At noon, a large family of dozens of people sat down at 6 tables in the courtyard of the villa. After sitting down, the special chef sent from Huaheng Hotel had already prepared a fusion for everyone.
The delicacies with the characteristics of the north and the south were served one after another, and everyone toasted to celebrate the Mid-Autumn Festival. ┗eng·com is updated the fastest┗
During the banquet, the old man's wrinkled face blossomed into a smile. Although the old man never drank alcohol due to health reasons, today, he made an exception and drank a small glass of wine. Everyone gave him their blessings.
After the banquet ended, Liu Fei stayed with the old man from beginning to end, listening to the old man talk about the past.
The old man is getting older and his memory is much worse. Although he has told Liu Fei many things more than once, but now he continues to tell Liu Fei, talking about how they fought against the Japanese and the Kuomintang when they were young.
After achieving the final victory, we then talk about how to build a new China. If we reform and open up, the old man's experience is like an encyclopedia of modern China, comprehensively recording the tortuous development process of modern China in the past hundred years.
Maybe it was because he had a little drink, but the old man talked a lot and was very energetic. He held Liu Fei's hand and kept talking like that.
However, Liu Fei had been sitting by the old man's bed from beginning to end, listening to the old man telling stories that he had heard more than ten times. From beginning to end, Liu Fei never showed a trace of impatience, and sometimes even deliberately cooperated.
The old man’s ideas were raised and some questions were asked so that the old man could express himself to his fullest and tell his most proud story.
The grandfather and grandson chatted for three hours, until the sun set, when the old man felt sleepy and stopped talking.
At this moment, in the yard outside the villa, Liu Yang, Liu Fang and other younger generations all looked jealous. Liu Fang even said angrily: "Liu Fei is such a flatterer, he only knows how to flatter the old man."
Liu Yang's face was full of gloom.
At this time, the old man leaned on the bed and opened his squinted old eyes slightly with a look of satisfaction on his face. He smiled and said, "Liu Fei, isn't it boring to listen to grandpa telling stories?"
Liu Fei quickly said: "No, sir, your story can give me a lot of inspiration."
The old man snorted coldly and said: "Humph, you kid knows how to make me happy. I know that you are all grown up now and you all find me annoying. I also know that many of the stories I tell have been told more than once or twice.
They all don't want to listen to my story. They all find me annoying. Only you don't find me annoying and cooperate with me. Although I, an old man, am old and my brain is not working well, my heart is like a mirror.
.The uncle and the third uncle and their children always think that I am partial. In fact, they don’t understand that I have always been a fair bowl of water. It’s just that they don’t know how to seize the opportunity. Liu Fei, do you know? In my life
Among them, I have seen tens of millions of outstanding talents. Even if they are only outstanding talents in the officialdom, there are dozens of people who are ten times smarter and ten times more powerful than you in terms of intelligence and talent. But among these people, I
You are the only one I value and trust the most. Do you know why?"
Hearing what the old man said, Liu Fei's eyes suddenly widened and he asked with a puzzled look: "Grandpa, why is this?"
The old man closed his eyes and pondered for a while, then slowly said: "A person's ultimate achievement depends not only on his IQ, EQ and ability, but also on many other factors. For example, Xiang Yu, the Overlord of Chu, conquered the Qingshan Mountains
The most powerful and unparalleled hero ended up committing suicide in the Wujiang River. Another example is the Shu Kingdom during the Three Kingdoms period. Although Zhuge Liang was a genius, why could he only maintain three-thirds of the world until the Wei Dynasty finally succeeded?
The country was destroyed; and although the Mongolian cavalry during the Yuan Dynasty conquered the entire Central China Plain, it became one of the shortest-lived dynasties in Chinese history. If you look at history, you will find that how high a person's achievements are is definitely not only
It only depends on how strong the person is and how smart the person is, but also depends on the person's mind and magnanimity, and whether the person can adapt to the three key factors of the right time, place, and people. Among the three factors,
The two factors of weather and location are unpredictable and the least easy to be controlled by people. However, the key factor of "harmony" is something that can be achieved by one person as long as he works hard. But harmony is
It is the most complex and simplest element among the three major elements.”
When Liu Fei heard this, he couldn't help showing a thoughtful expression and asked: "Why do you say anything is the most complicated and the simplest?"
The old man said slowly: "It is simple to talk about the factor of harmony, because as long as you coordinate all aspects of the relationship, or coordinate some aspects of the relationship, then you will achieve harmony. Speaking of which,
It is indeed very simple. However, interpersonal relationships are the most complicated thing in China. Many officials and many businessmen actually only do one thing throughout their lives, and that is to deal with these interpersonal relationships, such as celebrating new years.
During the holidays, you give gifts to that leader, how much you give, which departments need to visit, etc. These are all efforts to win over people and people. However, people like this, throughout their lives, actually never understand what is
For real people, their thinking is too narrow and their ideological level is too low. Because they believe that it is the superior leaders who can determine their official position, and it is the subordinates who can cause them trouble. As long as they handle the relationship between subordinates well,
If the superior leaders appreciate themselves and the subordinate leaders obey them, then their pipelines can rise to the top. It is undeniable that many such people are indeed very comfortable in the officialdom and are promoted very quickly. But such
At most, people can only reach the department level or deputy ministerial level, and very few people reach the ministerial level. Even if some people reach the ministerial level, there is absolutely no room for development. "
Hearing this, Liu Fei asked: "Grandpa, what is the true meaning of harmony between people?"
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Looking at the old man sleeping like a child, Liu Fei felt sour and bitter. He knew that his grandfather was really old and could fall asleep just talking. But his grandfather seized every opportunity to cultivate himself.
Especially what grandpa said just now made Liu Fei feel suddenly enlightened.
The room was quiet, and the people in the yard outside were also very calm. However, Liu Fei didn't know that in this calmness, the crisis was quietly approaching. @ya
