While Bai Mei and Zhou Ya were having a fuss, Nuan Nuan called.
"Sister, you have to make the decision for me." Unlike Amei, who is used to talking about things first and going around the bush, Nuaner goes straight to the point.
Because she already knew from Amei’s phone call that the two of them were having a conflict, Bai Mei guessed what Nuan Nuan meant without further explanation.
She said quietly: "What are you doing? Are you having trouble with your mother?"
"Eh? Sister, you are a magic teller! How did you know?" Nuanre was actually a little overjoyed.
This kid has always been heartless, and Bai Mei knows that.
Zhou Ya looked like she wanted to laugh when she heard this, so she covered her mouth to hold it back.
There is no such thing as a fortune teller in this world, it’s all just a matter of poor information.
"Why can't I know? I also know that you are going on a blind date with your mother. You may be impatient." Bai Mei said in a teasing tone.
At this moment, Nuanre realized suddenly, and she said angrily: "I told you that when I called you just now, the line was busy! My mother must have complained first. What else did she say?"
"I didn't say anything. I just said that you were filial, and you wanted to finance her trip, and you also suggested that she find a wife to spend her old age. It's just that neither of these two things went as she wished. Your filial piety became her sweetness.
Burden, that's all." Bai Mei directly discussed the conflicting points between the two people, without going around the bush, and in an attitude of solving the problem, by the way, she asked Rener to reflect on it.
Today's young people all have one common characteristic, that is, if they encounter trouble, they will think that the whole world is a fool and they are the only one who is perfect.
That is, never reflect.
Although Bai Mei is only a few years older than Re Re, according to the three-year generation gap and five-year generation gap, they already belong to two generations.
Sure enough, Nuern was dissatisfied after hearing Bai Mei's words. She said: "Sweet burden? My mother actually used my filial piety as a burden. You can judge me. Isn't this hypocritical!"
"Irrespective of whether your mother is being hypocritical or not, let me ask you, what do you think?" Bai Mei said in a very polite way.
"What do I think? I'm filial! I'm rich now, no, my conditions are a little better now. I've been eating from my mother and drinking from my mother for so many years. It's okay for me to repay her, right? That's what I think.
."Rere is confident and confident.
"Your starting point is good and your intentions are good, but your method is wrong." Bai Mei followed one step at a time and slowly solved the problem: "Since you want to be filial to your mother, you just do what she wants.
, you just blindly follow your own settings and think that if you do this, your mother will be happy, but what will be the result? It's like falling in love, you have to consider the problem from the other person's perspective."
"Why are you talking about falling in love?" Nuan was confused, "Sister, what do you want to do?"
"Okay, I'm so stunned by my talk." Bai Mei covered the microphone with her hand and said to Zhou Ya next to her.
Some people can’t laugh or cry.
"Keep it simple, keep it simple." Zhou Ya said while making a simple gesture with her hand.
Press it.
Now, Bai Mei's influence in this team is obvious to all, and it seems that the only one who can influence Bai Mei is Zhou Ya.
After hearing Zhou Ya's words, Bai Mei seemed to have some understanding. She then said to Re Re: "What I mean is that since falling in love is your strong point, then you can step in and use your strong points to help a group of weak points to solve the problem."
Let’s talk about being filial to my mother. Don’t you even understand such a simple meaning? I hung up the phone if I didn’t understand. I’m so pissed off by you.”
"No, no, I know, I know..." Rere stopped Bai Mei from hanging up the phone and gave up.
Bai Mei winked at Zhou Ya proudly, holding on to the heat, she Bai Mei was still stable.
"Sister, you mean to let me do what you like, is that what you mean?" Nuanre continued the topic just now and "reflected" on it very seriously, which is rare.
"Absolutely," Bai Mei said slowly, "You know your mother's preferences, right?"
"This..." Nuan was at a loss for words for a moment and was really confused by the question. "Then tell me, what are my mother's preferences?"
"First of all, she loves flower shops and cannot do without her shop. No matter whether it makes money or not, she is willing to prune and take care of it all day long. The more exquisite the flower shop is, the more glorious her life will be."
Bai Mei started to get emotional, and she didn't stop, as if she was immersed in the description of Amei, a delicate Shanghai woman who earned her own living, day after day, and was able to have full of taste and surprises in her trivial life.
"She wants to pass on her life aesthetics to more people, so flowers are the carrier, and every customer is her donor, giving to each other. While giving roses to others, she can also have lingering fragrance in her hands, delicate and calm, she
I like this instead of traveling abroad. If you really want to travel, for your mother, there is nothing better than Shanghai in the world. It is better to get a flight ticket as far away as possible, but it is not realistic. It is not convenient to go abroad now.
And she can't live without her flower shop."
Rener has been listening.
"So, traveling is not a good choice." Bai Mei said, "She heard you forcing her to travel. You said, isn't this just like when you were a child and she was forced to learn this and that?
”
"Okay, now I understand that I can't force others to make things difficult for me. It's my fault, so I just don't travel. But what's wrong with me suggesting she go on a blind date?" Rener still wants to fight for herself, and she can't lose everything. p>
"It's not a question of right or wrong, it's a question of appropriateness." Bai Mei said, "Your mother doesn't need a blind date. She has long been accustomed to living alone. The daily life of the flower shop is her sustenance. She has experienced marriage, and
At this age, she no longer has any expectations for men. She has the ability to live well by herself, so why go on a blind date? You see, you still made a mistake of imposing yourself on others."
"Okay, I finally understand. I can't do anything to make my mother feel happy." Rener felt aggrieved.
"No, you can do it. For example, the fact that you are in love now makes your mother very happy, especially if you find a person like Zhu Jingxuan, your mother's merits are complete and her life is satisfactory." Bai Mei said,
"So, the best way you can honor your mother is to spend some time with her, talk more about the progress of your relationship with Zhu Jingxuan, and by the way, bring her some small gifts, go out for a meal or something, that will be enough to make your mother happy.
."
"Is it that simple?" Rere said in disbelief. Bai Mei's suggestion was something she had never expected. It turns out that showing one's filial piety is so calm, so moisturizing and silent. There is nothing earth-shattering about my mother loving me again. What's more,
There is no such thing as wishful thinking.
"What is simple or not? Let's talk about it after you have done it." Bai Mei said, "You can give it a try."
"Then, thank you!" Nuanre finally gained something and had an idea, "By the way, Sister Mei, you have helped us so much, how are your own affairs now? I haven't been free these days.
Come here."
"My affairs are going very well and are moving forward smoothly. You should do your work first. When I need you later, I will naturally call you. You are my very important right-hand man." Bai Mei smiled.
