These words alone have given me a great touch. Without these words, I might not be able to think clearly about many things without any solution, but if the old man gave me this kind of answer,
This means that no matter what kind of efforts or plans we make during this process, we must go all out to do this.
In fact, the old man’s words also have an underlying meaning. If we feel that this thing is worth doing and that it is worth giving everything for us, then we should do it. If this thing really doesn’t happen,
There is no way to give up everything, or if there is no way for us to fully bear all this, then we can give up completely.
How do you understand this thing? If you can't understand it, then I'll look at how important it is to you, or whether it plays a very important role in your life that you can't give up.
In fact, I have thought a lot about this matter. Everything has a positive and negative side. It has both positive and negative sides. There is no fixed thing. His things are completely based on your agenda on this matter.
Are you able to fully implement this matter?
So I nodded to the old man, because I think this matter should be treated as normal, and my old man has already made it very clear.
"Old man, I understand what you mean. What you mean is that if this thing is something that we feel we should work hard for, we will do it through your channels and your suggestions in several directions. If
When it is true that nothing can be done about the final thing and it is impossible to achieve such an effect, then the whole thing can only be in a state of giving up. Is this how you understand it?"
The old man was still drinking coffee, and he was still careless, as if all this had nothing to do with him, or in other words, he understood it in a very open way.
The old man cared about what I meant by what I said, or in other words, he didn't ask me too much about my intention. He just used a clear and calm way to communicate these common senses of life.
He just changed the subject and told a very pleasant and sincere story from his past.
"I want to hear the story that happened to me. We were just starting to gain a foothold in the world at that time. There were many, many such situations, because we had to support many brothers at that time, and the brothers were the breadwinners of the family. Do you think
I want to see, in this situation, if there is no nutrition on the body, then how can these family members survive? So in order to survive at that time, we also made a lot of efforts. Of course, there are also efforts in this process.
There are a lot of things worth doing, and there are also many things that I would regret thinking about now, but no matter what, we are striving for more for this opportunity in this process..."
I didn't expect that the old man would tell me everything that happened to him. In my opinion, all this should be regarded as a very big legend.
"Old man, tell me these things. This thing has happened to you before, and it seems that the whole process should be very long-term. How did you get to where you are today? We are really worried about it.
I want to hear, if it was true back then, would you have inherited the family's inheritance? Or would you have fought a battle of rivers and lakes with nothing?"
The old man's eyes were very dim, or maybe he was thinking of a youthful time in the past, and he had such a burning feeling.
The past is like smoke. Maybe for a legendary figure like him, many, many things may have really happened to him, so much so that sometimes he himself will forget them.
For us younger generations, this thing is really curious to us, really curious, and we are very fascinated by the past that happened to that generation. This is really interesting to us and even very fascinating to us.
curious.
He was drinking coffee carelessly while thinking about the past. His world seemed to be settling in the past.
"At that time, many years ago, I was just like you, maybe younger than you. At that time, the family conditions were pretty good. At that time, my father was a small businessman with some savings. However, due to some things in the family,
I went bankrupt, so I started working for others even though I was very young. I may have started working at a younger age than you."
"At that time, there were not so many industries and there were not so many business environments. We relied entirely on many traditional industries. It was an industry where people cannibalize people. There was no way. It was just for survival. How could it be possible without collecting money?
I have a mother and a father who have to support these things, so all the pressure is on me."
“At that time, there really weren’t so many worries. There were really many things that we had to do without hesitation. There was no room for turning back. We were just rushing forward. If we didn’t rush forward or look forward, many times you would end up with nothing.
You simply don’t have the courage to continue walking, because you know that once you stop, who will support your entire family?”
"So from the beginning, I started helping others at the dock. Slowly, I got to know those people, and slowly I began to learn how to do business with them. Slowly, I started to learn how to do business with them.
After learning one of the mysteries of Sun Li, I slowly discovered that one of the mysteries is actually very easy to solve."
"But in this industry, you have to gain a foothold. What is your foundation? Are you ruthless enough, rich enough, smart enough, or have enough opportunities? These are all factors that may determine whether you can continue on.
A kind of bargaining chip.”
"So in order to survive, I also joined the casino industry, and I was relatively lucky at that time. I had a few fights and it seemed that I really thought about it. At that time, you lost a few brothers, and the whole society was
It seemed very turbulent, it was a very tragic period, and it was a very painful thing for me and my family."
"After many years, I have no way to stop and rest. I have no way to imagine what I should do, what I need to do, what I need to do, what I want to do, and I have never been able to do it well.
Have you thought about what you should do?"
"Probably after I became an adult, my father seemed to have a turnover in his business. After my father's turnover, he took me abroad. So I lived abroad for nearly 15 years before returning to China. When I returned to China
, everything has changed rapidly."
"Their father did not go abroad. He is still running the family business. These businesses have been quite difficult for so many years, but it is not clear. If one person can support it, he can still support his family, but if there is no extra money, it is really difficult.
It’s no longer possible, because the whole family has tried their best to send me abroad..."
"My father's wish at the time was actually very simple. He just wanted me to take the exam and work in the yamen to make a living. Of course, many years later, when I think about these things, it may be my father's wishful thinking, because life is not determined by
It is carried out according to your personal design.”
"It was a good time, and my father was a relatively open-minded person, a relatively cheerful person, and a person who was relatively accepting of new society and new things, because my father used to be a representative of people who concentrated on making money abroad. He
He was among the first batch of people to study abroad. Although the whole family declined and fell into decline later on, my father still maintained that noble quality!"
"After so many years, I still miss the way my father looked when he sent me abroad that year. He said those words to me sincerely. Those words are still in my mind, but they still seem to be there.
As what happened yesterday, that sentence had a vital role in my life."
"I remember when I got on the ship, my father came to see me off. He told me: I am using one of my family's wealth to send you to study abroad. I am not asking you to go there to covet glory and wealth, nor am I asking you to study and enjoy life.
As long as you succeed in your studies and serve the country, instead of just studying and studying, I hope you can learn modern industry and learn from their advanced Western culture and technology and bring them back. I hope you have such a
Ability, I don’t want you to become a great person, but I also don’t want you to be an idle person. Even if you understand a little bit, I hope you have the same spirit as Xuanzang came back from the Buddhist scriptures...
"
"I was very ignorant at that time. I couldn't understand many things at all. In other words, I didn't understand what Xuanzang's Buddhist scriptures meant at that time. It was completely unfamiliar. Or I thought that my father was
It’s completely a romantic feeling, and I don’t understand the cruelty of real society at all. Although I have been wallowing in society for a few years, my father has asked me to go abroad to study again. This actually means a lot to me.
It’s still a kind of sudden change to another way of life.”
"I couldn't understand clearly what was said at that time. Of course, after I went abroad and came into contact with advanced Western culture and some of these Western industrial production technologies, I deeply felt that our technology was backward. At that time, I
Just like my father often sent me letters, telling me that I must succeed in my studies and come back to use my studies to serve my country."
"Perhaps it was from that moment on that I understood my father's pattern of calling you and my father. In my father's generation, there may be no way to realize it. My father had a deep understanding of it before he died.
warned me about some topics."
"My father once said that when he held my hand before he died, he told me deeply: Our generation has experienced many things, many, many things, but maybe opportunities, society, or various factors
, so that we have no way to realize more of our dreams, but I hope that your generation can carry out my dreams. I hope to have a factory of my own. I hope that this factory is designed for the entire progress.
, I hope that working in the factory is not because of personal selfish interests of any one person. I hope that I can be like the railway designed by Zhan Tianyou. This is the biggest dream of my life..."
"The dreams of my generation may no longer be realized. I will leave soon, but I hope that your generation will have such a dream. Even if you are unable to realize it, I still hope that your next generation will have such a dream."
The next generation will stick to this dream and move forward step by step, just like Zhan Tianyou. With the railway, there will be more things, and more things will slowly happen. This is
It has been accumulated from generation to generation..."
"If you can really realize that day, you really have a modern factory of your own, a very modern production machine that can produce an operation, and have a very good market competitiveness with others, and this aspect can
As you continue to promote and promote, I hope that by then, every time during the Qingming Festival, you will never forget to tell Naiweng about family sacrifices..."
"I will always remember my father's moment and his instructions to me before he died. So for ordinary factory designers like you, I really go all out. My generation is really
There is no way to fulfill my father's request to me. My life in this generation is really not worth living at all, but I hope that in your generation I will do my best to honor my father who sent me abroad to study in the West.
I have the same product knowledge to support you..."
"The biggest regret in my life is that I didn't really build a factory on my hands. This is my biggest promise and it is also a promise to my father that is invalid, but I hope this promise can be seen in you.
If I can experience it, I hope that just like my father, I can see it being passed down from generation to generation. When the Tomb-Sweeping Day comes, I can also tell my father in a dignified manner that I will not forget to tell Naiweng about family sacrifices."
"The day after tomorrow is the realization of this dream, so I should go to my father in an upright manner and tell him that after so many years, I have been through ups and downs for so many years, and finally I can tell him that our factory has officially started operations, and throughout the whole
The society has enough social competitiveness, and all this is enough!"
"At any time in the future, no matter what happens, this point has already begun. This point is the most important. Without the beginning, how can we continue to move forward? There will always be difficulties in the beginning, and there will always be some difficulties.