He said: "The problem now is that I can't have any problems now. You should understand my current situation."
I said: "In this way, you are just a delaying tactic. Is that so?"
He asked me: "Feng Xiao, do you think such a woman is worthy of me continuing to live with her? She is ugly and has such a bad temper. Now I feel sick when I see her!"
I immediately got angry, "Wang Xin, since you think she is ugly, why did you marry her in the first place? Why didn't you refuse it directly like I did? She married you and gave birth to a son for you.
Her life's happiness is entrusted to you. Not to mention, Wang Xin, do you know why she has such a bad temper? Do you know why she controls you so strictly? That's because she has no sense of security.
, she is afraid of losing you! You are responsible for her situation! As a man, you cannot let your wife feel safe, and you actually put all the responsibility on her..." At this point, I suddenly thought of myself
Everything that happened in the past, when I thought of Zhao Menglei and Chen Yuan, I was immediately ashamed and regretful, and then sighed: "Wang Xin, I won't say it anymore, because I am not qualified to say it to you, because I am also such a person. Alas.
!But have you ever thought about it? If your marriage cannot be maintained and you cannot find a reasonable reason for divorce, this will also have an adverse impact on your future career. Even if you survive this time
crisis, but you will still face new crises in the future. Wang Xin, as an old friend, I have to remind you of this."
He was silent for a moment and then said: "Feng Xiao, you are right."
I immediately breathed a sigh of relief and said, "As long as you can figure it out."
He said: "But, what should I do with my current situation? I think maybe you are the only one who can help me with this. She really listens to you."
I hurriedly said: "I don't know if she listens to me. Anyway, I hope she can be reasonable. So, we won't have dinner together tonight. Just give me her phone number, and I will talk to her
Let’s talk. But I can’t guarantee that we will be able to do her job.”
He was immediately overjoyed and said, "Thank you so much. You will definitely be able to do her job. I don't know about your eloquence yet? Just wait, I will send you her mobile phone number and her parents' landline number right away."
"
I immediately hung up the phone. I originally thought about letting Zhong Xiaohong do the job of Wang Xin's wife that night, but now it seems a little inappropriate. Because I remember what Zhong Xiaohong said to me when she introduced her to me.
After a sentence, I can't remember the specifics. I only vaguely remember that the relationship between them was not particularly close.
Soon Wang Xin sent me text messages: one was a mobile phone number, and the other was a landline.
In order not to worry him, I still sent him a text message in reply, just two words: Received.
Immediately, I sighed, and then started to dial the mobile phone number. However, her phone was turned off! I immediately understood: she didn't want to answer Wang Xin's call or listen to his explanation. This woman actually
Very personal. I couldn't help but smile bitterly in my heart.
Then I called her landline number. The call went through.
The person who answered the phone was an old man, probably Xiaohui's father. His voice sounded old and tired, "Who is it?"
I hurriedly said: "Uncle, I am your friend Xiaohui. My name is Feng Xiao. Can you ask her to listen to the phone?"
Immediately, I heard his voice coming from the phone, "Xiaohui, a man named Feng Xiao is looking for you. He said he is some kind of friend of yours. Will you answer this call?"
"Don't answer! It must be that heartless bitch who asked him to call." Then I heard her voice. Although her voice was far away from the receiver over there, I could still hear it clearly.
"She doesn't answer the phone," the old man said.
I hurriedly said: "Uncle, please wait!" I was afraid that he would hang up the phone right away, "Uncle, you may not know me, but I have something to say to you. I think you don't want Wang Xin to
Divorce your daughter? In that case, what will your grandson do in the future? And Xiaohui, who will live her whole life as a woman with her children? I just talked to Wang Xin, and he told me that he did not really commit the crime.
What a mistake? What I'm most worried about now is that your daughter makes the wrong choice out of anger, which is not good for Wang Xin or herself. Do you think so? Please let Xiaohui pick her up.
Call me, please believe that I am making this call entirely for the benefit of your daughter. In fact, my relationship with Wang Xin is not good, and your daughter is fully aware of this."
He didn't speak, but I heard his footsteps walking away. He didn't hang up the phone.
I suddenly breathed a long sigh of relief: It would be fine if he didn't hang up the phone.
In fact, the main reason is that I don't know the address of Xiaohui's parents' home, otherwise I would just run there.
After a while, she picked up the receiver. I knew it was her because her breathing came through clearly. I could feel that she was very excited at this moment.
I immediately said: "Hello. I am Feng Xiao. I want to talk to you. This matter has nothing to do with Wang Xin, but I don't want you to make unwise choices. I am doing it for your own good. Okay?
?”
She finally spoke, "Why do you want to be nice to me? Why should I believe you? It was clearly Wang Xin who asked you to call me!"
I almost couldn't help but hang up the phone immediately, because I really felt that I had too many things to do: What are you doing? What does their matter have to do with you?
But I still held back. In fact, I knew in my heart why I did this: not because of Wang Xin, nor because of the woman on the other end of the phone at the moment, but because of Zeng Yufang. Anyway, she once had that kind of relationship with me.
Not to mention the relationship between husband and wife, but she did give me warmth, at least I still retain the tender memory of her.
I said: "Whatever you think. But what I just want to tell you is that I have always felt that I have been sorry for you, because after all, I hurt your self-esteem. Although it was because I was not sensible at that time, but in my heart
I'm still feeling guilty about that incident. It's okay if you don't want to come out, so I'll have a few words with you on the phone. You don't have to speak, just listen. It doesn't matter if you think what I said is right or not.
No relationship, but I hope you can listen to what I have to say. Okay?"
She didn't speak, but she didn't hang up the phone either. I knew she had acquiesced to the approach I just told her.
I said: "Have you ever thought about it? No matter what the result is when you chat with that woman in that way, the problem is not with Wang Xin? I think you may be thinking wrong. To be precise, it should be
That woman's problem, and it doesn't mean that Wang Xin has the intention to cheat. Have you ever thought about it? It's you who is teasing others! Besides, I absolutely believe that Wang Xin will not, at least not under the current circumstances.
Doing such a thing, because he has not been officially elected by the National People's Congress. You should know your own husband very well, right? He takes his own future very seriously! Tell me, how could he commit such a crime at this time?
What about such a low-level mistake? So, in the end, you blamed him wrongly."
At this time, she suddenly said loudly: "He has had such thoughts for a long time! Doesn't he also like to drink with beautiful women? You all know it!"
I said, "How about we not talk about this now? Let's just talk about the current issues. First, do you really want to divorce him? If you really think so, then I won't say anything."
If you don't want to... I believe you don't have such an idea, because the reason why you are angry is that you hate him, and this hatred is because you care about him. So let me talk about the second question, that is, since you don't want to be with him
If you want a divorce, then why do you want to push him to the point where he has to take the initiative to divorce you? Aren't you deliberately pushing him to the opposite side of what you want? Do you know what a man cares about most?
?Let me tell you, that is career and a sense of accomplishment. If you destroy his career, he will hate you for the rest of his life. If that is really the case, it will be impossible for you to bring him back in the future.
It’s absolutely impossible. Do you understand?”
She began to cry, "But Feng Xiao, I feel really uncomfortable. When I think about what kind of man he is, and when I think about the days when we shared joys and sorrows together, my heart feels like being pricked by needles. Wuwu
!”
I also sighed in my heart, "You, after all, you still don't understand men and your husband. Have you ever thought about it? He is about to become the deputy mayor of a prefecture-level city, but you don't understand him at all."
Give him face, look at you, you actually scratched his face like that, you said, how can he go out to meet people? He is a man, a cadre at the deputy department level, why don't you think about him? Hey!
!I really don’t know what you think. I think you need to think about some things from his perspective most now. In other words, you think about this question: If you were him, in such a situation
What would you do in this situation? I think if you think about this problem like this, you will be able to figure it out quickly. Xiaohui, that’s it, I won’t say anything else. I just treat you as a friend.
What you said, as for what your final choice is, I don’t want to worry about it anymore. Think about Wang Xin, think about your children, and think about your own future. That’s it. Goodbye!”
Then I hung up the phone directly. Yes, I had already said everything I should say and wanted to tell her, and anything more would be meaningless.
Then I left the office and drove home. I didn't want to eat outside. I just wanted to go home and cook a bowl of noodles.
Wang Xin's wife didn't call me. I thought: Maybe she has figured it out. In fact, sometimes a person is like this: there are always some things that he can't figure out, just like a person always feels that he has entered a dead end.
The path he was taking was correct and he always kept moving forward stubbornly. But what he needed most at this time was someone to remind him.
There is also what I just told Xiaohui: think about the problem from the other person's perspective. This is empathy. The reason why many of us can't figure out many problems is that we don't know how to think from the other person's perspective. In this case,
You will always feel that you are right, and as a result, you will unknowingly fall into a dead end.
Therefore, I think the ideological work I just did should still be effective. Because she cried later, and because her words also told me something: she really cares about Wang Xin.
Therefore, I made a call to Wang Xin when I was in the car, "I have already called your wife. I think she may have changed her attitude. Well, you go to her place now. Her attitude is
There’s no harm in being better.”
He was overjoyed and said, "Thank you! I'll go right away!"
I then said something to him again, "Wang Xin, I have something I want to give you. Please think about it carefully."
He asked me: "Thank you, please tell me."
So I said to him: "Women are actually spoiled sometimes. You used to tolerate it blindly, which was actually not good. You didn't do anything bad, so what are you afraid of? You can do bad things, but you must not do them.
Let her find out?"
Then I hung up the phone. I don't know why, but at this moment, I suddenly felt that this matter was ridiculous. Then, I felt an invisible sadness welling up in my heart, but I didn't know why I was like this.
.
Later, Wang Xin never called me. I guess my analysis was correct. So I thought to myself: Anyway, I did a good thing. If saving a life is better than building a seven-level pagoda
If so, then the marriage I fixed can at least be regarded as creating a first-class pagoda, right?
I don’t know why, but since I came back from Tibet, I have always used Buddhist ideas to think about some issues. Tibet, Tong Yao... At this moment, the sad mood in my heart became more intense. At this moment, I finally understood myself
Why did I feel that sad mood just now: My own affairs are a mess, why do you care about other people's affairs?
I went back and cooked a bowl of noodles and ate them. They didn't taste good but I ate them all. I was deliberately irritating my stomach and torturing myself.
Afterwards, I went to bed. I didn't want to do anything else because I was in an extremely bad mood.
However, when I went to work the next day, I got even worse news: Yun Tiancai had really been called for investigation. Also, the Health Department asked us to talk to Jiang Mei immediately because Chu Dingnan was explaining the problem.
The time involved her.
The Discipline Inspection Commission of the Department of Health told me about Jiang Mei’s problem and asked us to verify it as soon as possible.
Now, there are only three leaders of the hospital: me, Shen Zhongyuan and Deng Feng. I thought about it and finally decided that Deng Feng and I would talk to her about this matter. Because I thought that Deng Feng was her supervisor after all.
lead.
I didn't expect that the problems in this hospital would be so complicated. (To be continued)