I was looking outside and there was Mr. John, who was playing happily with his pet dog.
I was very happy to find him, because I think chatting with him is actually an interesting thing, and it is also a process of getting to know each other. Everyone has his own space here, and everyone has his own friends.
If I don't take the initiative, wouldn't it be embarrassing for the host? It's best to see the moon and stars if they are not alone, and I will go over to chat and communicate with him.
"Hi, Mr. John, what's your dog's name? It's very beautiful. It's the most beautiful dog I've ever seen."
"Thank you, Miss Cat. My dog's name is Jack. He is a beautiful boy, and he has always been very loyal. He came across the ocean with me and came here to live with me in Shenzhen for 5 years. So,
He is my old buddy, old partner and good brother."
Seeing the way he looked, I knew that I had regarded Jack as a very important person in his life, or in his family. He just waved his hand and Jack, who was very smart, came running over immediately.
Jack's fur is very shiny and sparkles in the sunlight. It seems to be a very beautiful one. It is very nice. It runs up to me and rubs against me. It looks like I spit out my tongue and drools. His eyes are very beautiful.
Like a gray jewel.
It is basically not too aggressive towards anyone, or it has something to do with the character of its owner, who is very peaceful like Mr. John.
I took a ball and followed it from a distance.
Jack rushed over without hesitation with a ball in his mouth, as if it was a very similar athlete. He never tired of playing this game, and was very excited. He rushed around like a naughty good boy.
Mr. John and I sat on the grass and watched Jack running on the grass. It was also a very interesting picture.
He tilted his head and asked Mr. John, "Mr. John, you have been in China for about five years. During these five years, your wife and children have also followed you. Have you always wanted to return to the United States?"
Mr. John, you want to make it appear that he has his own opinions on this issue, or that he is willing to remain silent on this issue.
He was holding a piece of grass in the corner of his mouth, as if he was very relaxed, as if he was enjoying this environment wholeheartedly, "My wife and daughter have returned to the United States, because there are still some things at home that have not been arranged. I want to
I may return to the United States after finishing these things. I really have a lot of things that I can't finish yet, and I love this land very much. It's a very distressing place here. My magical land, I just came to this land before.
At that time, I felt that everything was very curious, full of things, and very unclear. But when you integrate into this life, you will find that the richness here and some of the imagination here can exceed your recognition. I don’t know when I will go back
, but at least in the past few years, I won’t leave for the time being. I think I should help the old man fully recover his physical fitness, and then maybe I will consider it.”
I was actually deeply touched by his sincere answer, because the old man was a mentor to him, or a confidant, but no matter what role he played, I think he stayed more.
It should be because of the old man.
I said: "Actually, there is an old saying in China that fallen leaves return to their roots. The old man's roots will always be here, so he probably won't go to the United States for treatment according to the plan we planned before. He is afraid that he will not go to the United States after going to the United States.
I will never come back. If you like him, you probably won’t go. No matter what extent his condition reaches, I think the old man is a strong person and an independent person. He will definitely do what he wants. If you like him, he will definitely do it.
The arrangements may not necessarily be based entirely on the old man's current situation. You can also have your own life. Even if you leave and we have this problem, we will also arrange for some doctors here to come to me through phone calls or other things.
Treatment is being carried out, and our people here are accompanying him."
Mr. John, he showed a very charming smile.
Well, a doctor has a lot to say, so I think I can talk about it freely.
I asked him, "Can I talk to you freely about the old man's condition?"
"ok, no problem."
I boldly said: "I am actually very clear about the old man's condition. First of all, point 1, many of the things he contacted you have to do with his age, plus some previous diseases, plus now
Some of the diseases are added together. Maybe the old man wants to return to his previous physique, I wonder if it is possible, or is it just a maintenance thing now? "
Mr. John thinks about it and is sure it is.
"Yes, the old man's current situation is not as terrible as we imagined, and of course he is not as relaxed as I imagined. First, as you just said, he is older, so many things about him have changed due to his experiences.
The precipitation and suppression of the years, including the accumulation of some previous illnesses, have gradually formed an extension of many diseases."
He paused and continued talking, and decided not to have too many preferences on this matter, or not to have too many scruples, because between him and me, he also knows the role I play in this family, which is very important.
Sometimes things are not needed, and if they are too secretive, they may be left in the Forbidden City, which may be better said. Moreover, due to work reasons during this period, Mr. John and I did not spend much time alone together, so
I want to take this opportunity to understand the old man's condition as soon as possible. He is at least an elder that I respect very much, and I don't want him to be tortured because he is sleepier. Of course, what's more important is that I hope he can recover within the effective time.
You can live a very rich life in the future.
I asked him.
"What should we do next? Because I really don't know how to do it right now. Just eat one meal every day. Basically, I strictly follow the requirements and regulations. The old man's body is also
He is recovering day by day, but you know that the old man is a person after all, a very thoughtful person, and he is a person who loves life very much. If you have such a characteristic after eating a meal, then
Basically, he is a special glass man at home, so he may lose a lot of the joy of life. Even if a glass man lives in a vacuum, although he is not affected by the outside world, he will lose a lot of fun.
It’s a chance to be happy and breathe freely. I do think it’s quite uncomfortable.”
Mr. John looked at it carefully and he actually understood what I meant.
After a long time, he sighed softly.
"Indeed, it's like an old man like you has to live in a transparent glass cover. He must strictly follow some rules and follow some details of life to make his life better, or to make his life better.
If it gets worse, if he acts as willfully as before, or lives as passionately as he imagined, he may destroy it, or it may be beneficial to his condition. Sometimes there are many things.
There is loss. So the matter just mentioned is indeed a contradiction. We cannot solve this contradictory system at the moment, or in other words, no such solution has been found yet. For the old man, what is more important is what he thinks
of?"
The two of us should understand each other's thoughts and knowledge, and we should also consider various aspects and different experiences based on the old man's situation. It still seems too heavy to talk about this topic.
Jintang and the old man were far away from us. They were sitting on the grass and by the fish pond chatting happily. This was a rare parent-child relationship.
The sunset is infinitely beautiful, but it’s almost dusk.
This is a very painful process. For everyone, we all use time and time to go on forever, but time and time do not make us so relaxed.
If time is really as long as we can hold it, then I will have to wait for a long time, which is completely cruel, and the big waves wash away the sand.
I have always had something in my mind that I have been wanting to ask, but it has never been of any use, because after I fainted last time, I actually felt very guilty and worried, because my reasons were either good or physically damaged.
So as all the topics today are relevant, I think I should ask more, otherwise things may not be as complicated as you think. But if I ask, I may miss a lot of time and opportunities. I don’t want to waste time on this issue.
There will be no more worries and entanglements in Jintang.
"I want to ask you a question, but I don't know if I should ask it. I don't know if I can express it clearly. I want to try to express it this way. What is the old man's situation now?"
I try to express it very tactfully, because I know that it would be too cruel to say some things directly.
Mr. John, he smiled very much. I think he also understood one of the meanings of my words, because the old man’s health has always been a very important thing in our family, and we hope that his old age will be interesting.
He said: "Well, it is certain that the old man has always been in good health, and it can be considered a recovery, and it should be considered a positive recovery, but based on his own premise, what I just said can no longer let the old man
Suffering any possible damage, such as scaring him, or receiving something that makes him very sad, these will not be too optimistic about his condition, but I understand what you mean, you
I hope that the old man can maintain good health and at the same time maintain a positive and optimistic life."
Jack ran up to him and rubbed against him.
Mr. John tossed the ball again and immediately went after his prey with great excitement.
He said: "Sometimes while being optimistic, you must maintain a kind of pessimism, because nothing can go in a direction that is not completely optimistic. Everything has two sides, so you should maintain this mentality.
At the same time, you must pay special attention. After all, the old man can no longer afford it. If he wants to get a longer life, then you, as the younger generation, must make this kind of arrangement. You want him to have an interesting experience.
Life is just like today. You can arrange outdoor activities for him at a certain time, but don’t do too intense actions. This arrangement is good.”