So I looked at Mr. John and boldly proposed my idea to him:
"People who are sick tend to lose their temper easily, or act like a child. I once had a very painful stomachache after eating a lot of food. From then on, I felt like I wanted to lose my temper every day. From then on, I felt like I had to lose my temper every day.
Do you feel like you want to eat sweets?"
Mr. John seemed a little vague about my topic. He didn't know what I was thinking. When I rashly raised this interruptive question, he was a little unsure. But he still gave me a more professional answer.
He thought for a moment and said: "Sick patients tend to be in a bad mood. That is normal, because after all, he is troubled by his body, which causes some emotional distress. At that time, we should maintain a very
Be tolerant towards them and try to take their behavior into consideration.”
I asked persistently: "Will this person become rejuvenated and unreasonable like a child with a fresh temper?"
Mr. Wang simply turned pale at me. He was afraid that he knew exactly what I was talking about, but he didn't want to expose my question. But Mr. John, he didn't understand what I was asking. As for the circumstances under which he should ask this question.
.The three of us have different thinking, and everyone has different ideas. To say what we think is completely out of context, so it is a little difficult to answer.
But Mr. Yu Hai is a professional doctor of medicine after all, and his answers to the questions were probably accurate. Although he didn’t know who my idea was for, he just explained to me what I just mentioned in his professional terms.
problem.
He put down all kinds of medical equipment and spoke seriously about the question I just raised: "This is a very normal life, growing old from childhood. This is a natural physiological process. Of course, you have a saying in Chinese:
It is normal to rejuvenate, because the things he recalls when he is old will make him miss the things of his childhood even more. Therefore, his current mentality should be to rejuvenate, which is also a happy thing. If he was not like this
What a happy thing, how could he spend those childhood days together?"
Saying this made Mr. Wang feel a lot more relaxed. I quietly disturbed Mr. Wang. I felt that he was rolling his eyes at me again. I smiled secretly in my heart. I am looking for answers for him now. It seems that he really is.
Rejuvenation.
I continued: "In this case, the so-called rejuvenation does not mean that his IQ is like a child, and there is no big problem. If he has no independent opinion, does it mean that his IQ is like a child?
Children are prone to getting into trouble. In this case, should we manage the behavior of these rejuvenated people?" I also imitated Mr. Yunhai's medical terminology and tried to speak as clearly as possible.
I tried my best to speak in a serious and professional manner, but there were still many loopholes in my words, because when I saw Mr. Wang, he just stared at me.
Mr. John looked at me with admiration. I felt that there was not only admiration in his eyes, but also a very funny expression. Maybe what I just said is a complete fallacy and does not conform to normal medical theory. I am
Waiting for him to overturn my fallacy.
Sure enough, my fallacy was based on mirages and personal fantasies.
Mr. John easily overturned my fallacy, with a funny tone in his voice: "According to normal theory, this is impossible. The so-called rejuvenation does not mean that his IQ is like a child, but that his IQ is like that of a child.
It is said that his behavior and his emotions will slowly become as innocent and romantic as a child, but his thinking will still remain in the state of an adult. The things accumulated through his life experiences and experiences will remain unchanged.
If you talk about the kind of IQ that is like a child's, that's not called rejuvenation, it's called an elderly person with mental retardation."
When I listened to their explanation, I laughed out loud. It seems that I really thought too much about this matter, and I didn't expect such a funny situation.
The old man finally got angry and said: "Are there some people who want me to be young again?"
Mr. John and I made O-shaped mouths to express our surprise on the spot. Mr. John looked at Mr. Wang, and then he said in a very professional and affirmative tone: "No no. Mr. Wang, your thinking is very clear now. These thoughts
I can keep up with ordinary people. I am sure that at this level, your superb thinking and logical ability is not comparable to ordinary people. Of course, you cannot have such a mentality as rejuvenating. Sure.
He is a very healthy, very mature, and very charming old man.”
I looked at John speechless. He was just like us Chinese, and he was so wrong in flattering us.
Therefore, his flattery made Mr. Wang very happy. Mr. Wang did not blame him. He remained cheerful and said to Mr. John: "I didn't expect that you have excellent medical skills and you are also a doctor of psychology. In the future,
We still have trouble with many things here and I would like to ask you for your advice. Thank you for being our home guard for so many years. I hope you and your family are all well. If your wife can be picked up
If you come to this city, it will definitely be better."
But he first expressed his admiration for Mr. Wang, and he declined politely: "The current situation is very turbulent, including many wars in Europe, so I
My wife and I have been separated for so long. I may return to our country around this time next year. By then I hope there will be a more professional person to serve the old man. If the old man doesn’t mind, I can
I recommend the old man to get to know more medical professionals.”
Mr. Wang should have known about this matter in advance. He did not do any more consultation. He just nodded and said: "I hope your family can be reunited and safe. This is what I look forward to. If one day I can go to the United States,
When the time comes, I also hope to be a guest at your home. In fact, I also hope to have a gracious invitation."
It's strange, looking at the two people, they have a tacit understanding, just like a kind of friend who has known each other for a long time, just like the kind of friends who are close to each other, there is no difference in age, nationality, and skin color. This
They will be like friends who have known each other for many years.
"Master, please tell me if there is anything I can do. You know I have always trusted and respected you very much."
"I hope that one day, Jin'er and Miss Mao will come to the United States, find friends they know, travel together, have heart-to-heart talks, and drink coffee, that will be a very pleasant thing? I will be able to get them visas there by then.
It is also a good choice to immigrate to live there. Bian can maintain their place of residence, and it is also a new city for them." Sorry, I was very indifferent when I said this sentence, as if I was here.
Talking about an ordinary thing, I didn't think it was a very serious matter at all.
When I heard what he said, I felt that the master had already come to the United States, was going to a new city, or was going to visit the other party as a guest. This was something I had never thought of, and it was beyond my imagination.
Yes, but this process was revealed so easily by Mr. Wang.
I feel a little helpless in my heart. I don’t know if this matter is what I imagined, or if it is just a casual conversation. What is the reason for discussing this matter?
Mr. John said with a smile, showing a very deep smile: "Don't worry, Mr. Wang, if Little Boss and Miss Cat are interested in visiting the United States, I will be very happy to invite them as my guarantee to join our
country. At the same time, I also warmly welcome him to our home as a guest. In your Chinese language, it is a joy to have friends come from far away, and that’s probably what it means.”
After hearing what he said, Mr. Wang nodded with great satisfaction.
Then Mr. John was very confused and said: "Don't Mr. Wang go with them? It was your second hometown. You lived there for nearly 20 years. Why didn't you choose to go there when you are old?"
Where will you spend your old age?"
I was also very curious about this question. I saw that Mr. Wang was very vague and did not answer directly. Because of his husband's question, he just made a very simple analysis: "Send it, if you have time, the whole family can go together, why not
Why not? Splurge on some old friends and see the places where I once lived. This is a very interesting thing. If my body can still hold on, of course I will go."
"If Mr. Wang doesn't mind, when I return to the country next year, I will promptly arrange a professional medical team for Mr. Wang. At that time, there will be specialized and more professional people to do more professional treatment for Mr. Wang.
If there are advanced medical equipment by then, I believe that Mr. Wang's body will gradually recover. This is just a practical problem, so please don't worry too much, and I can guarantee that Mr. Wang will
I can get a guarantee for the visa here." What this foreigner said was impeccable, and there was no problem with his logic at all. He is a very rigorous medical practitioner, and at the same time he is also very hospitable and has a hint of patriotism.
An American with feelings.
Mr. Wang nodded, as if he wanted to end the topic. But after getting such a reply, I don't know if it was the result he wanted to get, but looking at his expression and his smile, I felt that this was the right answer.
This is the result he wants.
I'm a little confused. This arrangement was made for me without any consultation from me. I don't know from what aspect they considered it, and I'm not sure whether I should take such an action.
So at this time, I didn't want my confusion to affect the diagnosis process. I just turned around and asked Mr. John: "Have you diagnosed the old man's condition? How is the situation now? Can you go outdoors today?
How can I arrange the time for an event?”
I couldn't wait to know this question, because I was in a hurry to go out, it was already very late, and I didn't know what would happen over there.