Everyone is sitting here happily, but I feel there are some things I can only say at this time.
Because I know that maybe I really don’t have the opportunity to accept things if I don’t say it out.
Maybe I feel that this matter will become an eternal regret for me. I also seem to feel that the old man seems to feel something again, or he also feels that there seems to be some crisis.
He didn't say anything after that, otherwise why would he suddenly go to sleep in this way and drink coffee with me here?
I gathered up the courage, I knew there was something I really wanted to ask, but I didn't know how to ask, because this kind of thing was a problem for me, if the most obvious thing was my identity.
I don't know if my identity is something they want to know, or if they will know something.
But I know there should be a slight connection. I don’t dare to say or ask, but I feel that there is something stuck in my throat. It seems that I may be stuck in my throat anytime and anywhere.
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At this time, I may be speechless in this situation. I know that it may be a really painful and painful thing for me, but no matter how powerful the situation is in the process,
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I want to say that no matter what happens, it is really hard for me.
Looking at me, he also made a decision at this time. I discussed it with him, but it was about my physical condition, and he also told me that if he, he would deal with this matter in the future.
I said that we should be mentally prepared for the rest of our lives. I don’t know if this situation will go through such a process, but I know that it is probably the best time to adapt to it.
Because the life-sustaining element cannot be delayed any longer. I think if it is delayed any longer, such a problem may arise.
The old man seemed to be very indifferent to this matter, as if the old man seemed to know the condition of his body. Suddenly he mentioned this situation and was caught by some things, because I was really caught off guard.
The old man: "These past years have been peaceful for me. I haven't experienced any big storms. These years can be considered a gift from God to me. I haven't experienced too many twists and turns."
, it can be regarded as a peaceful life after so many years, and it can be regarded as a very good thing for me. But I know that there are not so many perfections in life. A perfect life is with flaws. There are so many
It's perfect. For example, now I seem to feel that there is something in me. My body is getting weaker and weaker. This is actually very simple. Women are really like you. Don't worry too much now. This is a normal manifestation of the elderly. I am almost
I'm 80 years old, and there are a few 80-year-olds who can still drink normally like me, so I can be considered satisfied with my life."
After the old man said this, he drank another cup of coffee frankly. It seemed that he really felt that this topic was like a conversation, as if it was a commonplace conversation.
It seems that these things are not particularly common at all. We thought that the old man would suddenly talk about such topics, because this is indeed the old man's body.
Of course he himself will know what happened to him, so spending this kind of thing is just like I told Na Jintang in the past. In fact, the old man also knows and should be able to feel it.
After all, this kind of thing is something that happens to the body, and it is impossible for you to cover it up.
Therefore, the old man is still very open-minded in this world.
"Father, you don't have to worry. Medical science is so advanced now, and Mr. Yu Hua has told us that with such persistence and continuing to follow this medical equipment, there shouldn't be much problem if we continue to do it, and he also knows about this thing.
, this thing is already very developed in Western science, we can make every effort to cure my father’s disease!”
Jintang said these words in a hurry. He himself did not have much confidence in these words, because we had already agreed on this before, allowing the old man to make an independent choice.
Now in the end, Na Jintang couldn't bear to let the old man suffer from this illness so quickly, so for these things, Na Jintang was really contradictory.
First of all, he hoped that the old man could receive good treatment for his condition and delay his own vitality.
Secondly, I don’t want the old man to undergo too painful physical torture due to receiving this kind of medical treatment...
So Najintang is really in a big emotional entanglement and a very big fluctuation at this time, for this situation.
I know that the importance of the old man's physical condition is self-evident. No matter what situation occurs, no matter what the meaning is, I know that no matter what factors are at this time.
I can't even let the old man have too many entanglements and worries because of this thing.
Because no matter what happens to this thing, no matter how many situations arise, what you have to ultimately accept is how you should understand and handle all these things.
Ah, I felt very open-minded after hearing this sentence. He seemed to look at me casually, as if he had already made up his mind on this matter.
Because we may know from the fact that the old man cannot make any decision so easily.
Nana Jintang may have emotional reasons, so he couldn't help the old man make any decisions in this regard.
He is really too entangled in this aspect, and the old man is such a beloved father.
How could he bear the thought that the old man could only live for three short months? This was unacceptable in the emotional world of Najintang.
And there is no need to refuse this kind of thing.
"Mao Jiu, what do you think I should do? If you were in my situation now, would you accept treatment or give up treatment? In other words, if you accept treatment you can be happy, but if you give up treatment you can be happy.
Pain, what situation would you choose, and what advice would you give me?"
I never expected that the old man would ask me questions. The old man is really a very transparent person. He is a person who accepts Western culture. He also studied in the West for so many years before returning to the country. By this time, he already understood
A lot of this stuff.
So there is really no need to say more about this kind of thing. He has already made it clear what is possible and you don’t need to tell him too much about what he has experienced.
If too many things happen, it may affect this situation.
"Old man, do you really want to hear what I say? Do you really think what I say is useful? You should have your own ideas, and I believe that old man you can make any decision, even these things
After we finish it, no matter how much we try to persuade, it may not mean much."
The old man nodded, because what we said is actually a correct truth.
What a smart man the old man is, what a wise old man he is, how could he not know the condition of his body, and he doesn't actually need to ask Mr. John.
In fact, he can guess what kind of situation his body is currently encountering, and what kind of biggest difficulties and situations he will encounter. The old man knows better than anyone else.
No one can hide this from the old man.
The old man drank the coffee very lightly and said.
"Today is a good day. I am in a good mood now. Can either of you tell me about my physical condition and what kind of situation has occurred? I believe that Mr. John has discussed things with you. I have never been there.
I ask you this question, because I think there is no need to ask about this thing, and I always think that letting nature take its course is the best thing. Of course, since I want to ask about this kind of thing today, I want to know what this thing is like.
, you can tell me things, can others tell me, I am well prepared in my heart, I don’t want you to treat me as a bad old man, I don’t want there to be any reason in this process to think that I want to accept these things.
, just like Mao Jiu said, nature is the best and real life."
Na Jintang had tears in his eyes at this time. I knew that he was holding back too much at this time. He was really in pain at this time. I didn't want him to feel that he had told me such a cruel thing again.
Then let me tell you and I will do this again.
I forgot that it was also a very sincere and very calm tone, as if describing a casual thing, as if telling a very simple thing. I talked about this kind of thing with the old man candidly.
I hope everyone can behave naturally. I am looking for the old man. He is not so easy to be deceived.
The old man is a wise old man, so I think any lie written in front of him will be so pale and weak.
I said: "Old man, I just found out about this matter when I told you, because I have always wanted to communicate with you on this matter. I happened to be working at the factory, so I was delayed. In fact, I asked you about this matter.
I have always wanted to tell you, because Mr. John has already told us that you do have some problems with your body. Of course, this is a very small problem. Of course, it may not really have a big impact.
But if it’s not handled well, it may affect your entire situation.”
"Then just tell me and I'll know how to deal with it."
I swallowed and took a deep breath, because I knew how cruel the words I said next were, and even I felt like a wordsmith speaking out these answers.
It's like pronouncing a final final judgment that is a death sentence.
I said cruelly.
"Old man, Mr. John, you said that through a long-term test of your body, he found that your body is in a high-speed depletion stage. This is due to your long-term labor and your long-term and living habits.
Methods should be coordinated, that is to say, if you really want to extend your life, then you must accept some Western treatments, which are so-called surgical treatments. Certain operations can relieve certain pathologies and relieve certain diseases.
In some cases, he also received certain physical therapy.”
"Then tell me, how long can you live if you just talk here?"
"If the situation is good and your body can recover very well in all aspects..."