In fact, Ren He knew very well... What Ren's mother was talking about before were all trivial things to her, such as whether to play the piano or not, or whether to draw or not, it was just Ren's mother's foreshadowing.
Now we have just entered the main topic, which is the thing that Ren He wants to avoid the most: extreme sports.
This is actually a conflict that he has been unable to reconcile with Lao Ren and Ren's mother. Because he only has one life, his parents attach great importance to it.
What is extreme sports in the eyes of parents? It is no different from seeking death.
Now in Ren's mother's view, her son has the capital to settle down in this society. Even if the Qinghe faction cannot rise as Ren He imagined, it will not be any worse.
It is actually difficult to talk about dreams with the older generation, because they have experienced the era of change and lack a sense of security in this era. What we often see is that even wealthy business families want their children to have an iron rice bowl.
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However, Ren He could not compromise on this aspect. What he was experiencing now was not a simple life, but a precious opportunity to start over again.
He may not want money or fame, but he cannot let himself have regrets in this life.
Ren's mother said coldly: "Don't take risks anymore. Your father and I only have a son like you, and we don't want a white-haired person to give away a black-haired person."
Ren He wanted to have a good talk with Ren's mother about his ideals at this time, but he also knew very well that there was no room for relaxation for this kind of thing from his parents.
"Now that you have returned to China and experienced this huge crisis, your mind should have settled down," Ren's mother continued: "It's up to you whether you want to continue going to school, but I still recommend that you continue to go to school and learn until you grow old.
When you get old, you still have a long way to go in life. I only have one request, and that is that you can no longer take risks."
Ren's mother is very clear about her son's current status in the field of extreme sports. To be honest, she is also a little proud that her son can achieve such achievements in the field of extreme sports. However, the problem is that even if Ren He succeeds in this field, she
I also don’t want Ren He to continue.
Everyone expresses their love in different ways. The way Ren's mother expresses her maternal love is to hope that Ren He can be healthy and happy, not that he can be rich.
To be honest, Ren's mother also understands that her son may already be one of the best among his peers. Regardless of the field she is willing to see or not, she must admit that her son is already good enough.
And to be honest, her son was completely out of her control, and she had no intention of controlling anything. She was just worried that her son's life would be in danger.
Ren He thought for a moment and then gritted his teeth and said: "Actually, money has become a digital existence in my eyes. Making more money will not make me richer inside. I want to chase my dream.
Maybe you don’t quite understand why I have such a dream, but if I can’t complete it and retreat, I think I will definitely spend the rest of my life regretting it.”
Dream... Ren's mother was sitting in the courtyard in a daze. What was her dream? Her dream was to be a dancer. However, when she was 17 years old, she was sent to the army by Ren He's grandfather and became a dancer.
A female soldier, she was admitted to the military academy and then met Lao Ren.
Eventually they both changed careers.
Both of them have successful careers, and she has never lacked the money and fame that everyone desires. However, her original dream of becoming a dancer has long been shattered.
She always thinks that it would be good to learn piano or Chinese painting when she can retire. In short, it is better than making endless money.
Now her son suddenly mentioned the word dream to her, just like when she was 17 years old and begged her father not to join the army but to learn dance.
A dream is probably something that will remain with you throughout your life. Some people complete it, and some people take it to their graves.
When history repeats itself for her son, how should Ren's mother choose? Respect? Or stifle?
Before today, Ren's mother thought about it for a long time, because she already understood that she no longer had the ability to influence Ren He's will. Who hasn't seen a few rebellious children? Ren He is already doing well.
So not only Ren He was thinking of countermeasures, but Ren's mother herself was also thinking of a compromise, but she couldn't come up with a reason after thinking for so long...it was really a headache!
Dream, this word is too beautiful.
Ren's mother stood up and said rationally and calmly: "I have watched you grow up little by little since you were a child. You have been very obedient since you were a child, but I don't know why now you suddenly become so independent and do so many things. I don't even understand.
Knowing when you came into contact with guns, I was surprised and very proud of you."
"If you were not my son, I would think you are a legend in contemporary society, but you are my son. I can't just watch you go down a dangerous road. However, I also understand very well that you decided
I may not be able to stop this, but in this case I only have one request, you two give me a grandson, and don't take any dangerous actions until the grandson is born. This can be regarded as a little filial piety on your part."
Ren's mother spoke particularly calmly, but Ren He could also hear a trace of sadness hidden in these words. It seemed that Ren's mother had already prepared to lose Ren He.
When her son grows up, she is neither able to stop him nor wants to kill his dreams, so what she can do is let Ren He leave some thoughts for her and prevent herself and Lao Ren from dying alone.
Ren He had already died once in her heart, and the grief at that time was almost too much for her to bear. Now she has to acquiesce in allowing her son to take risks again. This decision is too difficult for Ren's mother.
And Ren He and Yang Xi looked at each other in confusion... about giving birth to a grandson...
Yang Xi's face suddenly turned red. Uncle Fang and Aunt Wang looked at the young couple with great joy. In their village, Ren He and the others could indeed have children at their age.
However, giving birth to a child was something that Ren He and Yang Xi had never imagined. It was too scary...
Half a year ago, I was warned a lot not to fall in love prematurely, but now I am asking myself to have a baby as soon as possible...
There is no defense at all!
In fact, Ren He found it quite interesting in his heart. The two of them fell in love secretly and are now recognized by both parents.
What are the classmates of the same age still doing? They are still in school, still playing games, and still enjoying a carefree yet ignorant and fearless life. When their peers are still in their second year of high school, they are being pushed.
Giving birth to a baby feels absurd, but also awesome...