Her words made me understand something immediately: Kang Demao did not tell Ding Xiang the most important things between him and me. He is a deep-hearted person, and he probably did not want Ding Xiang to get involved in me and him by not telling Ding Xiang those things.
At this time, I guess he was completely disappointed in me. It should be like this. In the past, he asked Ding Xiang to come to me because at that time he still had a little hope for me.
Therefore, I felt that I couldn't tell her some things. I said: "Dingxiang, I really don't have time. I still have a lot of things on my hands. I have to go to the airport early tomorrow morning to see someone off, and then I will go abroad soon."
, I won’t be able to come back until a month later. But it’s best not to delay the matter between you and Kang Demao any longer. Besides, you are husband and wife. Is there anything that is difficult to discuss between you and him? I am an outsider and I am interfering too much.
It’s not good for your relationship. What do you think?”
She sighed, "Feng Xiao, please stop talking. I understand. You are a good person, but he can't even get along with you, which in itself shows the problem. I'm sorry to bother you."
I was about to speak but she immediately hung up the phone. I couldn't help but be stunned while holding the phone.
That's okay, that's okay. Kang Demao is too suspicious, so I'd better not have any contact with Ding Xiang. I sighed and thought in my heart.
Suddenly I remembered that I had seen unread text messages on my phone, and I hurriedly opened it... I was stunned: This text message was from Governor He.
The content of the text message was the address of a community and the house number. Other than that, there was nothing else.
I looked at the time and saw that she had sent it half an hour ago.
Of course I understood what she meant when she sent me this text message, but I couldn't help but hesitate: Should I go or not?
Thinking of the low conversation between her and Governor Wang tonight, and what I did with her last time, I couldn't help but think to myself: Since this is the case, let's go. No matter what, she is
My leader. Moreover, for her, some things can completely change into clouds or rain. If she complicates some things in anger, it will be troublesome.
Now I finally understand that there are two kinds of people in this world that cannot be offended: villains and leaders.
Of course, villains are not equal to leaders, and leaders cannot be equated with villains. These are two completely different groups.
Villains are people with dual personalities. They have one hand of yin and one hand of yang. They do one thing in front of others and another in front of others. They have completely two attitudes towards people and things that are beneficial and people and things that are not beneficial. Villains are good at causing trouble and like to cause trouble.
Good at doing things. The villain is an expert in civil war and an outsider in external war. A gentleman is as clear as water, and a villain is as moist as oil.
It is said that there are several typical phenomena that help us identify villains: when the leader is on stage, he flatters the person closest to him, and once the leader falls, he scolds the person who is the most vicious. This may be a villain; if the leader
Change the situation. People who win the favor of the current leader by scolding the former leader may be a villain. The person who is most active in giving New Year greetings to the leader every year suddenly stops going this year because the leader has collapsed or retired. This may be a villain. Mention
Carrying a large bag to visit the sick leader, I walked to the door of the ward and heard that the leader had terminal cancer, so I quickly turned around and ran away. This may be a villain.
Some people say that villains are very realistic and will be very active in things that are beneficial. However, villains will not be interested in things that are not beneficial. When you interact with villains, even if you put your heart and soul into it, you can't exchange for the villain's sincerity.
No matter how much you enlighten, persuade, care and help, he will not buy your fault, he will still scold you when you deserve it, and he will be merciless when he punishes you."
A very prominent characteristic of the villain is that he cannot remember the help you gave him, but he will never forget the wrongs you made him. Moreover, the villain loves to hold grudges, loves revenge, and does whatever it takes. When he
When he can't confront you head-on, he will pretend to be pitiful or even crazy, while he will hide in the dark and spread rumors and slander. If he seizes the opportunity, he will cause an uproar and make you miserable.
It cannot be broken down.
There is a type of people who can neither be offended nor avoided, and that is our leaders. In life, unless your parents are rich and don’t have to work, or you start your own company and become your own boss, you have to deal with your leaders. It is said that the common people are the ones who deserve it.
Officials' parents, in fact, leaders are the real parents, because our pitiful little honor, future and interests are all in their hands.
It is said that Khrushchev was furious with a painter. Once, Khrushchev suddenly had a whim and commented on a painter's work. However, the painter refused to buy Khrushchev's account and was stunned in person.
After a few words of defense, Khrushchev's face was completely ruined. He suddenly became furious: What do you mean? Are you saying that I don't know how to paint?! Stop fooling people! When I was the secretary of the Youth League Committee at the grassroots level
I don’t know how to paint. Did I not know how to paint when I was the secretary of the local Party committee? Do you think I still don’t know how to paint now that I am the leader of the country?! You can imagine what happened to the painter later.
This story can completely explain why you should not offend your leader. And I have also heard this saying: You must not offend your female leader, otherwise you will not even know how you will die in the future!
Suddenly thinking of this sentence, I suddenly felt a shudder.
So I hurriedly drove towards the place mentioned in the text message on my mobile phone.
That place is not in the villa community where the governors live, but it is far away from there and not in the same direction at all. I guess Governor He thought that living in a villa alone was too empty, so he lived in another place.
Maybe the place on my mobile phone text message is another place where she lives. It's hard to tell.
After I got there, I discovered that the place she told me was a garden house. This was of course a high-end community, and it was also close to the river.
When I arrived at the door, I hesitated for a moment, took out my phone and read the text message to check if I had gone to the wrong place. Yes, this is it.
I started knocking on the door.
After a while, I noticed a glimmer of light appeared in front of me, and the small window on the iron door was opened from the inside. In front of me was a small part of her face.
She saw me and opened the door immediately.
She closed the door immediately after I entered. I took off my leather shoes, and under my feet were the cloth slippers she had prepared for me. I explained: "Governor He, I put my mobile phone in the car. Please tell the guests
I didn’t see your text message until the arrangements were made.”
She smiled faintly at me: "It's okay. You came very quickly."
I just started to look at her house. I found that the decoration inside was very elegant, with white as the main tone and some red inlays. The decoration inside was very warm, with fabrics taking up the main part, including sofas and dining table surfaces.
On the floor, even the TV and cabinet air conditioner are covered with fabric, giving the impression that she rarely uses these appliances.
"Isn't it nice here?" She asked me with a smile when she saw me observing.
I nodded, "It's very warm. I thought you lived in the villa area of the provincial government."
She smiled and said: "I occasionally go to live there. But it's too cold there. The government office assigned me a nanny. The child watches TV every day and is very noisy."
Her words were very contradictory, but when I thought about it carefully, I no longer felt that there was anything wrong with it: the coldness she said actually refers to the loneliness and noise in her heart, which also illustrates the unrest and irritability in her heart.
At this time, I suddenly noticed a piece of writing on the wall behind the fabric sofa, which contained two words: Wen Shu. I don’t do much calligraphy, but I felt that these two words were not very well written.
It looks a little slender and weak. I have seen Governor He's handwritten instructions, so at first glance these two words should also belong to her handwriting.
She saw me looking at these two words, so she asked me: "Xiao Feng, do you know the meaning of these two words?"
I shook my head. I really didn’t know. I said, “Is it the same place?”
She couldn't stop laughing immediately, "Thank you for thinking about it. Wen Shu refers to the tree in the palace. This dictionary says 'Kong Guang of the Western Han Dynasty did not talk about Wen Shu'. This man named Kong Guang was the fourteenth generation of Confucius.
Sun Tzu, he was the prime minister during the reigns of Emperor Cheng, Emperor Ai, and Emperor Ping of the Han Dynasty in the late Western Han Dynasty. Therefore, many people came to him at that time to inquire about political news. However, this man was very powerful and knew that diseases come from the mouth and disasters come out from the mouth.
For this reason, whenever anyone asked him about anything in the palace, he would give an incorrect answer. Even if someone asked him: What kind of trees are planted in the greenhouse of the palace? He would always consider it. This man is so cautious.
Because of this, he was called the tumbler in the political arena of the Han Dynasty at that time."
I suddenly thought to myself: So that’s it.
She continued: "However, the person who carried forward the word Wen Shu was Song Lian, a great scholar and prince in the Ming Dynasty, who compiled the History of the Yuan Dynasty. He was even more cautious than Kong Guang above.
How cowardly is he? Because he holds a high position, and because he is the Crown Prince and Tutor and often visits the inner court, he knows a lot about the affairs of the palace. Not only is he afraid that others will inquire about him, but he is also afraid of offending those who inquire, so he
I thought of a way to change the name of my room to Wen Shu. When others came in and took a look, they thought, Oh, Wen Shu. Anyone who had read some books in ancient times knew this allusion, so they didn’t ask him anything. If he encountered
Some people who didn't know clearly saw it and asked about it. He also had another trick, which was to write the word "Wen Shu" on paper in advance and hold it in his hand. When others asked, he would show it to others, and when others asked him again, he would show it to others.
Show it to others again
.You see he is such a cautious person, but no matter how careful he is, he still has problems when he is old. His grandson Song Shen was implicated in the rebellion of the then Prime Minister Hu Weiyong and was beheaded. Song Lian was also implicated.
, he was almost executed, but fortunately his student Prince Zhu Biaobao saved him from the death penalty and was sent to Maozhou. He never thought that he would get halfway through. The old man thought about it over and over again and couldn't figure it out: he had been cautious for most of his life, but half of his foot had already stepped in.
When I was carrying the coffin, the boat capsized in the gutter. I couldn't think about it anymore, so I found a hemp rope and tied it to the beam and hanged myself."
I didn't expect that she, who is usually so serious, would be so lively and interesting when telling stories, but her words taught me a lot, and I seemed to understand the reason for her success. But I couldn't help but think: Since She is such a cautious person, so why did she call me here now?
Maybe I had just aroused her interest in this topic, and then I heard her continue to say: "Zhang Tingyu, the prime minister during the heyday of Kangxi and Qianlong, had a famous saying: A thousand words are worth a moment of silence. Zhang Tingyu's outstanding life He is characterized by caution and thoughtfulness. The most important characteristic of his life is caution, silence and prudentness. What's more, next to Yongzheng, a moody, mean and cruel tiger, Zhang Tingyu is like an actor walking on a tightrope, always walking on thin ice, concentrating and not daring to let go for a moment. Zhang Tingyu never kept manuscripts in his private room, nor did he let his family members know about it. He rarely made friends with foreign officials, so Yongzheng trusted him very much and often consulted him on personnel decisions, but he never leaked a trace of information.
He took the emperor's heart as his heart, took the emperor's will as his mind, did everything quietly, and did not make anything public. During the Kangxi and Qianlong dynasties, the thing that emperors hated the most was forming cliques for personal gain. Pearls, asking for pictures, manipulating power for personal gain, and fighting openly and secretly. None of them came to a good end, but he survived three dynasties. This person also has a habit of sorting out the big and small events of the day every day after returning home to see if he said anything wrong. Whatever he did wrong was regarded as homework. And he could always sort out and summarize what everyone said in his mind when he was silent. When the emperor asked him for his opinion, he could always summarize what everyone said, The meaning is the same, but the meaning is very different. It is thorough and complete, and it is watertight. Even those who are summed up cannot help but admire it.
In addition, this person's demeanor is a highlight of his personality. He has general knowledge, great wisdom, good advice, and magnanimity. You see, for such a person, he doesn't want to succeed or be stable all his life. So, Xiao Feng, as a politician, you must remember the word "Wen Shu". Although some people are arrogant for a while, it is hard to say what the final result will be. The higher one goes, the greater the risk. You should keep a low profile. Your incident this time can be regarded as a lesson. Today I briefly told Governor Wang about your incident. He smiled and said to me: I will take the time to tell Mayor Chen about the small matter. Xiao Feng , you should feel relieved now, right?" (To be continued)