The two of us were lying naked on the bed talking about such a serious topic, but neither of us thought it was a funny thing.
What she talked about was indeed a matter of principle, very cautious, and even related to our future. I began to look serious, because I knew that what she said was right: there is no right or wrong in officialdom, it is just a competition of wisdom.
Lin Yu continued: "The second principle is that you must forget everything I said about your father-in-law."
I didn't understand immediately, "Sister, why?"
She came to kiss my cheek, and then said to me softly: "The reason is very simple. As I said before, those things have no basis. What if it is not the case? Wouldn't that be asking for trouble?
On the other hand, even if those things are true, you should not intervene. You should know what kind of person your father-in-law is. A person with huge wealth, if he does
If he does bad things, it will be earth-shattering. Moreover, if he is really that kind of person, then he must be a ruthless guy, but people haven't discovered his true nature yet. Feng Xiao, your wife is no longer here
, so once you violate his interests, the consequences can be imagined, because he no longer has to worry about you being his daughter’s husband... Feng Xiao, don’t get me wrong, what I said is that if he really
Under the premise that he is a bad person."
I really felt a chilling shock. After thinking about it, I asked her: "Sister, tell me, if he is really that kind of person, if I really accidentally touched his interests,
If so, what will be the most likely outcome?”
She answered me in a dry voice: "You will lose everything, even your life."
My whole body suddenly trembled, and a chill suddenly rose from the bottom of my heart.
She patted my chest gently, "I hope he is not that kind of person. I hope you can forget everything I told you about him today and just laugh it off as if it were roadside news."
I said: "Sister, I understand. I can forget it, but what I need to pay more attention to is not to get involved in anything of his from now on."
She said: "That's right. But what you said is not completely correct. You can't completely avoid participating in all his things. Think about it, if he is really the kind of person in the legend, would you do that?
Don’t let him doubt you?”
I hurriedly asked: "Sister, tell me, what should I do?"
She said: "It's very simple, do it selectively, and sometimes you even have to take the initiative to do something for him. But there is also a principle here, that is, you must choose things that will not cause adverse consequences to you. For example
If something like that happened to Yang Shuguang last time, you could have come to me."
I understood immediately. It seemed that she already knew that Lin Yi came to see me about Yang Shuguang. But there was nothing surprising about this. After all, I had no contact with the land department before. She just needed to think about it carefully.
You will understand what is going on.
I nodded and said: "Sister, I understand. But will something like that have any impact on you in the future? What I'm talking about is, if something happens to Yang Shuguang in the future, or something happens to Lin Yi
And if Yang Shuguang's incident is involved, will it have any bad consequences for you?"
She smiled faintly and said: "Our Provincial Party Committee Organization Department promotes so many officials every year, and a lot of things happen every year. Have you ever seen any leader take corresponding responsibilities? The reason is very simple, because we can clearly understand
Frankly speaking, when we promote someone, we don’t find anything wrong with him.”
I thought that was true, so I said to her: "Sister, what other principles are there? Tell me them all. I have remembered the two things you mentioned earlier."
She said: "Feng Xiao, if you want to continue to develop in the officialdom, you must overcome your soft-heartedness. You said that men should do things neatly and neatly. Sometimes they must make decisions immediately. You should
We know that the most important thing for people in the officialdom to overcome is indecisiveness and soft-heartedness. Such problems are often fatal. There have been many such examples throughout the ages. For example, at the Hongmen Banquet, Liu Bang had already become the victim of Xiang Yu's sword, but in the end, he had an excuse.
He escaped and finally made a comeback, putting Xiang Yu who had an absolute advantage to death. The problem here is that Xiang Yu is too soft-hearted and indecisive. From this incident, it can be explained that a kind-hearted person with a good temper is not suitable for a life-or-death battlefield.
, and it is not suitable for the officialdom where there is overt and covert fighting. So if you want to continue to be a temperamental person, you should leave the officialdom as soon as possible."
I smiled bitterly and said, "Sister, do you think I can still leave you now?"
She looked up at me and smiled and said: "It's good that you know." Then she continued: "Feng Xiao, don't be too afraid of the complexity and cruelty of officialdom. In fact, the way to be an official is also very simple. If you can
Just be cautious at all times and walk on thin ice. This will allow you to be careful at all times and be on guard against your opponents. Then just make a difference based on this. There are only two words that need to be emphasized most in officialdom. These two words
This word is also the essence that people in officialdom should master."
I hurriedly asked: "Sister, what two words?" (To be continued)