I suddenly thought of a person: Governor Wang's secretary. You know, he is the secretary of the provincial government's top leader, so his power cannot be underestimated.
However, I'm not sure whether he can handle this matter at this time, so I can't say more at such a meeting.
This office meeting lasted for a long time, but in the end no problem was solved because no one had any good solutions before such difficulties. If this meeting has any effect, it is that it allowed me to fully understand the project.
The current progress and the difficulties that exist today.
However, as the head of the unit, I cannot escape when faced with such a problem. Moreover, I proposed this project myself. Therefore, I have to rely on myself to solve the problem in the end. This incident also illustrates one point:
The power and responsibility of the top leader are equal, unless you just want to do nothing and retire here leisurely.
Finally, I said: "Let's leave this matter here for the time being. The old director and Director Ruan have really been working too hard recently. You should also take the opportunity to take a rest. Let me think of a solution for this matter."
Ruan Jie stayed after the meeting and asked me, "Do you have any good ideas now?"
I shook my head, "I have to think about it carefully and consult the relevant people first before I speak. To do something, you must first find the root of the problem, then consider the solution, and weigh the pros and cons before making a decision.
.This matter cannot be rushed.”
She sighed and said: "I think this thing is too difficult. Now I don't feel much confidence. I thought it was a simple thing, but I didn't expect it to be so complicated and difficult to do. Hey.
!”
I immediately laughed, "What is not difficult to do nowadays? Isn't it difficult for well-known universities to increase their plans this year? Isn't it finally solved? There is only one thing that is not difficult, and that is to do nothing. You
Ah, how could you lose your confidence like this? Ruan Jie, let me tell you: as long as it is a lock, there must be a key that can open it. But you have to find a way to find this key by yourself. My
Do you understand what I mean?"
Her face suddenly turned red, "I know that's true, but that key is too difficult to find."
I laughed "haha" and said: "First of all, don't be anxious, and then you can slowly think of a solution. Let me figure this out. I believe I will always find the key."
She said, "Yeah." Then she looked at me and seemed to hesitate at the same time.
I immediately asked her: "Is there anything else?"
She was startled for a moment, then shook her head, "No more."
In fact, I didn't want to know some of her things. The more I knew about this woman, the more trouble she would cause. Then I said to her, "Then let's do it."
But she didn't leave immediately. She finally said what she wanted to say, "He and I are planning to divorce."
I was immediately surprised, "Why?"
She said with a sad expression: "He said that he has been sorry for me and the children these years, so he wants to go alone after the divorce."
I find it very unbelievable, because I have never heard of such a reason for divorce. "Is there something wrong with his mind? As long as you don't blame him for this matter, how could he be like this?"
She sighed and said, "I know why he did it."
I looked at her doubtfully, "Why?"
She shook her head and smiled bitterly, "It seems that he has suffered losses in business recently, so he feels that he has no face to face me and the children. His purpose of seeking a divorce from me is probably to share the property with me. In fact, how much property does my family have?
? It’s just a house, and a deposit of over 100,000 yuan, which adds up to only 500,000 to 600,000 yuan. But I have already agreed to him, because I am completely disappointed with him, and this matter will not happen to me.
What an impact.”
I was stunned immediately because I didn’t expect that there would be such a man in this world. To be honest, Ruan Jie had been unlucky for eight lifetimes when she met such a man. At this moment, I felt very sad for her.
, and then asked her softly: "Do you need any help from me? Ruan Jie, that's fine, this kind of man is not worthy of your memory."
She shook her head, "I only have one request, and that is for the child to follow me. The rest is up to him."
I immediately looked at her in surprise, "You can't possibly give him the house, right? Then where will you and your children live in the future?"
She started to cry, "Isn't there a room for me in the unit? There is also a canteen here."
I looked at her in shock, "No! Ruan Jie, you must not do this. Do you know? This will leave a deep shadow on the child's heart. And, after all, you are the leader here, do you want to
Think about it, what will the employees below think of you? I'm afraid it's not as simple as sympathy, right? As a leader, you must at least have your own dignity and majesty, which is more important than anything else."
She wiped away her tears and said with a wry smile: "Let's talk about it. Anyway, I haven't discussed this matter with him in detail yet."
I thought for a while and said: "Put the project aside for now and deal with things at home first. Ruan Jie, if you need my help, just ask me directly. Don't think
This is asking for something from me."
But she was still shaking her head, "How could I not think that way? You have helped me so much, how could I ask you for anything? Now I feel that some of my previous thoughts were ridiculous. I actually imagined them before.
How to develop my career, how to get ahead, now I can't even support my own family, it's really ridiculous to think about it. Hey! Now I really don't want to continue working. If I resign, if I want to go into business or something,
In that case, I might ask you to borrow money or help or something. But now I can’t bear to do it. Anyway, I am now at the senior level, and I also have a more ideal position. Hey! "
Only then did I understand that the loss of confidence she mentioned earlier was not just about that project, but that she began to lose confidence in her entire life.
I said: "Ruan Jie, actually, it is best for you to talk to him about your marriage, even if it is for the sake of your children. But it still depends on your own attitude. I think, even if
It doesn't matter if you want a divorce, after all, your conditions are so good. Besides, I don't think you should give him the house. This is not just a matter of money. As a man, he has not shouldered any responsibilities over the years, and now he is like this
Your request is completely unreasonable. So I don’t think you should make any concessions. If it’s just a matter of money, I think it’s very simple. For example, you can go see a house right away, and I can pay the down payment for you. It doesn’t matter.
Problem. But I don’t think the crux of the problem is here. What do you think?”
What I said is indeed the truest thought in my heart. Nowadays, money is not very important to me. What matters is whether it is worth spending it for. For Ruan Jie, now I feel that
She has a deep sympathy, so it is okay to pay a down payment or more for her house, but I think that would be too cheap for her man. I don’t think it is right for such an irresponsible man.
His behavior should be condoned.
Although Ruan Jie once felt sorry for him, the most fundamental reason is still her man. If analyzed according to the logical relationship of cause and effect, her man's irresponsibility and decadence come first, and her cheating behavior comes second, so I
I think Ruan Jie shouldn't have to pay so much for her fault, not to mention that her man doesn't have any evidence of her cheating.
But she still shook her head and said: "Forget it, it's all my own misfortune. I chose to marry him because of his good family conditions and everything. Now my retribution has come. I deserve this. Feng Xiao, I give
You said this without any other intention. You just feel upset and want to talk about it. Now I don’t want to have too much trouble with him about my marriage. Let him do whatever he wants. I will be free from now on. You
You can come to me anytime from now on without any worries."
I also started to shake my head, "That's not allowed. Because we are colleagues. Okay, let's not talk about such things in the office. You can handle your own affairs first and then talk about it. The house matter... let's do this,
I have a place where you can stay temporarily. It was the house of my first wife and I, and it is empty now. But I have to say something first, because that house is my second house.
A wife bought it, so I can't make the decision to give it to you, but it's no problem if you want to live in it. I still say the same thing, if you need it, I can consider giving you part of the money." (To be continued.)