I'm really angry when I see my brothers in this situation.
Because they don't know what a hard life is, maybe they really experience the darkness at the bottom of life and understand that life is not easy.
But if they are asked to use their own actions to pursue their own requirements for life, they simply cannot do it. How can they do it? They have become completely accustomed to this idea.
And this kind of Amway makes it more difficult for them to achieve flexibility in life, so in this case.
No matter what you do, it will be difficult to achieve such an effect.
I tell them that what you have to do now should be persevered, and the process of perseverance is the most important.
The remaining brothers all looked at me tremblingly. When I saw how they looked, I was really angry. Aren't you angry?
And now they are not afraid of anything at all. What they are afraid of is that I will be angry and unhappy.
It seems that this thing is the most important. The so-called other things are really not important to them. Maybe they won't have a meal next time, so they won't care about such things.
What they care about is my mood. Regarding their current situation, I don't need to have too many sober confessions to them.
If nothing is done in this process, then I really think about whether they can survive in this world.
I will be leaving here in three days, if they continue to live in this muddled way.
There is no words or imagination that can threaten the consciousness of anything and how much difficulty and hardship they will encounter in the future.
I yelled: "My aunt doesn't care what happens to you now, I don't care what situation you encounter now, I will tell you when the time comes, no matter what you did today, no matter how much you feel like I want you to pick something, but I
Let me tell you what these things are really not like. You have been in the State Council for so many days. It is true that you still don’t know these things. Some things are not something you can think of right away. Let me tell you that you still live this way now.
, to treat your current situation with this attitude, I will not be with you, and if you go back together, you can’t even support yourself, you can’t even protect yourself, and you don’t even have your own thoughts about yourself.
Should you go back?"
Several brothers stood there with their heads locked and looked at me quietly, with very frightened expressions on their faces. I knew that at this time I had to let them come out one by one to talk about things. Nothing was more important than this.
Because they have only one contact in their lives, maybe the whole fate is so short.
The short thing is that within these three days, everything will change dramatically.
Who will save them then?
How do they save themselves?
I kicked Xiao Ma Liu out directly. At this time, he cocked his head and looked at my expression, observing and guessing my expression. He gave me a weird smile, but this fake was very cunning and smart.
1 sentence was said immediately before I could say anything.
"Boss, I know that everything in the future will be decided by me. Everything must be thought through with the brain. Our brains are not used for eating. Our brains are used for thinking about things. Before we think about things, we must know what we should do.
Whatever you do, I know this. I put your mind at ease. From now on, I will not only listen to you, but also listen to what the boss says. I will also listen to myself, and I will decide the matter by myself. I will definitely have no regrets!"
"Xiao Ma Liu, what you said is interesting enough, shrewd enough, and smart enough. Then tell me how you understand this matter, and what do you do if you are asked to do something right now?
Now that I have 100 yuan for you, what should you do?"
After Xiao Ma Liu heard this question, he was obviously stuck.
"Boss, if I really have 100 yuan, I will use it to buy meat and give my brothers a good nutritional supplement. I will take it later and save the remaining money. What will I have then?
I will buy food when the time comes. I need to respect the elders and the elders, and I will be filial to the elders!"
Before he could finish saying this, I immediately gave him a slap in the face. I hated him so much for this kind of thing, and I was so angry.
I yelled: "What nonsense are you talking about? Is this how this nonsense should be said? How can this kind of thing be understood in this way? I tell you how much money you have. No matter how much money you have, save it for me. This is what you earn."
Do you need to show filial piety to the little boss and the old man? They have more than you, but their things will not belong to you.
, and this 100 yuan is something you have earned. You should be very optimistic about making money from it, and regard it as a very important part of all your property. When these people cannot help you,
Look at what you are doing, you support yourself through these people, instead of spending 100 yuan randomly and all of a sudden the money is gone. If there is 1,000 yuan there, you are very, you have to have a certain opportunity for yourself!"
Xiao Ma Liu didn't quite understand what I said. It's normal for him not to understand.
He believes that all money and things are blessings and sufferings, perhaps in his concept of life.
He didn't think there was anything particularly abrupt or important about this kind of thing.
But no matter what, during the process, he felt that the money was originally spent by the brothers, and it couldn't be like this.
I know that his understanding is actually roughly the same as our previous actions and our previous broad understanding.
But I really don't want him to have such an example in the process.
So at this time, Xiao Ma Liu suddenly heard it, and the brothers next to him all looked at me dumbfounded, as if they didn't quite understand what I said.
Normally, this is not a cooperative model that we should have had before...
The old woman's mind was very messy at this time, or her thinking was completely empty.
"Then Mao Da, tell me, what should I do? How should I do it? Isn't this 100 yuan what you told me before? Everyone has to share hardships and share blessings, right?
Do you still care about these things? Don’t we all take out what we have to eat together and wear what we have to wear together? This is the friendship between brothers. I will keep this 100 yuan now, or put this
If I keep 1,000 yuan, what will my brothers think of me? They will think that I am selfish. I think I might be a solitary eater. That is not what I think. I am worried that if my brothers do not get it, then I will have no money in the future.
Now, if I ask you anything else, maybe you will tell me that you will always give me something to eat. Won’t the brothers give it to me? They will give it to you. I think this is the understanding of this matter?
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I really hated saying these words to him, because these words and things have always been instilled by me.
Because in the past, we all worked alone, but later we collectively went to pack up to keep warm, and that’s how we got to where we are today.
It can be considered bright and upward. If we didn't have this skyrocketing spirit today, we wouldn't have been able to survive alone. This world is so vast.
It is simply impossible for you to think of being a solitary eater!
You have to think that there are many things in this world that cannot be fought alone, for my brothers.
If they were allowed to fight alone, it would be like leaving them in a life-or-death situation.
I looked at them angrily. Of course, this was an idea that I once dominated.
But now this kind of thinking does not need to be overturned. If I don’t overturn it, how can I really survive in this chaotic situation?
It is impossible to answer the application questions again. Of course, it is a last resort to join the group. They must learn to be independent while joining the group!
I looked at them coldly.
Roared: "These are things from the past, when we were young. We need to grow up with each other in this way, and we will find a way to survive. But you have grown up, and you are about to become your own person."
Family, in this case, do you still think that this kind of thing should not be explained to your family in the future? If you think that if you are really single and I have no plans to start a family, then it doesn’t matter, but you
After all, you will start your own family one day. Are you going to get money from the public for these things? It is impossible for you to have your own storage. No matter who it is, the money you earn must be kept separately.
Come on, this is a must. It’s okay for you to use part of your money to give your brothers food, drink and fun, but you can’t earn too much from this expense. You must buy a house for yourself in the future, and you can give yourself desserts.
To your future wife and children, you must make more such contributions, instead of just looking like a child now. I tell you, if you really live in obscurity, then you will be waiting to be single for the rest of your life.
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After I said this, all the brothers were stunned. They had never considered or discussed this issue.
I think they may not have even seriously thought about the so-called starting a family and starting a business. To these little gangsters who just eat and drink, it seems like a fantasy.
For their pace of life, it is simply impossible.
This kind of life makes them understand, how is it possible to do so many things?
Of course, no matter what situation you do with this kind of thing, you can't make any more choices.
Yes, because after all, everyone has grown up!
You have to start your own family and establish some aspects of your own life. Can this kind of thing still be borrowed by yourself?
Even the oldest Niu Ba looked shy, as if his face suddenly turned red. I'm sure it would have been impossible for Niu Ba at this age if he hadn't started a family and started a career.
He raised his hands fearfully and said to me.
"Mao Da, who is willing to marry us at this time? With our status and our situation, who is willing to stay with us? This is definitely impossible, and we can't support them..."
I'm angry.
"Whoever accused you of making these things? Who accused you of saying that these things are not what you imagined? You said that you don't have any money or storage at all now. Why would you marry someone with good support?
You really want to do this with your own assumptions. Let me tell you, it is normal for others to look down on ability, because even I am different now. I only use these things to get money, and then I go to eat and drink.
Have fun and don’t store it at all. You spend two cents if you have a penny. How can you use these things in such a situation? It may be protected. So now even if no one marries you, you are normal. You don’t even know how to use it now.
It’s not worth being like this, because you don’t have the ability to support yourself, and it’s impossible to support others. Then it’s normal for others not to marry you. Now I want to tell you that I won’t help you earn these things, just rely on
You yourself, if you can marry someone else, then it’s all down to your own ability. For such a good girl, you can’t go without a little money!”
After saying this, the brothers were all shocked. Of course they were shocked. If they weren't shocked, how could it be possible that by saying this, I was telling them very clearly.
If they can't do anything with their simplest abilities, they simply can't do this.
Then this thing is completely impossible for them. If they don't even have the right to do this, what qualifications do they have to obtain the happiness they want.
They may or may not be completely attached to me in this concept, or maybe I can help you do this.
But I told them that this was impossible, and they didn't even have the right to make this choice of their own.
What qualifications do they have to obtain happiness? This is a position that must be kept clear-headed.
Let me just say one more sentence to dispel all their dreams:
"I tell you, no matter what you choose, I have taken the people out of the orphanage, and the rest of their lives are your own. Don't try to tell you in my way. I will tell you what you want to do next.
This kind of life is also your own life. I will not bear any responsibility for you. You have hindered me for so many years. What else do you want to do? Do you have to help me and help you when it comes to getting married and having children?
Let me tell you, the words I dropped today are impossible!"