She looked at me in shock, "Are all of you men possessive of women? It would be terrible if that were the case."
I laughed "haha", "To be precise, men have an uncontrollable desire to possess beautiful women. This is determined by men's animal attributes. Men have a tireless pursuit of women, and this pursuit lasts until death.
They refuse to give up, but in addition to pursuing women, men also have a huge desire for money and power. These are the same purposes as pursuing women, which are to spread their own genes and prevent the spread of other people's genes. The same is true for some men. But
Sometimes they don't just want to possess women just to spread their genes. Sometimes they want to satisfy a certain desire. And this desire is two-fold. On the one hand, it is their own need for desire satisfaction;
It is to prevent others from satisfying their desires. The desires I am talking about are not just physical, but also psychological and spiritual. For example, the desire to succeed in a certain aspect or to achieve something, or for fame or profit.
Wait, through these desires to reflect one's own value, etc., these are psychological or spiritual desires. In a certain sense, these desires do need to be satisfied, otherwise, they will think: the meaning of life
So where? And blocking the satisfaction of other people's desires is not just a block understood in a narrow sense. People always mention the word competition. Men's character and the responsibilities given to them by society make them have to participate in competition. Only by
Competition can gain more survival advantages and reflect greater life value. And this kind of competition, in a sense, is to defeat the other party or block the other party's success, that is to say to block the other party's desire to obtain
Satisfaction. For example, if two people compete for a business transaction, the successful party's desire to obtain the transaction and the benefits generated by the transaction is satisfied, while the failed party's desire to obtain the transaction is naturally not satisfied, that is to say
, the failure of the party, the satisfaction of desires is blocked by the success of the party. In the Peking Opera "The Meeting of Heroes", Zhou Yu sang a song: A real man lives in the world to gain fame, and to gain fame is to comfort his life. To comfort his life, I will be drunk, I will be drunk
It shows that men are passionate about fame. Only when they are successful will they feel that life has value and will they be intoxicated with the enjoyment of life. And in their minds, only successful men are qualified to be proud.
Only then can we have the ability to obtain more genes and better transmission channels, and possess more women. And this success only refers to men who have great power or make a lot of money. Men who have no money or power,
No matter how capable he is, he cannot be considered successful. As for the so-called fame, it refers to the fame that can bring practical benefits. It is connected with profit. Otherwise, no matter how talented a man is, if he cannot obtain profit, he will not be successful.
It’s all bullshit. Haha! This question cannot be answered in one or two sentences. But what I said is definitely the truth.”
She looked at me, "Why are you telling me this?"
I couldn't laugh or cry, "Weren't you asking me just now? I'm just saying this by the way. Ruan Jie, you are a beautiful woman, so it is natural for you to be pursued by men. But you have to make your own conscious choice. Ruan Jie
Jie, I am very happy after hearing what you said before, because you realize the dangers that you may suffer as a beautiful woman. Ruan Jie, let me tell you the truth, only true love between a man and a woman can be maintained for a long time.
, otherwise a man’s pursuit of you can only be limited to the category of possessiveness. This is certainly a kind of physical and psychological satisfaction for men, but what about women? That is a tragedy.
, so I hope you can take advantage of it."
She asked me: "What about you? Do you have feelings for me or are you just possessive?"
I didn't expect her to ask me such a direct question. Maybe it's because we have reached that stage? I replied: "Ruan Jie, it seems that I am not actively pursuing you between us, right?"
She nodded, "That means I am possessive of you, but I have certain feelings for you, really. Then can you agree to be friends with me? Feng Xiao, I can give up my current position for you.
, you can also go to work anywhere else. Are you willing?"
Only then did I realize that I had been deceived by her. It turned out that the purpose of what she had said to me so much before was just this last sentence. I immediately shook my head and said: "Ruan Jie, I'm sorry. I told you before,
I won't get married again unless I meet a woman I really like. I've been married twice, and things like marriage are so talkative these days. So, you'd better go.
Find a man who really likes you and you really like him. Your conditions are so good, it won't be a problem for you."
Her expression suddenly turned gloomy, "Forget it, it seems that I have too much expectations. After all, I am a miserable woman. Now single men like you look down on me, but I have become the target of those married men who try to possess me."
It’s so pathetic when I think about my partner.”
Her words made me feel very guilty, and I said to her gently: "Ruan Jie, don't say that. In fact, the final decision-making power on such matters still lies in your own hands. I hope you will never give up on yourself, for the sake of
You should reorganize your new family for yourself and for your children. What you said earlier is right. For a woman, family is the most important thing, and other things should take their own course.
good."
She looked at me and said, "Forget it. I don't ask to marry you. Now that I'm single, there shouldn't be any problem if we interact, right? You know, I am a woman who lacks sex, and I also hope that you can give
I give you a chance. What if you develop true feelings for me if we are together more often? Of course, I know it is probably because you are tired. But I have to try to find out? Feng Xiao, are you willing to give me this chance?
?I like that you can give me such an opportunity, after all, you also need sex@love."
I suddenly thought of the good things she had given me, and I immediately felt hesitant in my heart. However, I still felt that this was not good. After all, we were from the same company. I said, "Ruan Jie, what happened at home recently?"
Too many. Let’s talk about it later.”
She said in a low voice: "Secretary Luo asked me to have dinner with me tonight, and I haven't completely refused. There is nothing in the office this afternoon. Can you come to my house?"
I was suddenly stunned, "What does it have to do with him inviting you to dinner and you asking me to go to your house in the afternoon?"
She blushed and answered me: "It does matter, or it may not matter. But I want you, can you satisfy me once? This can be regarded as my return to you. Whatever you think."
I sighed and said, "Why bother?"
She left immediately, "Whether you come or not, I will wait for you at home today. The child has gone to kindergarten, and I am the only one at home."
After dinner at noon, I went to her home. I admit that her beauty has a huge temptation for me, not to mention that we haven't been together for a long time. What's more important is that she is single now.
She was taking a shower. After I knocked on the door, she came out wrapped in a bath towel and opened the door. "Just wait a moment, I'll be right away. Thank you for coming."
I waited outside. After a while, she finished washing and sat on the sofa wiping her wet hair with a towel. I waited aside. She was wearing a thin nightgown, and looking at her beautiful appearance, I couldn't help but admire her.
He hugged her and kissed her gently...
I was very disappointed and disappointed in myself. But more importantly, I began to lose confidence in myself.
I once heard someone say something like this: If a man cannot control that part of himself, he will never have any great potential in the future.
I don’t need to make a big difference, but now I am more and more worried that big problems will arise in the future because of my depravity. You must know that such things cannot go wrong, and once problems arise, the organization cannot
If you don't use the following example to deal with it, there is only one result: everything you have now will be destroyed.
Cold sweat started to break out on my back, and the first thing I thought of was to leave.
"Why did you leave?" She asked me in surprise as she was lying on the sofa, her beautiful body shaking in front of my eyes.
"Ruan Jie, we really can't do this kind of thing again in the future. Now I regret it very much. You can do it yourself." I said, quickly put on my clothes and went out directly.
My leaving was like running away.
It wasn't until I got to the car that I could calm down. I was thinking: Maybe Ruan Jie is very disappointed with me, because today I behaved like a man who doesn't recognize people when he lifts his pants. But in my heart, I
I hope she will start to be disappointed with me from now on.
And Tang Zi... At this moment, the uneasiness that appeared in my heart last night suddenly rose again, and I felt that it was best for the relationship between me and her to end here. If
Just from the perspective of physiological needs, the most I can do now is keep one woman and maintain that kind of relationship with her for a long time, and that is Zhong Feng.
Because she can make me feel safe.
As for Lin Yu, she and I can only be together occasionally. Because almost all the initiative between us lies with her. And Governor He... It is best not to continue with her in the future. She and I
There is no emotion at all, and the interaction between me and her makes me feel that it is a undignified thing.
But I have to call Tang Zi. This is just like writing an article where you need to use a period to finish a sentence. The matter between me and her should also be settled from now on.
"I'm in a meeting this morning." That's the first thing I said to her after the phone call ended, because I didn't want to make her angry, I just wanted to talk to her calmly about the matter I was planning to talk to her about.
Originally, I should have warned her not to call me like that during my working hours, but now it seems that it is not necessary.
She said: "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have called you at that time. Is it convenient for you to talk now?"
I replied: "Of course it's convenient, otherwise why would I take the initiative to call you?"
She immediately asked me: "Let me ask you, why did you just run away like that last night?"
I said: "I have to go to work, and last night...forget it, let's not talk about it. Tang Zi..."
But before I finished speaking, I heard her whispering: "Feng Xiao, do you know? I was so happy last night."
At this time, I could only harden my heart and say: "Tang Zi, what you said to me when we had dinner yesterday, I thought about it for a long time after I came back, and I think you are right. So, I think from now on we
It’s better not to do things like that again. I think it’s not good to keep writing like this, and my children are growing up, and I don’t want them to know that their father is that kind of person when they grow up.”
She was silent for a moment, and then asked me: "Have you thought about it?"
I replied: "Yes."
She asked me again: "Are you sure you can do it? Feng Xiao, in this way, if you can really do it, I will no longer come to you, and I will support you."
I wasn't sure in my heart, but I was saying, "I believe I can do it."
She suddenly laughed, "Really? Feng Xiao, you should know that if you want me to believe you, you have to really do it, and I will have many ways to verify whether you have done it."
I was suddenly stunned, "How are you going to verify it?"
She sneered and said: "I won't tell you. Feng Xiao, I think you were a little more acceptable before because you were sincere to women. But now... you have changed and become more heart-warming."
You are hardened and your heart is cold. But that’s okay. As long as you can really do it, I think it will be a good thing for you and us women. You can do it yourself."
Immediately, she hung up the phone in my astonishment.
I couldn't help but smile bitterly. At this moment, I couldn't help but ask myself: Feng Xiao, can you really do it? Yes, I will try my best... No, it's not my best, it's necessary, because trying my best is actually giving to myself.
make excuse.
I don’t know why I suddenly had the idea to change my mind immediately on this day. Maybe it was because I felt dull after having sex twice in a row. Maybe my body had begun to feel serious discomfort. It was even more likely that I
Suddenly I realized that some kind of danger was approaching me... (To be continued)