Lin Yi smiled and said: "An organization refers to a collective or group formed by people cooperating with each other to achieve certain goals. To be precise, the organization we often call is a superior in a broad sense. There is another way of saying it, I think this is
The statement is closer to our reality.”
I smiled and asked: "What is that?"
Lin Yi smiled and replied: "The organization means that when you encounter difficulties, it says that there is nothing you can do; when you encounter injustice, it says that you must treat it correctly; when your legitimate rights and interests are infringed, it says that you must take the overall situation into consideration;
When you are framed, he says you have to believe in the organization; when someone needs to make sacrifices, he says the time has come for the organization to test you; when someone needs to charge forward, he says he will be your strong backing; when you succeed, he says
It is said to be the result of tissue culture."
Shangguan Qin and I laughed immediately, and Lin Yi laughed too, and then said: "Actually, the key to the problem is not the organization. So what exactly is the problem? People! Organizations are composed of people. If the organization
If some people inside do not act in accordance with the terms and conditions stipulated by the organization, it will be strange if there are no problems."
I was convinced, "It makes sense!" and then asked him again: "Uncle Lin, how should we deal with the problem I just mentioned?"
He smiled lightly and said: "Believe in the organization."
Shangguanqin and I looked at each other, and then I asked again: "I don't understand what you mean."
He said: "Since the organization is composed of people, and there are always a few people among these people who can decide how to solve such things, then you can just go to these people. As long as you can speak, then I believe
It will be effective. The organization needs the support of the masses more."
I shook my head and said, "I have already contacted the leader, otherwise how could he have come out so easily?" Then I told the whole story of the incident.
After listening to what I said, he immediately began to ponder, "So that's it..."
Then he frowned and started thinking. Shangguanqin and I both looked at him and even forgot to eat.
After a while, Lin Yi picked up the wine glass and said, "Feng Xiao, in fact, we have all fallen into habitual thinking."
I asked him in surprise: "What do you mean?"
He smiled and said: "Feng Xiao, you can go to your director Zou again. As the saying goes, it takes the person who tied the bell to untie it. If you don't go to him again to explain the situation, how do you know he will not change his mind?"
I smiled bitterly and shook my head: "What if... what if he insists on doing that? Moreover, the document sent to us by the Health Department is an official document."
He smiled and said: "Didn't I say it before? What is an organization? It is made up of people. Don't believe so much in those documents. Aren't documents also written by people?"
I seem to understand, but I still think this matter is a bit mysterious.
"Okay, let's not talk anymore. Let's drink. Feng Xiao, just do your best on this matter. One thing you must know is that not all things can be solved through personal strength. Just do your best.
” Then he said.
What else can I say? Besides, this is indeed what he said.
In fact, we didn't drink much wine in the evening, just this one bottle for the three of us. Later, Shangguanqin reminded me. She said: "Chairman...Uncle Lin has a lot of things to do tomorrow, so let's stop here today."
Lin Yi said: "That's alright. Let's find a chance to drink after I've been busy for a while."
Of course I won't say anything more, "Okay. Today is just the day. This meal is very comfortable."
Immediately Shangguanqin went to pay the bill. The three of us ate together and didn't need to pay the bill. This little money was nothing to us.
At this time, Lin Yi asked me: "Feng Xiao, how is she?" After saying that, he pursed his lips toward the seat next to me.
I was stunned for a moment, knowing in my heart that he should already know everything about me and Shangguanqin. I was a little embarrassed, "It's okay."
He immediately laughed, "What do you mean okay?"
I had to answer, "She is actually very nice. I didn't know much about her before. She has a good personality and is very considerate."
She nodded, "To marry a wife, you need a woman like this. Feng Xiao, you have experienced a lot of women. You should know best what kind of woman is suitable to be a wife. As a man, the most important thing is his face.
.If your wife is messing around outside, that kind of woman is in trouble. There are too many women like that now, you should know. To be honest, I have been observing Shangguan Qin for a long time, and I think the biggest advantage of this girl is
Loyalty. Of course, this kind of loyalty is also conditional, that is, you must have a heart-to-heart relationship with her and be truly good to her. Do you understand?"
His first words made me feel embarrassed and a little embarrassed, but what he said next made me feel deeply convinced.
Then, he added: "But she also has many shortcomings, such as being too strong. So you have to let her do a lot of things in the future."
I nodded.
At this time, Shangguanqin came over from a distance, and he also saw it. He finally said this to me, "You can take care of some things by yourself. This is what I am most worried about in the future."
I asked hurriedly: "What are you worried about?"
But he was asking me: "Can you completely cut off all contact with all the women you had before?"
I was stunned immediately. In fact, I was thinking about this question as well, as well as other questions, but what about Lin Yu and Hong Ya? I think, not only is this question difficult for me to answer, but even Lin Yi doesn’t want me to completely agree with him.
Lin Yu broke off the relationship.
I said: "Shangguan said she didn't care about the past, but I can't do that again in the future."
Shangguan Qin was getting closer and closer to us. He sighed and said: "I hope you do the same. Feng Xiao, the relationship between people can be maintained in various ways. I believe you can do better."
.”
Shangguanqin has arrived at the table, "Chairman, would you like to sit down for a while?"
Lin Yi immediately stood up, "Let's go, I have to go back and read some materials. Feng Xiao, let me tell you, you are now the leader of the unit, you should pay attention to strategies and principles in doing things, and don't just be a good person.
.A leader must have his or her own unique personality. Do you understand?"
I kept nodding. I knew what he said was right, but the key to the problem was that I found it difficult for me to do it. It is really difficult for a person to change his habits and personality.
Lin Yi's car was already waiting below, and I guess Xiao Li had been waiting for him outside the hotel.
After Shangguanqin and I sent Lin Yi away, we got in the car and left. I asked Shangguanqin: "Are you going to drive home?"
She said: "Go. But I really want to go back with you like this."
My heart suddenly felt tender, and I suddenly had the same feeling I had when I first got married to Zhao Menglei, that feeling of reluctant attachment. I said, "Just go back like this. I'll take you to work tomorrow."
She immediately became happy, "That's great."
Immediately, I drove to her residence, which is now our home.
The car stopped and turned off, but she sat there without moving. I looked at her and asked, "What are you doing?"
She looked at me charmingly and smiled, "I want you to come over and carry me out of the car."
I hurriedly and nervously looked at the front and rear of the car. It was quiet everywhere in the night. She kept laughing there, "It's so cold now and everyone is staying at home. What are you afraid of? Hehe! I didn't expect you to be so timid."
I muttered, "I don't care, you live here."
But she said: "I have lived here for so long, and the people around me are unfamiliar with each other. Isn't this the case with people in cities now?"
I am convinced. I am not familiar with the people around my house. If it had not been for Tong Yao who forgot to turn off the faucet that day, I would not have paid attention to who lived downstairs until now.
In fact, the root cause of this phenomenon lies in the fact that the relationship between people is becoming more and more indifferent.
Nowadays, interpersonal relationships have become a bare money relationship. No matter what you do, it starts with money. You should accept money but not justice, and money should not recognize people. If the money comes, do it, otherwise your relatives will not recognize it. In the past, you could travel all over the world with reason.
It is difficult to move without reason. Nowadays, it has become the case that if you have money, you can travel all over the world, but if you have no money, it is difficult to move. It is often seen in the news media and is not uncommon in real life. Some children have lost their concept of filial piety to their parents and would rather spend thousands of dollars to raise them.
Pets, but are unwilling to spend hundreds of dollars a month to support the elderly; neighbors hear the sounds of chickens and dogs, and it has become inevitable that they will not interact with each other until they die.
I couldn't help but sigh, and then I got out of the car and walked to her side, opened the door, and looked at her. At this moment, I suddenly felt embarrassed, and I stood there blankly, feeling at a loss.
Her face blushed slightly, and at the same time she looked at me and smiled coquettishly, "Hold me down..."
I hurriedly went to her, stretched my right hand into the crook of her leg, passed my left hand between her waist and the car seat, then hugged her hard, and at the same time said, "You are so heavy!"
"
She couldn't help but giggle, "Yuck!" Then, her hands went around my neck, and she hugged me tightly, and her face was pressed tightly against mine.
On the cheek.
At this moment, I once again really felt a kind of tenderness. Now, I really hope that I can make love with her again without feeling bored again. Because if that can really happen, it will already show the relationship between us.
I have the most basic emotions.
But I don't know if I will really feel that way.
It is a natural feeling that comes from the heart, and you cannot force yourself at all. Although you can pretend to have such emotions, it can only be a performance, because only you know the most true feelings in a person's heart. (Unfinished)