"It hurts. I'm so scared," she said, with a cry in her voice.
"It's okay. She should clean it up for you. In the past few days, you should be careful not to sleep with him, try not to use cold water, and strengthen nutrition." I said to her softly.
"Yeah." She said softly.
I then drove the car slowly outside.
Dai Qian called and said, "I have completed the operation on your friend. Mayor Feng, I did it very carefully. Don't worry."
It seems that Wu Dongmei didn't tell Dai Qian that I sent her here. This girl is really sensible. I thought to myself. I said: "Thank you. Dai Qian, I came to your hospital to see you a few days ago.
, the construction is very good. Are all the equipment and everything in place now?"
She smiled and said: "It's almost done. The renovation of the hospital has been basically completed, only the final greening part is left."
I smiled and said, "You are so capable. I didn't misjudge the person at that time."
She smiled and said: "What can I do? I didn't do it exactly according to your idea at the time? And you were still helping us coordinate the loan later."
I said: "This is already very difficult. At that time, I looked at the whole hospital, that is, you can do this well... By the way, Dai Qian, let me treat you to a meal when you have time.
Thank you for your help today."
She immediately asked me: "You are in Shangjiang City, right? Come back now, I will treat you to a beer tonight. Anyway, it will only take an hour."
I immediately thought: I might as well call Director Zou out tonight and tell him my thoughts. I immediately made up my mind, "Okay. Then I'll call you later."
I sent Udonmei outside the provincial leaders' villa area, stopped the car on a curve some distance away from the gate, and then said to her softly: "You can only go in by yourself. Dongmei, you must pay attention.
Body, you are still young."
She said, "Yeah." Then she looked at me, as if she was hesitant to speak. I said to her, "If you have anything to do, just tell me. It's okay."
She said: "Teacher Feng, I want to go to work..."
I was stunned for a moment, "Your graduate exam scores this year are so bad, so I can't help you. It's not impossible for you to work, but it's hard for undergraduates to find a suitable job now. So, no matter how good you are
Review for a year. When the time comes, you tell me in advance and I will ask the tutor you are preparing to take the exam to give you some guidance. If you fail to pass the exam next year, I will try my best to find a way to arrange a job for you. Do you think this is okay?"
She hesitated for a moment, then nodded and said, "Okay."
I sighed in my heart. In fact, I know what she is thinking. Now she is like a bird in a cage. In the past, all her goals were for money, but now, she will definitely think about her future career.
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American psychologist Maslow specifically studied the theory of human needs hierarchy. He divided needs into five categories: physiological needs, safety needs, social needs, esteem needs and self-actualization needs, from lower levels to higher levels.
Physiological needs refer to the basic needs for sex, food, water, air and housing. These needs are the lowest level. People always try their best to satisfy such needs before turning to higher-level needs. A person does not feel hungry when he is hungry.
Interested in anything else, his main motivation is getting food. Even today, many people are unable to meet these basic physiological needs.
Human safety needs include the need for personal safety, life stability, and freedom from pain, threats or diseases. Like physiological needs, until safety needs are not met, this is the only thing people care about.
The next higher level is social needs. Social needs include the need for friendship, love and affiliation. When physiological needs and safety needs are met, social needs will become prominent and have a motivating effect.
Then there is the need for esteem. The need for respect includes both the personal feeling of achievement or self-worth, and the recognition and respect of others for themselves. People at this level are concerned about achievement, reputation, status and promotion opportunities. When they get these
, not only wins people's respect, but also makes them full of confidence in their hearts because of the satisfaction of their own value. Failure to meet such needs will make them feel frustrated. If the honor given by others is not based on their true talents and learning, but in vain
, will also pose a threat to their psychology.
People's highest need is the need for self-realization. The goal of self-realization needs is self-realization, or the realization of potential. People who have reached the state of self-realization accept themselves and others.
Maslow's theory has been recognized by many psychology experts, and it can also be said to be an inevitable trend in the psychological development of each of us. Therefore, it is normal for Udonmei to have other ideas now.
But her idea is unrealistic, because Governor Huang needs her now. Although I didn't say this to her explicitly, she should be able to feel the implication of what I said.
She is a smart and sensible girl, but the sad thing is that she was born in such a family. This is actually a person's fate.
She was about to get off the car. I suddenly remembered something and stopped her immediately, "Dongmei, you have to remind him at any time in the future. Do you understand? Try to do this kind of surgery as little as possible, otherwise you may become infertile in the future.
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She glanced at me, and there was a trace of hesitation in her eyes, "Yeah."
After getting off the car, she walked forward. Watching her back slowly disappear around the corner, I suddenly felt an indescribable discomfort in my heart.
He could only sigh and then turn the car around.
Feeling depressed, I called Director Zou when I drove the car to the main road, "Director Zou, I'm back to the provincial capital. Let's find a place to sit down later. How about it?"
He said: "At this time? Now I don't dare to eat at night, and I have to drink when I'm with you. I've gained a lot of weight recently, please spare me."
I suddenly felt a little unhappy, but after all, I thought that he was my former leader, so I didn’t say much. I said, "Okay. Let’s leave it another day. But Director Zou, I’ve been too busy recently."
I'm busy. Unless you come to our Shangjiang City to inspect the work, we may have to find an opportunity to drink together in the provincial capital."
He said: "Listening to what you said, I feel that I should be a little bit wrong. As the saying goes, when a pregnant woman meets an old lover, she would rather hurt her body than her feelings. What's more, you and I are still in an old relationship for many years? That's okay, you say
Well, where?"
I immediately became happy and said, "Director Zou, with you here, we can't go to the food stalls, right? Let's go to the fish farm by the river. That place is nice. I'm going to get a private room now."
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He said: "Okay. I'll be right over."
I then called Dai Qian and told her the location. She also said she would come right away.
In fact, if we were drinking at this time, it would only be lively with at least five people, but I thought that I would talk to Director Zou about Dai Qian today, so I no longer wanted to call other people.
When I am busy on weekdays, I often don’t think too much about many things, but in situations like today, I always think of some friends, and I immediately have the urge to drink with them. For example, Kang Demao, and Yang
dawn.
But it was definitely not appropriate to call them tonight, so I immediately felt tired. Friends need to be together often, so that they don’t become strangers and misunderstandings don’t happen. But I have something.
A kind of inertia, even when you are free, that kind of inertia will make you forget such things. If this continues for a long time, you will feel as if you owe something, so you will say to yourself: Next time, there will be something next time
I will definitely make an appointment with them when I have free time. But when the next time comes, it is often the same situation. So, I feel tired in my heart.
After arriving at the fish shop, I immediately asked for a private room. Private rooms are often available at this time, because many people like to eat late night snacks in the lobby, and such a place is busy.
I ordered a few kilograms of wild fish flavored with pickled peppers, fried small fish, and a few cold dishes. It was mainly for drinking and chatting, so the dishes were simple and elegant. Then I ordered another beer. (To be completed.