Wang Weiran smiled and found that there was no need to be too nervous when talking to Yuan Zili.
"Governor Yuan, you are right. I hope you can point out more of my shortcomings. I will also have good ideas for my future work. I am a fan of the authorities. I feel that I have some problems but I can't talk about them."
Yuan Zili nodded: "It's very valuable that you realize this, so I'll say it."
Wang Weiran said nothing. He looked at Yuan Zili, waiting for him to speak.
"I have read your information a long time ago. Your family belongs to an ordinary family. As far as you are concerned, I think you and I are somewhat similar. It is influenced by your father. In your heart, you should actually be a little indifferent or even a little indifferent to the red descendants.
I am disgusted. I don’t know the exact reason for this, but I can feel it. You also have a sense of awe for senior leaders, and you feel that you have no intersection with them. If it weren’t for Haiyi, maybe the two of us would never be together in our lives.
It is impossible to meet and say a word, you can only see my speech on TV, and I can only hear your name when my subordinates report on their work."
Yuan Zili's words suddenly struck Wang Weiran's heart, which surprised the doctoral student. It must be said that Yuan Zili's vision of people is relatively accurate.
Yuan Zili continued: "But I have seen this. Everyone will have this period. Only when they are dissatisfied with the status quo will they work hard. Your work in the Family Planning Commission has proved your ability. About you
As for the children of the red descendants of the big family, compared to some of them who are scheming and unscrupulous, I prefer people like you who can do practical things. The red descendants are born with a sense of superiority, they work with deep thoughts, and they
Most people are the elite of the elite, which has something to do with the education they received since childhood, but they also have shortcomings, isolation, serious circle culture, and loneliness of the soul. I once heard a young comrade joke that on the road of pretending to be the best
They are destined to be full of loneliness. So if you contact them with your heart and accept them from the bottom of your heart, it will definitely be of great benefit to your future work. Success is never taken for granted in this world, even if their parents are high-ranking officials. To
You must pay attention to the fact that you can go further and longer in the officialdom, and you must not let others say that we have high scores, low abilities, and are arrogant."
At this time, Wang Weiran's face no longer showed the initial nervousness. Instead, he was immersed in Yuan Zili's speech. It was obvious that he was making his own thinking and making his most effective judgment on where he had done something.
He made a mistake and lost something. These things flashed through his mind like a movie.
"The next thing I want to say is that women, I heard that you have been married for seven or eight years. The so-called seven-year itch, especially after a man becomes successful, you must pay attention to all this. How to manage your marriage is a big problem for you.
This is a very important course. In the officialdom, the most indispensable thing is women, but in this life, there are only two women who can accompany you when you are down and walk behind you and cheer you silently when you are prosperous and rich.
One is your mother and the other is your wife.
You must be cautious when interacting with women, especially your current status. If my guess is correct, you have just become the secretary of the municipal party committee. Many people are not convinced because your qualifications are not the oldest and the relationship is not the strongest.
Between us, I don’t have the responsibility to help you from the outside. The scheming between women and women is better than the friendship between men and men, but what men and women directly pursue is a kind of balance. The so-called
There is nothing wrong with coming and going, and living on tenterhooks can actually prevent you from making mistakes to a certain extent, and this requires a balance and your wife can help you achieve it."
Yuan Zili said, and said to Wang Weiran with a smile: "My theory does not mean that you have a feeling of distrust towards everyone. If I only trust you, it may not be just your wife. I am just making an analogy."
Wang Weiran nodded: "Secretary Yuan, I understand. If you can tell me these words, I will definitely remember them. To be honest, I really had problems with my understanding in some aspects before, and what you said is very helpful to me."
.I will definitely pay attention to women. My wife is still very good to me. I have to thank her for so many years."
"Haha, as the leader of the municipal party committee, you must have many women making secret glances at you. On this point, you must learn to judge which ones are just for pure interests. The interaction between men and women is actually very important. Know how to use all resources and don't
I feel like relying on women is like being a gigolo. If you have a good relationship with some of your female cadres, they will help you if there are things that you can't handle but they can handle. And it's entirely possible that they are desperate.
"It's normal for women to be crazy about men, because they are emotional and delicate, and they dare to love and hate at the same time, so their impulsiveness is more serious than that of men."
Wang Weiran had not thought about this aspect of work. These words coming from Governor Yuan's mouth were really shocking, but to his own ears, every word was like a pearl. What Yuan Zili said was so reasonable, but these are all
It is something that most people have never thought about. It may not seem like much to everyone when you say these truths, but it is the first time for Wang Weiran to hear them explained so clearly.
He was stunned, and then fell into deep thinking. When he first worked in the provincial government, some of the people in the office did not feel that they were great, but they were upgraded much faster than him. Now that he thinks about it, he
There are too many factors that have been ignored. The officialdom looks at more than just personal abilities. They have a comprehensive assessment, but the most important factor I have never paid attention to. To put it bluntly, it is interpersonal relationships.
"In reality, you become the secretary of Anguo. This is a symbol of power. Many people will pay attention to you. Which man doesn't want to have a beautiful woman in his arms, with vicious dogs in front of him, domestic slaves behind him, and plenty of fertile land?
Mom, but let me tell you, that's just a thought, not a successful man, just a bad boy. So you must pay attention to what you should pay attention to. But you can't stop eating because of choking."
Leaders are often most willing to hire three types of people: first, those who are extremely capable; second, those who are both capable and loyal to themselves; third, those who have no ability but are willing to work hard for themselves. Only using the third type of people will not achieve political results;
The first type of people cannot guarantee that their power base is impregnable; but the third type of people are extremely rare.
There are many ways to make the leader like you. One is to flatter, pick up good people and do personal things for the leader. Such people are liked by the boss, but they are light and cannot be carried at critical moments. Only those who are incompetent will flatter. Leaders need their own
People, reliable people, people who can do things, people who can provide channels for venting.
(Give me the flowers if you have them. It’s the same sentence. I will remember it and do my best. I will have room to write tomorrow.) (To be continued)