Tang Xiaomu came in and showed me the results of the examination.
I went to make her a cup of tea and said to her: "That doctor's skills are very good, just tell me the results."
But she said to me: "Dr. Feng, I still believe in your medical skills."
I couldn't help but smile bitterly: In fact, many patients are like this. They are too superstitious about the doctors they trust.
Immediately, I took the test results in my hands and looked at them carefully. The doctor still took good care of her, at least he didn't prescribe any unnecessary tests.
I was very surprised because I found that all the test results were normal. But her face really didn't look good? What was going on?
While looking at the checklist, I started to ask her: "It seems to be normal? So do you feel any discomfort in your daily life?"
She shook her head and said, "There's nothing uncomfortable about it. I just have trouble sleeping sometimes."
I seemed to understand, "So that's it. Then let's do this. I'll prescribe you some medicine to help you sleep."
But she shook her head and said: "Forget it, medicine like that often has side effects."
I was startled for a moment and said, "The medicine I prescribed for you won't have serious side effects. Don't worry."
She was still shaking her head, and then looked at me. What made me secretly puzzled was that I noticed that her face suddenly turned red. I asked her, "What happened?"
She lowered her head and said to me in a low voice: "Dr. Feng, you are someone that both Lao Zheng and I trust, so I am willing to tell you this matter. And... Lao Zheng didn't know that I would
I told you this."
I suddenly became confused and said, "Oh? Just tell me, don't worry, I will keep it a secret for you. You should trust me. Not only is this professional ethics requiring me to do that, but we are still friends. So you should completely rest assured."
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She nodded slightly, then raised her head and looked at me, her face still flushed, "Dr. Feng, our old Zheng has not been married to me for a long time."
Only then did I really realize: No wonder her face looks so bad, that’s why!
A happy, sweet and harmonious sex life not only contributes to women's physical and mental health and longevity, but is also beneficial to youth and beauty. This is scientifically proven by medicine.
According to skin sampling analysis by experts, the reason why the skin of passionate and married women becomes soft, delicate and radiant is closely related to the strong secretion of estrogen in their ovaries. Therefore, sweet emotions, happy marriage, and harmonious sex
AI improves the nutrition of the skin, thus making women's skin look creamy and their eyebrows full of spring, making them more radiant and attractive.
From the survey of women in love, most women's skin has changed after falling in love.
What does this mean? Because men and women who are passionately in love or newly married are attracted to each other like a magnet. Kissing, hugging, caressing and sexual intercourse can make each other indulge in an indescribable happiness, satisfaction, and sweetness.
A large amount of sex hormones are secreted in the body; in this case, a strong fire of love will be burned in the hearts of women, which will increase the elasticity of their skin and make their faces more charming and lovely.
I looked at her and felt very sympathetic. I am an obstetrician and gynecologist, and patients often tell me such things. I also know their painful feelings as women. This matter has nothing to do with pure ethics.
As humans, we are animals first, and as animals, the need for basic desires is an extremely natural thing, which also includes sexual love. As women, excessive sexual love or lack of the most basic sexual love
Life is not good, and it is not good for their bodies. In fact, it is ultimately a question of hormone secretion. Our body is like a precise instrument, and hormones are the necessary lubricants for this instrument. If there is no such
If the lubricating oil is not used, this precision instrument will deteriorate.
I looked at her and asked her in a purely doctor's tone: "Can you tell me? Why is he like this? When did it start? Oh, you don't have to be taboo about anything, because what I want to know is what is his psychological state?
The reason is still functional. If it is a psychological reason, it can be treated with psychotherapy, but if it is functional, it must be treated with medication."
I am telling the truth. For men, most of these problems are psychological factors, and the main reason here is aesthetic fatigue: after a couple has been together for a long time, they will gradually become more and more dissatisfied with themselves.
The wife experiences boredom and numbness. Functional symptoms are often rare unless she is injured or has other special circumstances.
She replied: "About half a year ago, he gradually became unwilling to do that thing with me. At the beginning, I touched him and he still reacted, but then it didn't work no matter what I did.
I can't even...I can't even make him get up with my mouth. I've asked him, but every time he loses his temper."
After listening to what she said, I basically knew what was going on. So I said to her: "Well, let me think about it. If I take some time to call him out to talk, it might be helpful to his problem.
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She said: "But Dr. Feng, wouldn't he know that it was me who told you this matter? No, he will definitely be angry! You know his temper, and he definitely doesn't want anyone to suffer such a thing.
People know. Dr. Feng, I don’t have any other meaning. I just want you to help me think of a way to prescribe some medicine for him. When I get back, I will quietly add it to his food, so that he can slowly recover.
Get up. Actually, it’s not that I have to do that thing. The main reason is that he often loses his temper in front of me since he became like this. I know that he is actually very upset. "
Of course, I know that any man will be irritable when such a problem occurs, because such a problem will make a man feel that he has lost his most basic functions, which will make him feel extremely inferior in his heart. In fact, Zheng Dazhuang
Losing your temper with your wife is just a sign of low self-esteem.
I have to help him, I thought in my heart, because I know what pain a man feels after encountering such a thing.
I said to her: "Don't worry, I will pretend not to know about this matter. However, I analyze that it is still a psychological factor, so professional psychological counseling is needed to be effective. Don't worry, I will try my best."
Let him return to normal."
She looked at me, half-believing, "Dr. Feng, is it true?"
I looked at her sincerely and said, "How could I lie to you? Teacher Zheng has helped me so much. It is my duty to find a way to treat this kind of thing for him. But this kind of treatment is too professional.
Even if I say it, you may not understand it. So, just leave this matter alone and I will find time to solve this problem for him as soon as possible. However, psychotherapy requires me and him to be alone together, and the first thing we need is communication. So.
, if I ask him to come out, I have to trouble you to persuade him to come out, and you must not accompany me."
She agreed repeatedly and looked at me with admiration. Then she said goodbye to me.
I personally sent her outside the office. Then I couldn't help but smile bitterly in my heart: In fact, I deliberately made this matter so mysterious because I didn't want Tang Xiaomu to doubt my method.
I once heard Zeng Yufang say that her man seemed to have such a problem. I didn't expect to hear that another man had such a problem now. In fact, among our people, married men, especially men who have been married for many years, should have this kind of situation.
More often than not, the main problem is that of aesthetic fatigue, and the former passion is no longer there. In the final analysis, there is one reason: the life between husband and wife is too dull, and it has long lost interest.
Chinese people are very hard-working. Most couples have been working hard for a living or worrying about their children all their lives. Most of them have become house slaves. Financial pressure has caused many families to have no spouses.
Romance between husband and wife. This is the current situation. Therefore, it is inevitable that such problems will appear on a large scale. To maintain a lasting romance between husband and wife, they need to be in a good mood all the time, and such a good mood must be
A certain financial foundation. Of course, some couples are different, because they may love love first.