Chapter 212 Relationship is greater than right and wrong
Teacher Zhou felt that her head was "buzzing" and every word in the suicide note was like a hammer, hitting her heart one after another.
After being blocked in her professional title and promotion, Zhou Yiyun became more and more Buddhist and indifferent towards the work within the system. Under the premise of meaningless performance, she also appeared to be tolerant to her students, even a little meaningless.
As a current student, Zhou Yiyun's former passion and energy have long since dissipated, and all that remains is the basic respect and responsibility for the profession.
Zhou Yiyun is confident that even so, he can still uphold justice and benevolence, and treat students impartially and equally. This is enough.
Even so, Zhou Yiyun is still the leader in Chinese teaching at Lewen Middle School.
Unlike Chen Yang, who is young and energetic and eager to gain a foothold in school with his performance, she is calm and relaxed. If Hu Xinzhou's experience was not too heartbreaking and inspired Zhou Yiyun's warm maternal nature and silent teacher's love, otherwise she would also
I won't interfere at all.
It was not that Zhou Yiyun had no feelings for what Wu Yihan said in her suicide note. It was just that she had long been accustomed to the students' admiration and love for her, and she was unwilling and disdainful to respond to it attentively.
After discovering that Wu Yihan deliberately damaged the photos of his daughter, Zhou Yiyun did not go into details, but he was very disgusted and even disgusted with such a girl in his heart. Although she was a teacher, she was just an ordinary woman with ordinary cultivation and did not have such a big mind and heart.
Tolerant heart, likes and dislikes are clear, happy with things, sad with oneself.
Zhou Yiyun thought, if she had abandoned her narrow thinking, thought deeply about the reasons why Wu Yihan did what she did, and had a heart-to-heart communication with Wu Yihan, would her alienation and indifference towards this child have turned into forgiveness and pity? What happened today?
Wouldn't it happen?
When Teacher Chen Yang hurriedly took her to the hospital, she was still wondering all the way, how could such a favored, pampered, and superior girl suddenly do such a stupid thing?
Who could have imagined how desolate and messy the inner world of a sensitive girl who lacks maternal love would be, full of mud and sand, bloody, humble and pitiful?
Someone took the letter from Zhou Yiyun's hanging hand, and his voice was old and pleading:
"Teacher Zhou, can I take a look?"
It was Wu's father. His always straight and proud back was slightly rickety today. There was no trace of wedding joy. His awe-inspiring and overbearing temperament was also gone. Under the heavy blow of his daughter's suicide, he had disappeared from everyone.
Zhou Yiyun nodded and whispered:
"sorry!"
Father Wu seemed unaware and looked at it eagerly. Then he sat down on the stool, held his head and murmured:
"What a sin! What a sin!"
Tears seeped out from between Father Wu's fingers.
The world of adults is not easy, but the world of minors is not easy either. Their immature shoulders cannot yet bear the wind and rain of the world, and their young hearts cannot digest the load in their hearts. They also long to talk, long for release, long for
Liberation, desire to let go of oneself and others...
Relationship is greater than right and wrong! Zhou Yiyun suddenly remembered what he said to Teacher Chen Yang.
Regardless of whether Wu Yihan's character was too stubborn and willful, whether his suicide behavior was extremely hasty, whether his interference in his father's marriage was reasonable, whether he was alienated from Wu Yihan as a teacher, and whether Wu's father ignored his daughter's voice, Wu Yihan's heart was in trouble.
The solutions are piling up more and more deeply, with nowhere to appeal, and then they reach a dead end.
If I, as a teacher, or Wu Yihan's father, could stop my hurry, listen carefully to Wu Yihan's inner thoughts, and sincerely empathize with her, without talking about right or wrong, just stand in her perspective and empathize with her, then
, will all this not happen today? Instead, it may just be a cry of a student leaning on the teacher's arms, and a daughter leaning on the father's arms?
When all the worries are expressed and the tears are wiped away, will all the haze disappear with the wind? The beautiful girl is still running on the road of growth instead of lying on the cold operating bed?
Zhou Yiyun remembered what her psychology teacher said when she was in college:
"Students, in the future, when you work as teachers, you will meet all kinds of students and deal with all kinds of problems. Don't be afraid. You must remember that only when the other party trusts you can you educate them.
His preaching is empty. No matter how correct your theory is, it cannot win the support of a person who hates you. Relationship is greater than right and wrong. The teacher has a sentence for you, it is better than a panacea, and it will hit the target every time. When you encounter any difficult problems,
When you are an incredible student, you can ask him: 'Son, I think you have your reasons for doing this, can you tell me about it?'..."
Zhou Yiyun, who has graduated from university more than 20 years ago, now thinks of the teachings of his university teacher and bursts into tears.
Zhou Yiyun regretted why she didn't say to Wu Yihan at that time:
"Wu Yihan, you may have your reasons for damaging my daughter's photos. Can you tell me about it?"