Yan Beibela opened the door of the car, got in, and shouted with a smile: "Uncle, good morning."
Uncle?
Hou Xiaoqian's eyes slightly curled up. As a young person, she naturally understood that the word uncle definitely did not mean that Yang Hao was very old, but that he was charming. It is not that old people are called masters. Those who are handsome and charming are talented people.
Call me uncle?
After all, this title was brought about by the Korean Wave.
After Yan Beibei greeted Yang Hao, her eyes fell on Hou Xiaoqian in the passenger seat. Yang Hao introduced smoothly: "This is Hou Xiaoqian, the sister of my comrade, and also my sister... Xiaoqian, this is
Yan Beibei, a very naughty and mischievous guy."
"Uncle, I've always been well-behaved, okay?"
Yan Beibei protested habitually, and then stretched out her hand from between the two chairs in the front row: "I've heard uncle talk about you a long time ago. I'm glad to meet you. We will also be alumni in the future. We will definitely become good friends.
.”
Hou Xiaoqian stretched out her hand with a smile, held Yan Beibei's hand together, smiled slightly, showing her eight white teeth: "I'm glad to meet you too."
Yan Beibei took back her hand, stared at Yang Hao and said: "Ranran has left Zhonghai to report. Shasha has something to do at home today and can't get out, but Yuanyuan can come out. Where are we going?"
Yang Hao smiled and said, "We were originally going to have breakfast at the Nongtang, do you want to pick her up?"
Yan Beibei shook her head and said: "No, we can just tell Yuanyuan our destination when she comes. She will come and meet us by herself. The place where she lives is a bit far away after all. If you go back and forth to pick her up, it will delay your tour.
It doesn’t cost much to take a taxi anyway, didn’t you give us a lot of pocket money?”
Yang Hao thought about it and it was right. If he went to pick up Zhao Yuan again, he would have too much time, so he didn't force it at the moment: "Well, you call her and we will meet at the alley."
After Yan Beibei called Zhao Yuan, her attention returned to Hou Xiaoqian: "Hou Xiaoqian, how old are you this year?"
Hou Xiaoqian smiled and replied: "I will be nineteen in three months, what about you?"
Yan Beibei opened her eyes wide and replied helplessly: "Aren't you older than me? Originally, I was thinking if I could be older than you, I'd like you to call me sister?"
Hou Xiaoqian smiled and said: "We are all classmates, just call me by my name, or call me Xiaoqian or Qianqian."
Yan Beibei thought that it would be good if she didn't need to call her sister, so she readily agreed: "Okay, I'll call you Qianqian, and you can just call me Beibei. You can call her Zhao Yuan when she comes."
Yuanyuan, and Shasha, who can’t come today, it’s easier to say this.”
After the two girls had communicated about the issue of address, they started talking to each other. It has to be said that the topics between little girls are always weird. Two girls who had just met each other, in just a short period of ten or twenty years,
In just a few minutes' drive, they had become very familiar, which made Yang Hao, who was sitting in the driver's seat, very happy to see it.
Everyone found a shop with good business, ordered some special snacks, and started eating breakfast. Just when everyone was about to finish eating, Zhao Yuan arrived.
After another introduction, everyone started the day's tour schedule.
Yan Beibei didn't have Du Shasha, her gold medal partner, by her side. She didn't tease Yang Hao much, which made Yang Hao feel relieved. If Yan Beibei screamed like a little wife in front of Hou Xiaoqian, then
Yang Hao still doesn’t know how to explain it?
Yang Hao noticed that Yan Beibei stared at him several times during the tour, frowning slightly, as if she wanted to say something to herself, but in the end she said nothing.
Yang Hao was a little strange. Taking advantage of a break, he asked in a low voice: "Beibei, I think there is something on your mind?"
Yan Beibei curled her lips and hesitated: "Well, I don't know what to say."
Yang Hao smiled and said: "If you feel uncomfortable holding it in your heart, or if you feel confused and difficult to solve, you can talk to me. After all, I am much older than you and have seen more things. Maybe
Can you give me some useful suggestions? Besides, even if I can’t do anything to help you, just treat me as a simple listener. Wouldn’t it make you feel better if you speak out?”
Yan Beibei turned around and took a look. Zhao Yuan and Hou Xiaoqian were playing in the water not far away. She gritted her teeth and finally spoke out the questions she had been holding in her heart: "I found out that my mother has a man.
Already."
"Your mother has a man?"
Yang Hao was stunned for a moment, then realized what he was doing, lowered his voice by two points, and asked with some surprise: "Beibei, you mean, your mother is outside...there is a man other than your father?"
Yan Beibei nodded, and Yang Hao suddenly felt a little tricky. The affair was really difficult to deal with, and he didn't even know how to comfort her.
"What is going on? Could it be that you have misunderstood? Also, does your father know about this?"
When Yan Beibei heard Yang Hao's question, she remembered that she had not explained the matter clearly, and said with a wry smile: "My parents divorced long ago."
"Divorced?"
Although Yang Hao was a little surprised by Yan Beibei's family situation, he subconsciously breathed a sigh of relief and said with a smile: "Since your parents are divorced, your mother is single. If she meets someone she likes, it will be very difficult."
It’s normal, your mother shouldn’t be very young, right?”
Yan Beibei hummed: "My mother looks much younger than her actual age. She looks like someone in her thirties, very beautiful."
Yang Hao looked at Yan Beibei's frowning face and suddenly understood Yan Beibei's mentality. He reached out and rubbed Yan Beibei's head: "Why, do you feel that your mother has been taken away, or are you worried?"
Wouldn't it be bad for you to have a stepfather?"
Yan Beibei tilted her head and thought for a while, and finally shook her head in a complicated way: "I don't know, I just feel weird."
Yang Hao pulled Yan Beibei to sit down on a stone bench next to him. He smiled and said, "Okay, it seems you are also confused. Let's find out. How long have your parents been divorced?"
"About ten years."
Yang Hao smiled and said: "In other words, you were only about eight years old when your parents divorced, and your mother never remarried and raised you by herself?"
Yan Beibei nodded, and before Yang Hao could speak again, Yan Beibei had already said: "Uncle, I know what you want to say. I have always known that my mother is very hard, not only because of her work, leaving early and coming back late, but also because of her
There are all kinds of pressures that a person bears, so I have always understood her. I once persuaded her not to find a man to live with, but she disagreed and said that I would wait until I grow up. I understand her.
I was afraid of leaving a bad shadow in my heart, so I always insisted on raising me independently..."
"Actually, I support my mother in finding another man, but when that day comes, my heart is empty and messy. Uncle, am I very conflicted?"
Yang Hao smiled and said: "It's not a contradiction. In fact, it's completely correct for you to feel this way. What you just said about supporting your mother to find another man is your rational and filial consideration. But
Why do you feel lost again? It is an emotional change. In the past, everything your mother did was for you, but now that she has a man, some of her thoughts may go away, so you feel a little lost."
Yan Beibei thought for a while, nodded and said: "Uncle, I think what you said makes sense. My mother doesn't know that I already know that she has a man. She never tells me these things, even when she goes out.
I secretly followed her when she went out secretly. I saw that she had a very special smell when she got into someone else's car and came back. I checked on the Internet and found that the smell should be the residue after doing that with a man..."
Yang Hao patted Yan Beibei on the shoulder and said, "Tomorrow, you are going to register at China Overseas University of Finance and Economics. Do you know what this means?"
Yan Beibei tilted her head: "I will be a college student from tomorrow?"
"This is just one aspect, but entering college actually has another meaning, which means that you have truly become an adult. After entering college, you must learn to think about problems with adult thinking and use an adult perspective.
to put things into perspective.”
Yang Hao smiled and explained: "When it comes to your mother, you should support her. After all, you could always accompany her at home before, but once you enter college, she will be alone when you go home.
Mental loneliness will be very uncomfortable. Wouldn't it be a good thing if you met a really good man who could take care of your mother?"
Yan Beibei sighed, and his frown suddenly relaxed a bit: "I could have thought of this before, but after you said it like this, I feel much more relaxed. Uncle, are you talking about my mood?"
, will things get better as long as some time passes?"
Yang Hao smiled and said: "Of course, getting used to this kind of thing is very scary. You are used to the world of two people with your mother, and now there may be one more person. After all, you will feel uneasy, hesitant, or worried in your heart.
Your mother has encountered various situations such as being unkind to others, so she is worried about gains and losses. In fact, I think the best way is that you can take some time to have a good talk with your mother and tell her your thoughts. Maybe after a talk
, you will find that everything is actually your own trouble."
Yan Beibei asked hesitantly: "Uncle, what are you talking about?"
Yang Hao laughed: "In many ways, but the most basic thing is that your mother's love for you will not decrease much because she found a second love. You will only have one more person to care about you. In fact, you have not lost anything."