After listening to this, I couldn't help but sigh in my heart: Many times, people describe criminals as too stupid. In fact, this is just a superficial phenomenon, and the real reason why they are quickly arrested is their inner luck. And there are
The fear of wandering.
In fact, this man is cowardly and sensitive, but poverty and humiliation make his hatred extremely terrifying.
This man should also be a smart man, and he should also love his wife deeply, otherwise he will not find out from his wife's abnormality that she may have cheated on her.
From a psychological and behavioral analysis, women often undergo some changes once they cheat -
The first is the change in the concept of time. This is easy to understand. My wife, who used to come home on time, suddenly often comes home very late or leaves home too early. She also likes to often inquire about her husband’s schedule and when he goes on business trips.
Working overtime and going home, it seems like you are caring about your man when he goes out, you are afraid of an accident, you are worried about him, but in fact sometimes this is just because you are afraid that your man will discover your secrets and prepare yourself. Not only that,
Originally, birthdays and wedding anniversaries of some young relationships could be forgotten, but the concept of time that was clearly remembered in my mind suddenly began to shrink, which means that there is something wrong in the wife's heart.
The second is emotional instability. When a person is doing something that even he feels is disgraceful and indebted to others, his mentality is often weak and timid, and he always tries to cover up the truth, hide his traces, and try to
Keep things to a minimum to avoid exposing the traces and arousing the alertness and suspicion of bystanders. In the same way, a wife who has changed her mind and found a new love, no matter how she disguises herself or creates illusions to confuse her husband's judgment, as long as she pays attention
Observing, it is not difficult to find clues of her change of heart, because at this time, she will suddenly become more moody, picky and ruthless towards her husband than before.
The third is a change in habits. According to common sense, some of our sudden changes in habits and routines are mostly due to causes. For example, a person who was not very enthusiastic about work in the unit suddenly claims that he has been very busy recently and needs to work overtime.
It's weird to have to go on a business trip. It's like a wife who was originally enthusiastic about housework, but suddenly becomes neglectful of housework, often goes out to rush for time, and says she won't go home for dinner tonight. It's weird, just like we have always been enemies.
The sworn enemies suddenly became close. The two people either had ulterior motives or were hiding murderous intentions. This was the tail end of a change in habits.
The fourth is an increase in activities. This is actually one of the most important details in changing habits. Women's strategies are often very superficial. Women with scheming ideas like Bond girls cannot be married by ordinary men, so once they don't
A lover who likes social activities too much begins to like to go to various occasions, such as running in the morning, bar gatherings, etc. We cannot say that our wife’s personality has changed from introversion to extroversion, because it is almost impossible for a person’s personality to change.
Fifth, high phone bills. Phone calls are a commonly used method of communication and dating in life. However, the phone calls of those who have affairs often have abnormal reactions. Women are animals that are best at lying. They lie to ensure that their faces are not red and their necks are not thick.
, breathless, as lifelike as if nothing happened.
Sixth, expenses have skyrocketed. After a woman has an affair, her expenses increase. Most of the money is spent on purchasing a series of private cosmetics to ensure her youthful invincibility and attract men. Sometimes she will also deliberately seduce the woman she likes.
When a man expresses his true love, such as a suit, a man will spend money to keep a mistress. The same is true for women, so they save private money more secretly and hide various extra income from their husbands to meet their needs.
Seventh, eyes are dull. Only women who have reached menopause will be careless. Women who cheat will also be like this: today they forgot to buy the necessary items, and tomorrow they just put the clothes that should be washed in the washing machine without any movement, and they are idle.
Her eyes would be dull and her expression would be in a trance, and she would look at the mountain as if she was worried. However, she would not take the initiative to tell her husband what was wrong with her, but would be left alone to worry about it silently.
And at this time, when her husband asks her if she feels uncomfortable or sick, she will not pretend not to know that her husband is calling her or talking to her, but will turn her head, change her expression, and always smile at her husband.
He said: Dear, I'm fine, you can go to sleep first, okay.
Eighth, memory loss. Women during the relationship are often much more attentive than men. Men are often careless and careless, but women can remember the interesting things during your relationship. Under normal circumstances, every time your wife talks to you.
When my husband talks about things in the past, he always says, "Look, we were often chased by people at that time. If I wanted you, if you took half a step at night, I might marry that man. You are still lucky, but
If a wife after an affair is cheated on by her husband and asks her what she used to say often, she will definitely become impatient. At this time, the wife will be like Daji possessed by a vixen.
Ninth, sex life is becoming less and less. Sex life is often a touchstone to test the quality of a couple's relationship. A wife who is changing her heart or has changed her heart will no longer have the usual passion and warmth in her sex life.
When a couple does their weekly homework, the husband will find that his wife’s sex life has become nothing more than a simple routine. In the past, she would joke with her husband after finishing work, praising her husband for his great health.
Such sweet words are now as insensitive as wood and have completely lost their true emotional connotation.
Ten is alienation from family ties. If we say that a marriage without sexual love is a disharmonious marriage, disharmony means that the love is not perfect. Perfect love should be friendly, caring and understanding to each other, rather than hiding things from each other. If the sexual life is reduced, it will still be possible.
Tolerance is not enough to explain anything, so as a woman who is a mother, when she starts to ignore even her own flesh and blood, she has to doubt the truth behind what this wife is doing...
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I sighed in my heart. Then I asked Director Lu, "Have you reported this matter to Secretary Chen?"
He nodded, "I've already called him to report."
I looked at him dissatisfied and said, "Finish your speech. Does Secretary Chen have any instructions?"
He said hurriedly: "Secretary Chen said we would wait until he comes back. He also said that since this case is a murder of love, it will not have much impact on the overall situation of Shangjiang City, so let us close the case directly."
I looked at him thoughtfully, "Secretary Chen didn't mention how to deal with the coal mine owner's bribery?"
He shook his head.
I nodded and said, "Then let's wait until Secretary Chen comes back."
Now I seem to have understood: Secretary Chen may not want to involve more people in this case because of Secretary Liu's sake. And his purpose of doing this is to be able to control Secretary Liu more.
There is another rule in the officialdom: the fewer enemies the better, and being able to turn enemies into friends is the best choice.
That evening, on behalf of the municipal party committee and the municipal government, I invited three criminal investigation experts from the provincial department to have a meal to thank them for their help in solving this case. The secretary of the Political and Legal Affairs Committee attended the dinner.
Of course Secretary Liu didn't come to attend. Of course, we didn't notify him at all. Such things are very taboo for him, and notifying him would be like a slap in the face.
The office director surnamed Su arranged today's dinner very well. She did not arrange for today's dinner in a hotel, but in a game restaurant. Our table was filled with hare, wild duck, wild boar and other delicious and vegetarian dishes.
It is also a wild vegetable. Moreover, the cooking techniques of this restaurant are very good, and it has a different flavor in your mouth.
The deputy captain of the Provincial Criminal Police Team is very talkative and drinks a lot. The case has been solved. The Secretary of the Political and Legal Affairs Committee and Director Lu and I are very relaxed, so I took advantage of this relaxation to pay tribute to three criminal investigation experts from the provincial capital.
Several glasses of wine.
When I was half drunk, Captain Jiang from the Provincial Criminal Police Team said to me: "Mayor Feng, your reasoning ability is really extraordinary. After all, you are not a person in our field, but you still reasoned about the process of this case.
Eight, nine is inseparable from ten. Mayor Feng, now I would like to ask you to analyze another case. I wonder if you are interested?"
I smiled slightly and said: "I am interested, but my ability in this area is not as strong as you said. My analysis of this case is just a coincidence, or this case is not very good in the first place."
It’s complicated. Let’s talk about it and listen to it. Let’s all analyze and analyze it together. Just treat it as an entertainment program at the wine table.” (To be continued)