(Update 7 of the 11th, special thanks to book friend Rong for the 10,000 reward. The book friend often chats privately with the pipe and put forward some good suggestions.)
Bystanders are clear, but the authorities are confused.
If things happened to others, Fang Zhicheng would definitely give extremely pertinent suggestions, but if things happened to him, it would be like being in a fog, not knowing what to do.
And Wenfeng's advice to Fang Zhicheng was like clearing away the clouds, making Fang Zhicheng's mind extremely clear for a moment. His biological mother Su Qing was actually a victim, why should he be so alienated from her? He could have thought of this before.
However, he was unwilling to admit it in his heart. Wenfeng's words suddenly made him realize.
After a short silence, Wenfeng suddenly let out a gentle breath, and Fang Zhicheng asked sensitively: "Are you worried?"
Wenfeng glanced at Fang Zhicheng and said with a smile: "Every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite. I am trying to persuade you, but there are many things that I cannot figure out."
Fang Zhicheng said: "If you don't mind, I can be the person you talk to."
Wenfeng glanced at Fang Zhicheng and said, "Are you telling me? I feel a little weird."
Fang Zhicheng said: "Is it because of age? I have many friends who have passed away. The oldest one is more than seventy years old." Fang Zhicheng did not brag. When he was in Yinzhou, he often wandered around Nanyuan Old Street and made acquaintances.
A group of very old friends, including Tong Siqing's father, Tong Mengyuan, and others.
Wenfeng pursed his lips and smiled, and said: "Let me tell you a story. The protagonist of the story is a friend with whom I play well."
Fang Zhicheng twitched his lips and did not laugh. If most people said this, it would basically be his own story. The so-called friends who play well are just a fake coat.
Fang Zhicheng looked extremely serious and said: "Close your ears and listen."
"More than twenty years ago, my friend just started working, and her family introduced her to a date. In those days, although the feudal society did not pay much attention to the orders of parents and the words of matchmakers, basically if the family arranged a blind date,
, that is his lifelong partner." Wenfeng sighed, "Just like that, the two got married soon. However, they both have very strong personalities and focus all their energy on their careers. Because of the location of their work
They were separated in two places, and soon lived in different places. Now that they have been married for more than ten years, they suddenly moved to live together again. The relationship between the two is like strangers, and their conversation does not exceed ten sentences a day."
A very ordinary life is full of helpless sorrow. After the reform and opening up, although the society emphasized the freedom of marriage, most marriages followed the old path, so there was no emotional foundation between husband and wife. As a result, some people still have a relationship after a lifetime.
a lot of.
Fang Zhicheng asked: "Has your friend ever thought about divorce?"
"Divorce?" Wenfeng shook his head, "Now they are both very important people. If they get divorced, it will definitely cause an uproar and affect their image and future, so they value the couple more than any other family.
Even if one party is in crisis, they will support the other party unconditionally. Although the two have no communication, they have enough tacit understanding in this regard. "
Fang Zhicheng analyzed: "Their marriage is like an alliance..."
Wenfeng smiled and said: "Actually, this kind of alliance is far stronger than other forms."
When Fang Zhicheng saw Wenfeng explaining marriage in this way, he sighed and said: "Habit is a terrible thing. Your friend is used to a loveless marriage and slowly regards it as a normal state and defaults to it.
To change the status quo, you can only break your habits... However, this requires a lot of courage."
Wenfeng naturally understood what Fang Zhicheng meant, with a helpless smile on his lips and said: "Divorce? That's impossible."
Fang Zhicheng shook his head and said with a smile: "There is not just one way to solve the problem. Marriage needs to be managed. If it always stays the same, of course it will be calm when two people get along together.
, dull, even boring, but if we work together towards happiness, give each other a little warmth and surprise from time to time, and cultivate each other's feelings, maybe things can change."
Wenfeng was slightly startled and smiled: "I... I'm afraid my friend can't take that step. She has a similar personality to me. She is a pretty stupid person and is not very good at expressing emotions."
Fang Zhicheng shook his finger and said: "President Wen, as your best friend, you must give her confidence, because if you take one step, you may not be far from true happiness."
A light flashed in Wenfeng's beautiful eyes and she said with a smile: "I'll try... go and persuade her."
Fang Zhicheng thought for a while and added: "Actually, there are many ways to ease the relationship between husband and wife. For example, buying him a small gift on the other person's birthday, or having a candlelight dinner to increase the romantic atmosphere, and you can also consider
A taste of life, worn when sleeping...you know..."
Wenfeng rolled his eyes at Fang Zhicheng angrily and said, "Is it necessary to go to such trouble?"
Fang Zhicheng nodded seriously and said: "You have to realize...you should let your best friend realize that life is actually as complicated as work. She has a successful career and should know how much effort it takes to achieve success.
.Similarly, if she wants to be happy in life, she must put in equal efforts."
Wenfeng smiled and said: "I didn't expect you to become a life mentor. You are not very young, but you think about some issues very thoroughly."
Fang Zhicheng smiled and said: "Having high emotional intelligence is innate."
Wenfeng nodded and said: "IQ is important, EQ is even more important. I understand what you mean. I will have a good chat with my friend later to see if she is willing to make some changes. However, this is a two-way street. If it is her husband
If you don’t like it, what should you do?”
Fang Zhicheng encouraged: "Just like when we attract investment, if a company does not accept us at the beginning, or even expresses malice, will it back down? Generally, they will choose to face the difficulties and deal with them through hard work."
Wenfeng smiled and said: "Although the metaphor is not very appropriate, it still makes sense. If my friend succeeds, I will definitely thank you."
Fang Zhicheng waved his hand and said: "Success comes second. The key is that life has changed. Even if they become estranged because of this incident, at least she has changed for life, instead of passively accepting the present situation unchanged."
destiny, this is actually an attempt and a breakthrough."
Wenfeng sighed softly and whispered: "Yes, it should change."
Of course Fang Zhicheng knew that all Wenfeng's troubles stemmed from the cold relationship between her and Wendi Song. Rumors said that the two of them had not had children for so many years because they did not live as a couple.
Wendi Song's position to Fang Zhicheng is very special. He is not only the leader of his life, but also his mentor in officialdom. In addition, Wenfeng has always been difficult to get along with in the outside world, but when Fang Zhicheng got along with him, he felt Wenfeng's heart.
She is soft. She just pretends to be strong out of habit. If the relationship between the couple can be eased, it will be a very happy thing for Fang Zhicheng.
After lunch, Fang Zhicheng said goodbye and left. After Wenfeng returned to the office, he held his chin and thought for a long time, and then called Wendi Song proactively, "Will you come back for dinner tonight?"
Wendi Song was slightly startled. For so many years, the two of them had lived their own lives without interfering with each other. Why did Wenfeng take the initiative to ask herself today? Wendi Song felt that something big was going to happen.
Wendi Song thought for a while and said: "Originally, there was an event that would be delayed very late, so let me cancel that event and I will definitely come back for dinner in the evening."
Seeing Wendi Song say this, Wenfeng sighed in her heart. As expected by Fang Zhicheng, she first tried to take a step forward, and the other party would also take a step closer. The more they get closer to each other, such a strange relationship, one day
It will be eliminated.
Wenfeng returned home half an hour early, and the nanny Xiaoyan was a little surprised to see Wenfeng come back so early.
Wenfeng smiled and said, "I have something to discuss with your Uncle Song tonight. I asked my secretary to buy you a movie ticket. You can come back after watching the movie."
Xiaoyan is also a smart person. Knowing that Wenfeng hinted that she would make room for the two of them at night, she nodded and said, "Do you want me to make dinner before going out?"
Wenfeng shook his head and said: "It's okay, I'll make dinner. The car is waiting outside, and the driver will be responsible for picking you up tonight."
Xiaoyan nodded, sighing secretly in her heart, what happened to the mistress today? Why is she so abnormal!
More than an hour later, Song Wendi rang the doorbell at home, and found that Xiaoyan did not come to see the door. She frowned slightly, then took out the key and pointed it at the keyhole, went into the house and changed her shoes. She found that the home was a little dark, and the sky outside was already dark.
It was dark, and the lights had not been turned on in the room. Song Wendi was full of doubts, thinking that Wen Feng might not have come back either. Didn't he agree to let her come back for dinner and talk to her about something important?
Wendi Song sighed, turned around and came to the restaurant. Her pupils suddenly dilated. A beautiful, mature and charming woman was sitting in the dark. She was wearing a red dress, revealing her fragrant shoulders and good figure.
Wendi Song suddenly understood, smiled and said: "Is this a surprise for me?"
Wenfeng blinked, turned around and turned on the stereo not far away, and the room instantly became more emotional.
She smiled and said: "So how are you feeling now? Are you surprised or frightened?"
Wendi Song sighed: "I thought I was in a dream. Forget it, I'd better not pinch myself. If this is a dream, then let me never wake up."
This was the first time Wenfeng saw Wendi Song say such emotional words. She lit the candles on the dining table, and the bright red light made her face, which had experienced hardships but was still moving, look lively and charming.
Wen Feng said softly: "Let this dream be even more fantastic."
The two have been married for many years, and their relationship seems flat, but in fact it is very deep. When one party encounters problems, the other will help the other without hesitation, but there is always a gap that cannot be opened.
Tonight was very special. Wen Feng used an indescribable charm to make Wendi Song unexpectedly and intoxicated.