The two women were fighting and chatting, and they talked about their own pain points. This is the best friend game.
After Zhou Ya smoothed over the deviations in her attitude towards Lin Miao for Bai Mei, naturally, it was time for Bai Mei to solve her current pain points for Zhou Ya.
Zhou Ya sighed first. This sigh was so unreasonable that Bai Mei was startled. She unconsciously turned to look at Zhou Ya and asked, "What's wrong with you?"
"I miss the baby." Zhou Ya didn't hide her true feelings and completely revealed her feelings at the moment to Bai Mei. This was full of trust.
Bai Mei turned over and became interested.
Being needed is always a particularly meaningful thing. It is a pleasant emotion, as if the dopamine in the body is growing rapidly, similar to the instant overflow of pampering.
"How does it feel to think about a child?" Bai Mei is nominally asking for advice, but in fact she is helping Zhou Ya start to analyze the problem. After all, she needs to make an in-depth analysis and lay the groundwork.
Zhou Ya curled her lips noncommittally, as if she was trying to form words. Suddenly, she stood up and deliberately teased Bai Mei and said, "Actually, it's almost like missing a man."
"Stop! You lied to me again!" Bai Mei knew this was a trap. Zhou Ya wanted to trick her and ask her if she usually misses a man.
Indeed, Zhou Ya was guessed by Bai Mei. This was exactly the question she was curious about about Bai Mei.
For Zhou Ya, she fell in love with Du Keqiang in college. In the blink of an eye, she got married and had children. It can be said that staying in a hotel to cool down family conflicts and wait for a few days for divorce was the first time in her life in the past ten years.
Once I had to think, what would happen if there were no men?
Now is a perfect opportunity to exchange with Bai Mei.
"I'm not lying to you, really," Zhou Ya said seriously, "unless..."
"Unless what?"
"Unless you think about men differently than other people."
"Bah!" Bai Mei said, "I don't believe that I am a heterogeneous person, so tell me, how do you feel when you miss a man?"
"Yes, didn't I just say it? It's the same feeling I have when I miss my child. It's heart-wrenching, I can't let go, my thoughts are stagnant, and there are hundreds of claws scratching my heart."
Bai Mei rolled her eyes and thought that this description was indeed correct. It didn't sound wrong, so she said: "Then I'm normal. I occasionally have symptoms of scratching my heart and being inexplicably irritable, but I can still overcome it."<
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Obviously, Zhou Ya was not very satisfied with this answer, because it sounded like Bai Mei was trying to fool her, so she asked further: "Then how do you overcome it?"
"Hey!" Bai Mei noticed that Zhou Ya's language was ambiguous. It seemed to be a small trap, and he was deliberately guiding her to say that, but she refused, "I'm working out. I'll just take a shower after sweating."
Yeah."
"Okay," Zhou Ya suddenly became bored and returned to the position where she was lying on her back, "then thinking about children is a little more difficult to overcome than thinking about men."
"Yeah, I understand. Mother's love is the greatest. Children are all the meat that falls from the mother. It would be weird if she doesn't want to." Bai Mei agreed with Zhou Ya.
Empathy is a particularly good way of communication and it is also effective.
Although it is said that there is no absolute empathy in this world, and everyone's story has its own uniqueness that only he can understand, but it is only equivalent to a very small part of the whole, just like a small part of a big tree.
tree hole.
In the eyes of others, the first thing they must see is the entire tree, followed by the small tree hole. Moreover, the tree hole means secrets, which can be daunting.
Although friends or besties are willing to share secrets, in fact, their greater willingness is to share the emotional value provided by each other. When it comes to secret communication, it is still quite intimidating, like seeing a tree hole.
, it is this kind of dauntingness that makes people feel more expectant, that kind of heart-beating feeling.
It is something similar to a physiological reaction, that is, instinct.
Sure enough, when Bai Mei said this, Zhou Ya's mood returned to a relaxed state. It was recognized by others. It is always a soothing thing.
At the moment, Zhou Ya naturally no longer has the intention to play around with Bai Mei, but is really immersed in missing her child.
"How about you accompany me to the kindergarten tomorrow?" Zhou Ya suddenly had an idea, as if she was planning to do something bad.
There is a slight trepidation in the anticipation.
"Okay, but I'll be very busy tomorrow!" Bai Mei told the truth, after all, she still has a lot of business to deal with!
This feeling is very strange. It is very different from the feeling when she worked in the store in the past. They were all for performance and making money, but this time, she felt even more extraordinarily energetic. How should I put it?
In the past, she was an executor, but now she is more of a creator. What she is executing is the track she created herself, the needs and models she created, in order to create a reputation for herself.<
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This is very different.
"I won't waste much of your time," Zhou Ya said, "Just for a while, I want to take a look while they are out of school."
Zhou Ya's expectant and humble look made Bai Mei feel distressed. Alas, once a woman, no matter how elegant, has a child in her heart, she becomes timid and even becomes a little demanding.
Bai Mei said: "Then why don't you take a few more glances? Why don't you just go there while they are in class and ask them to come out?"
Zhou Ya smiled and said: "That won't work, you are still too young."
"Why?"
"Think about it, I usually pick up and drop off the kids, but suddenly I haven't been around these days, and I show up just to look after the kids. What does this mean?" After Zhou Ya finished speaking, she looked at Bai Mei.
"Understand, family scandals should not be made public." Bai Mei understood immediately, "The less people know about the divorce between you and Du Keqiang, the better."
Zhou Ya nodded and said: "Face is too important, people's words are terrible, why let people know too many details."
"Yes!" Bai Mei said again, "Then change it to the morning. We will go out early tomorrow, so that I can go directly to do other things after finishing my work."
"Okay, I just have to work hard to get up early."
"That doesn't matter. I'm used to getting up early and I don't have the luxury of sleeping in." Bai Mei laughed at herself.
"Then let's go to bed early."
"You go to bed first, I'll send an email." Bai Mei said, getting out of bed and going to the computer.
"What email is so important?"
"The plan I promised to show to the client, I agreed to give it to her tomorrow, will be earlier. This will show that I am particularly dedicated, working overtime, and paying attention to her." Bai Mei replied.
"Ah, the details are full of vital details." Zhou Ya praised, "My strong woman."