corresponds to him, was born with a silver spoon in his mouth and went smoothly. He received a bachelor's degree from Peking University and a master's degree from Oxford. As soon as he graduated, he was able to rely on his parents' relationship to enter the best Huanjing law firm, although he did not stay for a day.
Left and went to Rongke.
An ordinary employee in all aspects, and a returnee master's degree with a brilliant resume, everyone can guess who he will choose.
As soon as Shu Yinan joined Rongke, Lawyer Du was going to fire Pan Yan, who had just signed the contract, and give his position to Shu Yinan.
Before Pan Yan could leave, Lawyer Du would pick on Pan Yan every day and try to drive him away. But Shu Yinan was in a completely different situation. Lawyer Du was closer to him than to his son, and personally introduced him to the law firm and led him
Follow him to meet clients.
However, after working for a few days, their situation took a 180° turn.
Pan Yan was welcomed by everyone in the law firm, and even Lawyer Du praised him highly, but Shu Yinan was disliked by everyone, and had the black name of Shu Saisai.
Why?
Isn’t it because Pan Yan is so down-to-earth and Shu Yinan is so ideal
Although Pan Yan does not have a high degree of education, he is very good at conducting himself. He got along with everyone within a few days of his arrival.
On the first day, I worked overtime with Zona until early in the morning, without even having time to change my clothes, and without any complaints.
When he gets along with his colleagues, he always talks and laughs. He helps whenever he needs help and never puts on any airs. Of course, he has nothing to show off.
But Shu Yinan is different. In the eyes of his colleagues, he is too good at pretending.
On the first day of work, he put up a picture of his Oxford graduation, put the Oxford pencil case on the table, and even the computer had Oxford wallpaper. You didn't need to talk to him, you could tell he was an Oxford boss just by looking at his equipment. When others eat clay pot rice, he insists on eating eggs Benedict; everyone speaks Mandarin, but he speaks a mixture of Chinese and English...
Of course, people who know him know that he is not pretending, this is his daily life, but he has come into an environment that does not match him.
Shu Yinan's family background is very good, and his parents are very willing to invest in him.
It is normal for a person like him to live such a life in his social circle.
Rongke is just a third-rate law firm, and most of the lawyers there are ordinary lawyers with average academic qualifications and all live a well-off life.
Shu Yinan is from a different class from them, and their lifestyles are naturally different, and they have no common language.
Pan Yan, on the other hand, is the opposite of Shu Yinan. He is of the same class as most of the people in the law firm, and his behavior and behavior can get along with everyone better.
These lifestyle issues are actually minor issues. Shu Yinan is not as popular as Pan Yan. The most important point is that Pan Yan is good at people and knows how to behave, while Shu Yinan is too straightforward and does not understand the world.
Pan Yan will not talk to customers right away and introduce rigid legal rules.
In other words, Shu Yinan does not have the ability to empathize. He only treats his customers as customers and does not think about making friends with them first.
When a client raises a question about non-compliance, Lawyer Du knows how to appease the client first and then communicate slowly.
However, Shu Yinan mercilessly told the customer's mistakes, which made the customer unable to get off the stage at all. The communication ended unhappily, and he almost lost the customer.
The same goes for attending parties with customers. I don’t give any face to the customers. I don’t drink or chat with them. I just stand there blankly.
Not only did I not reflect on this at all, but I felt that the customers were too vulgar and I didn’t want to drink with them, which lowered my own grade.
This is the gap. No one will like a person who puts himself in the sky, because everyone lives on the ground!